The psychological immaturity and inadaptability of adolescent children is rooted in the turbulent period of the whole psychological life. It is based on psychological frustration and trauma, and the exertion of psychological adaptation function is hindered, thus reducing the level of adaptation function, and its behavior is blind and irrational domination. Individual socialization is easy to produce a seemingly negative thing in adolescence, and its essence is to contain some positive psychological qualities. Psychologists in Xi 'an Naokang Psychological Rehabilitation Hospital pointed out that only when parents fully understand their children's rebellious psychology and weariness of learning can they guide their children patiently, meticulously and appropriately and promote their maturity more quickly. Adolescent rebellion and weariness of learning are very frustrating. My child is in the fifth grade. He doesn't want to go to school and cries all day. In the morning, they said they had a stomachache and a fever. There is really no way to take a long-term leave. Later, we went to Xi 'an Naokang Psychological Rehabilitation Hospital, a psychological hospital affiliated to Shaanxi University of Traditional Chinese Medicine. The psychologist there was patient and slowly told the children why they didn't want to go to school. Later, they learned that children were bullied at school because they were threatened. After a period of psychological counseling and communication and coordination with teachers, children are willing to return to campus. What teachers can do is to communicate with students like friends, to ensure that children are not bullied or treated in isolation at school, and to feedback their situation to parents in time.