I don't know which first-tier city you are in. If you are in a first-tier city, the salary is really hard to get. If you are in a second-tier city, the salary is ok. If you are in a third-and fourth-tier city, your salary has been very successful! But you said you graduated for six years, with a monthly salary of six or seven thousand yuan, no car, no house and no deposit. I guess you are in a first-tier city, otherwise you have no car, no room and no savings!

In fact, I graduated from college for six years, and my salary is not as high as yours, more than 5 thousand. But I am in a third-tier city, with no house, no car and no savings, but I have a daughter-in-law and two children. I really can't save money, but I don't know where all your money has been spent. Your single salary is ok, and you shouldn't be unable to save money unless you have poor self-control and can't control your own spending, or everyone around you does. But I think I'm an adult at the age of 30. I need to have self-control and goals. There is no need to go to parties and drink every day, but there is time to study and do things that are meaningful to you.