In my freshman year, my father and someone else's company declared bankruptcy. Overnight, I changed from a carefree "rich second generation" to a "negative second generation" with nothing.
On the night when I came back from the winter vacation, my mother told me that there was no money for me to go to college.
There are only two choices before me: the first is to drop out of school, and the second is to work-study program. Our parents raised us from childhood and trained several college students. Every day is hard. I have no right to complain about the situation.
I really thought about my future for the first time. At that time, I didn't have a skill, outstanding ability, education and background. How did I break out in Shenzhen? I keep asking myself. For the future, I am full of confusion and fear for the first time.
People are alive, that is, they have to walk seriously once to not waste this life! The longing for a better life in the future supports me to go on. I decided to continue to go to college on my knees. I can work to earn tuition and take classes at the same time. I believe I can control my own destiny. With this self-confidence, I went back to school and started a different life from many classmates.
Most of my classmates are locals, and they are really rich second generation. In such a group, I am doing something different from them. Every morning, as soon as they go to bed after playing games, I get up and brush my teeth. Every night, when they take a shower and are watching movies for entertainment, I drag my tired body back to the dormitory. At that time, in order to earn more money, I found many part-time jobs. At most, I worked four part-time jobs at the same time.
In this way, I rely on my own efforts to make my life not bad.
Every section of the road you have taken seriously will not be in vain. Now, I am actually very grateful to myself at that time, because the experience during that time made me really realize what persistence is and what independent thinking is.
In 2008, my father suffered a serious car accident, which made this dilapidated family worse. The economic pillar of the family suddenly collapsed, and the situation at home became very difficult.
The most painful thing in life is that when your family needs your help most, there is nothing you can do. ?
From then on, I vowed to be a capable person. I don't want to be helpless when I have difficulties at home.
I began to think about my job after graduation. I want to get ahead in Shenzhen, but like many college students, I am at a loss about my life direction and don't know what I can do.
I must first find my own direction in life. How to get out of confusion? Only action. Everyone understands the truth, but many people still can't live a good life. Because many people know, but few people can do it.
So, when I was a junior, I went out for an internship. I have worked in human resources, sales, statistics, machine assembly and leaflet distribution. ...
After changing several internship jobs, I have more affirmation and am no longer as scared as before. Because I am more and more clear about my career orientation, I seem to have more and more confidence in the future. Perhaps, this is the advantage of constantly trying. ?
Because I am not willing to live a mediocre life, I decided to start a business with my friends when I was in senior three. I think entrepreneurship is the most suitable development path for me. Therefore, before I graduated, I used the 30,000 yuan saved by my part-time job in the university to open a tutoring agency with a friend to tutor junior high school students. When you started your business, you didn't have any customers. You should look for both teacher resources and customer resources.
Every college student is full of ambition, but the reality will always tell you that everything is not that easy.
Due to lack of experience, I have an ideal, but I lack the ability and courage to realize it. Every time I go to a customer, I am full of fear and dare not talk about cooperation with others. In addition, my lack of self-confidence and leadership also prevents my team members from realizing my ideas with high quality as required. For half a year, we had to stop the operation of the team because of the shortage of funds.
But I soon pulled myself together. With this failure, I know that with the direction, I still need the ability and down-to-earth to realize my dream. I know that eloquence, courage and interpersonal communication are the key elements of my career success, so I began to improve my ability in these areas through actions. A career, only with the ability, can be done well, can have results, and can achieve professional success. Therefore, in order to improve my eloquence, I get up early every day to recite The Greatest Salesman in the World. When my roommates saw my state, they were frightened and thought I was possessed. Even in the most difficult economic times, I tried to save money to attend many training courses. I keep training every day, which greatly improves my eloquence.
I also organize Shenzhen friends who are interested in speaking eloquence to speak outdoors every week. I have been to parks, squares and other outdoor occasions to give speeches. The strange eyes of others did not make me shrink back, but made me more eager to show myself in front of them.
This is a changing era. Because I have always known that if you want to live a different life from others, you must endure the sufferings that others can't stand and do what others dare not do!
When you get used to anyone's eyes, anyone's blows and speeches on any occasion, you will find that you gradually become confident. When you are confident, the world will make way for you.
Wang Shi said that being strong is to make discomfort comfortable. I always challenge my discomfort until it becomes my comfort. The "tossing" in the university made me successfully get an OFFER from a famous domestic real estate company one month after graduation, and the position was a management trainee.
After entering this company, I started a very smooth career in human resource management. Choosing human resources work is the result of my constant attempts. And finally proved that my choice was correct. Doing this job can give full play to my advantages and specialties, make me work harder and harder, get better and better performance, and be recognized by more and more leaders. After working for so many years, I still haven't given up the pursuit of growth, and I have given all the weekend time to various trainings. So far, I have spent more than 10 million on various training courses.
When you make the right choice, all your efforts will become an engine, which will make your development faster and faster!
After several years of human resource management, I find that I will feel very happy after helping others find jobs. But every time you interview a candidate, you will inevitably feel lost. I see many people, all 35 years old, who are still looking for junior jobs frequently, struggling for food and clothing, and have no plans for the future. Especially after the annual school recruitment, I found that so many students could not find jobs. So I began to think about my future: I want to help more people.
With the money accumulated after work, after careful consideration, I decided to give up my previous job and return to the road of entrepreneurship, and set up a career planning training institution that can help China people solve practical problems, help more China people find their own life development direction, enhance their personal abilities, build their own brands, and live a high life with confidence and courage. When I told my family and friends this idea, many people were surprised because they didn't expect me to start a business again. However, I just want to live the life I want!