Parents are children's first teachers, and good family education is of great significance to children's growth. The following are some experiences told by a parent.
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor under the education of school, society and family, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents and use their own efforts to follow their own path of life, their children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others.
Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living in quarrels, complaints, partiality and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference. This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and society.
In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children so that they can become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion. (I wish you a happy family)