In other words, what boys have to do is to let girls think about you. They can think about good things or bad things. Naturally, "good things" must be the majority.

The basic principle is that when a girl's mind is occupied by you, her mind will change because of you, and the girl's emotional change is closely related to her emotional process.

Therefore, understanding girls' thinking is an advanced way of chasing girls. How many boys can guarantee this? If you want to occupy the girl's mind, the boy's daily task is to make the girl more and more "no thinking" when she is with you.

When a girl is with you, she has no idea at all. If you can help her make a decision and take her forward, she will definitely rely on you more and more and love you more and more.

The actual operation steps, I will interpret for you from three levels.

First, girls are often not sure about their own ideas, so you help her make a decision.

For example, the girl is worried about which dress to wear tomorrow. Then you can give her an answer right away and tell her: I saw you wearing this bright red skirt and pants before the tryst, and they look very nice. If you wear this, you will definitely get a high eye-catching rate on the road.

This is also to help a girl make a decision from a small matter. At some turning points in her life, boys can also give her advice and help her make decisions.

Second, take girls to try different new things.

For example, after inviting girls, boys plan a very rich tryst, and girls don't need to consider everything. She only needs one person to follow me, so she can have fun in every corner of this area, enjoy special food and travel happily.

For a woman, she likes the feeling of being "led by the nose" by a boy.

Third, actively and correctly guide the emotional development trend.

A relationship can be divided into several links. If boys don't take the initiative to correctly guide the development trend of the next link, that relationship will be gambled off in all likelihood.

For example, what should a boy do to make the relationship between the two in the circle of friends closer? Boys must make a daily task for themselves in their minds, and then, according to the goals achieved, promote the development trend of emotions.

This requires boys to have a clear understanding of the whole process of chasing girls. If you don't have a clear concept of the whole process of chasing girls now.

What boys want is to let girls "sink" into the whirlpool of feelings in silence.

It is said that when dealing with girls, we should try to make her "think nothing". Then, if she has an idea, try to get her to put all her thoughts on you.

When a girl smiles and cries because of you, she will fall in love with you bitterly.

How to make girls' thinking "all about you"? The actual operation steps, because I interpreted them for us according to three levels.

First, the girl's memories are possessed, resulting in a large number of unforgettable memories belonging to two people.

A good way to recall production is to set up a "guide"

For example, when I was a child, my family was too poor and my life was very hard. Eating fresh fruit was once a luxury. I still clearly remember that there is a very big longan tree in someone else's yard near my home, and its tree skills have grown beyond the wall. Every time the fruit ripens, I will knock it with a bamboo pole with many friends. After playing longan, I usually eat a few first.

In this story, "longan" is a guiding object. When we grow up, every time we see longan, it will remind us of these sad years and the bitter days before. This is the effect of "guiding objects"

When boys associate with girls, if they want to have some unforgettable memories, they can use some objects as a guide. The basic principle is to use what everyone often says as a "token of love."

Second, according to "correctly guide girls to guess", occupy girls' thinking.

For example, in the pursuit of girls, after the boy released a little affection for the girl, he didn't confess again, which would make the girl continue to guess, does this boy really like me? For another example, after a boy planned a tryst, he deliberately forbade her to know the content of the tryst, only told her to remember to wear casual shoes tomorrow, and then the girl guessed for herself, firmly believing that she would imagine many tryst scenes in her mind.

In short, it is of great help to let girls guess more and occupy her thinking more.

Third, create a * * * atmosphere and give girls a lot of fantasy space.

Generally speaking, a good atmosphere can be created in "narrow places", "high altitudes" and "quiet areas"

For example, if you sit on the roof with a girl watching the moon and stars, eating snacks and chatting with each other, and experiencing such an atmosphere, girls will always imagine and recall this scene in their minds, because girls are emotional animals.

In short, boys should understand a big truth. The bigger their thinking, the more likely they are to catch up with the girl they like.

In fact, in the whole process of chasing girls, there are many basic principles of methods, all of which are aimed at better "occupying girls' thinking"

For example, some boys say that we can use the chat topic of "sliding door" to produce emotional transformation of girls. In short, this is one of the methods of "possessive thinking"

When learning and training the skills of chasing girls, boys should thoroughly learn the main basic principles, then think and make sure to draw inferences, so as to truly guarantee their self-confidence.

You need to be clear that chasing girls is a course content, which is difficult to learn and easy to learn? The key is whether you can grasp the reasonable way.

Believe in yourself, you are excellent, but you can't meet girls who are interested in you.