The 85th Academy Awards was held in the early morning of 20 13 Beijing time. China director Ang Lee won the Best Director Award again for "The Fantasy Drifting of Pi". At the same time, Ang Lee became the first director in history to win an Oscar for directing 3D movies. Ang Lee scored twice and won the Best Director Award, while Pi won four awards and became the biggest winner, which made Ang Lee not only elated, but also beaming and kissing the golden statuette frequently. But who knows that he was "scarred" before his success? According to media reports, Mr. Ang Lee didn't get the chance to make a film until he was 38 years old, and he won the first Golden Bear Award in Berlin at the age of 42. Before the age of 38, he had been searching for his movie dream in new york in obscurity. "Except serving food, he did all the things that unknown artists in new york did", taking care of children at home, cooking, writing scripts, and going to the studio to carry big bags ... A 38-year-old man who has achieved nothing but odd jobs, no wonder he likes Lao Zi, and he is anxious and can only shake his head and sigh, regretting that his dead daughter married such a useless dead "Wen Qing".
Mr Ang Lee was scarred before he became famous. Who in the world hasn't been hurt before becoming famous?
Darwin, who published Evolution, was scolded by his father when he decided to give up practicing medicine: "You do nothing but hunt, catch dogs and mice all day." In addition, Darwin revealed in his autobiography: "When I was a child, all my teachers and elders thought that my qualifications were average and had nothing to do with intelligence."
Edison was very slow when he was a child, and all the teachers thought that he had no learning ability.
Einstein didn't speak until he was 4, and he didn't read until he was 7. The teacher's evaluation of him is: "slow response, unsociable, full of unrealistic fantasies." He was expelled from school and was rejected when he applied to Zurich Institute of Technology.
Tolstoy, a former great Russian writer, dropped out of college because of his poor grades. The teacher thinks that he has neither the mind nor the will to learn.
The father of Rodin, a great French sculptor, once lamented that he had an idiot son who failed to enter the art school after three exams.
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Chinese mainland's successful people are no exception.
Pan Shiyi, a minor celebrity in the real estate industry, 1963 was born in Tianshui rural area, Gansu province, and moved to the county seat, where he began to wander. At that time, because of my strong rural accent, I went to the county high school with my head down all day, and I didn't know how tall the school building was after graduation. Unlike now, every day when you go to a place, you must first look at the height of the tallest building in this place and calculate your related business according to this height. 1At the end of 987, Pan Shiyi went south to Guangzhou and Shenzhen for the first time. When he arrived at Nantouguan, he only had more than 80 yuan left, which was his "venture capital". Because there is no "border card", this "venture capital" has to be booked from 50 yuan, and someone is invited to lead the way and sneak into the Shenzhen Special Zone through a hole under the barbed wire. After entering Shenzhen Special Economic Zone, Pan Shiyi first worked hard for three meals a day and soon joined a consulting company. At that time, the consulting company was a leather bag company, providing computer training, being a tour guide for Hong Kong tourists, receiving mainland factory directors and managers on business trips, and doing everything. Because of the language barrier and the inadaptability of eating habits, Yuan Shiyi has never been able to adapt to life in Shenzhen, so he feels very depressed. Two years later, Pan Shiyi volunteered to go south to Hainan. But at that time, Hainan was very short of electricity, and all the lighting electricity was generated by its own generators. Half a year later, with the arrival of the economic downturn, most of the "gold diggers" quit, and Pan Shiyi decided to stay and try his luck. The difficulty of "taking a chance" can be imagined. He has to bargain with others for a haircut of two yuan, which is tantamount to thinking that Yang Zhi, a "green-faced beast", sold knives at the beginning. Sleeping on the beach at night, but also burying clothes under the sand, for fear that thieves will steal them in the dead of night; Watching the Spring Festival Gala in someone else's room, the landlord kicked me out halfway. This is the past behind Pan Shiyi's glamorous present.
Success, as Bacon said, "bad qualities can be exposed in luck", "the best qualities are also displayed in luck", or "a mediocre person who is laughed at is probably a genius who has been misplaced". In any case, there is an insurmountable sad history behind anyone's success. Anyone who is eager to surpass, or has the background to surpass, will fail even more. Because, without the success of any tempering, its foundation is extremely unstable. In this regard, some friends say that "exercise is a blessing" and "suffering is nutrition". I am afraid that is the way it is! Then, let's have this awareness as soon as possible and face difficulties happily. Whether it is "holding your hand, growing old with your son" or "hands and mud", it will be scarred.