Some people say that the only sense of security in life comes from fully experiencing the insecurity in life. Change is such an active choice and experience, putting yourself in various possibilities, like a clay figurine, constantly breaking and reshaping. Every update is inevitably accompanied by pain, but you will also meet a new and better self.

I am going through such a process of breaking and reshaping now, because I want to meet a better self.

Staying in the comfort zone for a long time will really confuse, confuse, panic and lose.

It has been fourteen years since I graduated and entered the system. It is said that it is an itch of seven years. By the fourteenth year, I was a little impatient. I have asked myself countless times, is this the life you want? Do you like working nonstop every day?

To tell the truth, this is not the life I want, and this is not the life I like. In the last two years, I have often told my husband that I feel hollowed out and I need to absorb energy urgently. I want to do what I like, and I don't want to live a life where I can see my head at a glance.

My husband is very understanding and supportive, saying that no matter what decision you want to make, I will support you. Touched by tears, the greatest happiness in life is to find a partner who understands and supports you.

With the support of my husband, I decided to resign. I want to live more wonderfully and make myself happy.

So I started a different life.

Become a disseminator of etiquette

I like training and want to be a trainer, so I signed up for the etiquette trainer class. Why should I sign up for the etiquette trainer class? In fact, my knowledge was superficial at first, just because etiquette training should be easy to get started. But in fact, when I really understand the etiquette, I found that it is not what I imagined, and it is not a simple basic behavior etiquette such as standing, sitting, squatting, riding and banquet. This is a cultural heritage. China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times! I think this is worth following all my life, so I am determined to be a cultural communicator of etiquette, cultivate myself with etiquette, educate people with etiquette, gather together with etiquette and help the world with etiquette.

Take the postgraduate entrance examination

Postgraduate entrance examination has always been one of my ideas. I know the truth that "young people don't work hard, but old people are sad", and I also suffer from it, hahaha.

Use books, hate less.

Fortunately, I still have a choice. Although I am about to enter the fourth grade, my memory is seriously degraded and the exam will be more difficult, but I don't want to regret it.

I think graduate school is not only for myself, but more importantly, it can better accompany children to grow up.

Don't go out when you meet 007.

I know 007 because my husband knows that I am eager to learn new knowledge. He also suggested that I learn to export as a etiquette trainer, so he recommended his high school classmate Stefanie to me. Yanzi is not only a mother with a second child, but also a lifelong learner.

Therefore, when I meet 007, I should be grateful to Swallow. I feel full of positive energy from her. Her article is excellent. Swallow told me that 007 has played a very good role in promoting all aspects of her life. She recommended me to watch Qin Jie's 137 method, which I found particularly useful, and I immediately signed up as a member of 007. Don't I want to change it? Here's your chance!

In fact, before writing this article, I still have a try attitude, because writing seems too far away for me. The key point is that I have never written it, and even the diaries required by primary school teachers are coping diaries. Swallow encouraged me to say that no one was born to write, but grew up bit by bit. Writing is a process of thinking and combing, which is very helpful to improve one's logical thinking ability, expression ability and communication ability.

Since writing has so many benefits, why don't I give it a try? How nice it is to record your life and your growth! What's more, it's great to think that there are so many people writing together, growing together and promoting each other.

Finish first, then perfect.

I want to say that I am not the original me, whether I am a disseminator of etiquette, a postgraduate entrance examination or writing. I believe that as long as we don't set limits for ourselves and break through again and again, we can meet better ourselves. Come on!