In the workplace, we often encounter all kinds of challenges and difficulties. Faced with these problems, some people will be emotional, while others can remain rational and calm. Today, let's discuss the hidden rules in the workplace: don't be too emotional, but learn to keep a rational and cool head.
First of all, we should realize the influence of emotionalization on the workplace. When encountering difficulties at work, emotional people tend to lose their judgment and make wrong decisions/strategies. This is because emotionalization will make our thinking narrow and we can't consider the problem comprehensively. Moreover, emotionalization will lead to the escalation of contradictions among colleagues and affect the working atmosphere and teamwork. Therefore, learning to control emotions is very important for the development of the workplace.
However, maintaining a rational and calm attitude does not mean ignoring emotions. In fact, moderate emotional expression is beneficial to our career development. In the face of challenges, staying calm can enable us to better analyze problems and find solutions. At the same time, rational thinking also helps us find our own blind spots and shortcomings, so as to constantly improve ourselves.
So, how to stay rational and calm in the workplace? Here are some suggestions:
Learn to control your emotions: don't let your emotions explode instantly when you face difficulties at work. Give yourself some time to think calmly and analyze problems. When expressing opinions or opinions, pay attention to tone and wording to avoid causing controversy.
Broaden your mind: keep an open mind and listen to other people's opinions and suggestions. Don't get emotional because of different opinions, think about the problem from different angles and find the best solution.
Establish good communication methods: establish good communication methods with colleagues and learn to listen and understand other people's ideas. When encountering differences, we should remain calm and seek proper solutions to reach an understanding.
Know your emotions: when facing problems, first know your emotional reactions. Knowing our emotions helps us to control our emotions better and make rational decisions. At the same time, we should also accept our emotions, and don't deny ourselves or others because of them.
Constantly improve your ability: Enhance your self-confidence in the workplace by constantly learning and improving your professional ability. When we are full of confidence and self-confidence in our work, we can handle problems more calmly.
Ask for support: If you encounter problems or difficulties that you can't solve, don't be shy or afraid to ask for help. Communicating with superiors or colleagues and listening to their suggestions and opinions can help us stay calm and find suitable solutions.
Finally, we should recognize the hidden rules in the workplace: don't be too emotional, and learn to keep a rational and calm mind. This will not only help us better cope with the challenges in our work, but also improve our work efficiency and teamwork. Let's work together to become a strong person in the workplace!
In the workplace, we should not only pay attention to our own growth and development, but also pay attention to the people and things around us. Keeping a rational and calm mind can help us better adapt to the workplace environment and achieve our personal and professional goals. Let's work together to be the best in the workplace!
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Emotional work not only affects the quality and efficiency of your own work, but also offends colleagues and lowers the efficiency of other colleagues (if your work is not completed, colleagues in the next link will not be able to complete it), and leaders will not be optimistic about you. Because no one wants to deal with people with low emotional intelligence and low IQ.
Therefore, we must manage/manage our emotions.
The first rule of the employee's professional ethics code is: love and be dedicated. Dedicated people can quickly adjust their state even if they are wronged and shed tears. Don't bring their emotions to work, which will affect the progress of the work.
However, as a person, encountering some unsatisfactory things at work will cause emotional fluctuations and have a negative impact. So how can we control our emotions at this time?
First of all, we should always remember that we are here to work. No matter how angry you are, no matter how wronged you are, the workload will not be less. Today's work must be completed.
What you can't do is your own business. When you wake up at midnight, you can enjoy yourself, but I want you to pretend that nothing happened. You can do it, we can all do it, and that's how people live.
Stick this sentence in front of your eyes and say it silently 10 times when you are angry.
If the mood fluctuates greatly at the moment, divert your attention at the first time, for example, you can go to the bathroom or vent outside the office to avoid embarrassment in front of people.
If you can control your emotions, you can get rid of/vent your bad emotions after work by keeping a diary, exercising and talking. You can go to your favorite restaurant for a big meal, or you can sing at home, sing alone and watch comedies. Are good ways to relieve depression. Of course, it would be better if you have a hobby that you like and stick to.
If you still have to go to work before your emotions are released in time, you can go shopping first and then look at the bank/bank/card in order to force yourself to go to work. Why do you have so little money? Or think about your family. There are too many places to spend money in your life. Do you have the courage to work?
Meditate in your heart: if you pay for work, you can't go to work.