However, have you ever thought about the result of direct confrontation between you and Xiao San? Trying on the edge of the law is not only crazy, but also does not help your relationship with your husband, and even has unimaginable consequences.
So, how can a smart woman repel a mistress?
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Keep calm
When many main offices know that there is a mistress, their first reaction is to confront their husbands, inform their parents and relatives and vent all their grievances. As everyone knows, there are many misunderstandings in doing so:
The more frustrated you are, the more proud your mistress is.
When my husband comes home and touches your nose, he will think of San Xiao's gentleness and thoughtfulness, and he will get farther and farther away from you.
(3) Parents and relatives know that he will feel humiliated, but in the eyes of men, his face is bigger, and your chances of getting back together will be greatly reduced.
Attention! Keeping everyone calm is definitely not asking you to be a "quail" and blindly tolerate it, but using wisdom rationally to let your husband go home.
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Find the problem and solve it.
When a mistress interferes with marriage, people will call her "shameless" and her husband "irresponsible". What about you as your first wife? Don't you have any questions?
There is never a perfect victim, and no one can stay out of this relationship. Of course, I'm not accusing everyone here, just analyzing the problem objectively.
It is possible that you are a virtuous housewife, sending your children to school every day, helping them with their homework at night, cooking, washing dishes, mopping the floor and washing clothes, and keeping the house in good order.
It is possible that you are a strong woman, with strong working ability and great enthusiasm, which supports half or even half of the whole family economy.
It's possible that you are a ...
No matter what you look like to outsiders, in front of your husband, you should only be his wife. He has fantasies and demands on his wife. Are you really satisfied?
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Improve yourself.
This society has given women too many roles: you are a virtuous wife in front of your husband, a strong mother in front of your children, and a well-behaved daughter in front of your parents ... but you must remember that you are yourself first!
Love yourself first, don't be cruel to yourself anytime, anywhere, love yourself and constantly charge and empower yourself.
Lose weight if you are out of shape, read more books if you can't talk, sign up for a training class if you want to learn a skill, and learn makeup and clothing matching. ...
When you grow into a beautiful flower that will never bloom, are you still afraid that the butterfly will not stop?
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Freshness is very important.
No one likes the same life and faces the same people. You can change yourself appropriately, bring him freshness and arouse his curiosity. When he concentrates on studying you, he has no time to provoke the "sluts" outside.
You can:
Get rid of your unchanging hairstyle for thousands of years and go to a hair stylist to design a novel hairstyle that suits you and dye it in a bold color.
(2) Stop going home on time, stay outside for an hour or two on purpose, and then go home happily humming a tune.
(3) Change the curtain patterns that have been used at home for several years to make the home more beautiful and warm.
Invite your husband to revisit your hot spot with you and eat mala Tang, which you once loved.
When making love, prepare more exciting clothes and be more active, or invite him to a hotel to surprise him!
To understand the specific exchange method, you can search for "Chengdie Consulting Agency" in Baidu. We have many specific exchange methods in official website.
End: Emotion is a matter for two people, and the various flavors inside are like people knowing whether they are warm or cold when drinking water. In the face of the third question, don't blindly listen to the "forbearance" of relatives and friends, and don't believe the online clamor of "once disloyalty, don't use it a hundred times".
We can all understand your disappointment and sadness. When you save your derailed husband, you must be modest and use your wisdom to make him willing to return to his family and even make him love you more!