First, pay attention to children's growth needs and meet their growth needs. Children are constantly developing individuals and have their own development needs. As parents, we should pay attention to their growth and development needs. If the child insists on doing something at home, do it by himself, as long as it doesn't hurt the child and is not dangerous, let the child do it. Perhaps what he learned is the lesson of failure, and it is also the experience of life for him. He will learn from it next time he does such a thing. For another example, when children walk with adults, children will like to walk along the road, which is a very interesting thing for children and an activity to develop their balance ability. If it is not a busy road, parents can let their children walk, but they should warn their children to pay attention to safety. The child is growing up. As adults, we should provide material and spiritual protection for children's growth, instead of limiting and depriving children of opportunities for development and growth. In addition, in kindergartens, our teachers should also create conditions and opportunities for children to promote their development. Parents should give their children full love and let them learn to love in an atmosphere of love. If I ask you a question: Do you love your children? 100% of parents will answer without hesitation: love! I absolutely love my children! But do you really love your children? Is your love conditional? Conditional love is not true love, you love not your own children, but your own face! Why do we all take care of our children when they go to kindergarten, and they are close to us, but they are alienated from us when they arrive at primary and secondary schools? That's because family ties are submerged in cold study, and study and examination have separated family ties. Therefore, as parents, we should love selflessly and rationally. Children can learn to love only by being loved. There is a saying that "children who grow up with encouragement learn to appreciate others, and children who grow up with criticism learn to hate the world!" " So, what is love for all parents here? Love is appreciation, love is giving, love is companionship, love is a parent-child game, and love is an expectation of adults for children! Children live in such an atmosphere of love, how can he become a Ma Jiajue-style person? How did he become the chief culprit in the sulfuric acid throwing bear incident? A caring person is welcomed by the whole world and is an angel in your heart! Third, cultivate children's sense of cooperation and learn to share with others. Compared with small classes, children aged 4-5 have a sense of cooperation and a tendency to cooperate with others. Children in small classes play games by themselves, and we often have to reach one person when delivering materials to children. Why? Because children of this age are at a stage of playing alone, they will not discuss with others or cooperate with others. In the middle class, children will put their toys together to build or share the happiness of success. This stage is an important stage to cultivate cooperation consciousness and ability. At home, we should also create conditions for children to play cooperative games. If mother and son do the same thing, encourage children to play games with neighbors, share gifts and share the happiness of cooperation. Fourth, let go boldly and cultivate children's self-service ability. After a year of exercise, children are no longer strangers to kindergarten life. At the same time, children learn to eat by themselves and handle some simple things by themselves. Then, through the change of children, parents can also see that there are some things that children can't do, but we don't let them know. I think this is the first step for children to learn to serve themselves. Here, we should unanimously ask for * * * cooperation. For example, when getting up in the morning, let children learn to wear clothes and shoes, learn to tie shoelaces and fold quilts. Readers should tidy up their belongings, take things with them when they go out every day, wash their faces and brush their teeth before going to bed at night, and put their clothes in a fixed position. These abilities may be more useful than how many Tang poems a child can recite and how many numbers he can write. Learn these. If a person can only open his mouth and reach out, even if he is admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University, he will eventually suffer from mental contusion because he can't take care of himself, leading to mental disorder and even serious death. This will not be the result we want. Fifth, create a good learning environment and cultivate children's good study habits. The children in the middle class pay attention to reinforcement and their ability to concentrate on their studies has been greatly improved. Then children's good study habits need to be cultivated from an early age, and a good learning environment must be created for children. Give children a quiet and independent space, and let them read, draw and play games in their own space. In addition, adults should set an example for their children to learn. Adults should love reading books and newspapers and study hard. If it's playing mahjong or watching TV, let the children study. Do you think children can stand reading? I think the best way for children to learn is for you to read and study with your children to get the best results. To diversify children's learning forms, we should not only learn from books, but also learn from nature. Parents should always take their children to bookstores, museums, and the wild, so that children can be well informed, enrich their experiences, develop good habits of observation, thinking, and questioning, and lay a good foundation for their future study.