Dear teachers Xiao, Tu, Zhou and parents, good evening.
I am very happy to listen to our teacher's feedback on children's performance with you, and I am also very happy to discuss children's development with you. Unfortunately, I'm really not qualified to talk about parenting experience here. In recent years, due to work reasons, I am more of a participant than an executor. Basically, when I came back, the child had fallen asleep, and I had already left before I woke up. There will be more time together on weekends, and more education will be given to teachers and wives. Here, please allow me to express my deep gratitude to several hard-working teachers on behalf of myself and my parents. Thank you for making our children happy every day. Class one in the nursery school is very good, and the team of teachers is excellent. Teacher Xiao Tu is young and beautiful, with strong teaching ability and high quality. Teacher Zhou is careful. The teaching subjects of middle school 1 class are designed reasonably, and the teaching is entertaining, such as students' birthday theme, teachers' day, Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day, New Year's Day, Spring Festival theme, sports meeting theme and so on. Teachers will put photos of children's activities and educational suggestions online in time. There will also be lectures, handicrafts, fire drills and so on;
Children's education is related to the happiness and happiness of every family. But children are not tools to carry our ideals, nor are they the sustenance of our parents. His weak body and mind could not bear it. He should just grow up happily and do whatever he wants; Engaged in education for XX years, the students are the best students in Ji' an. However, when I see that they are selfish, utilitarian, impetuous, persistent and lack perseverance, and scold their parents for their strange origins, I will fall into deep thinking.
Children need four aspects to grow up;
First, children need a correct and appropriate family education expectation and education plan;
In terms of children's education and growth, I also think about what they need. Today, I still insist that the goals of children's education and training are: to have excellent habits and be able to interact, express and communicate with others; Respect teachers and elders; Cultivate a confident and optimistic personality; Know manners and gratitude; Willing to share with others; Have enthusiasm and perseverance in doing things; Initially have independent ability and self-thinking consciousness; Love sports and take an active part in labor; At present, some immature efforts and performances in these aspects are as follows: children basically learn independent life skills, and from the age of 3, they dress themselves, brush their teeth, wash their faces, take a bath, go to the toilet, tell us school stories, are willing to think, like sports, ride two bicycles, twist cars, scooters, basketball, football, badminton and roller skates. We pay special attention to gratitude education and etiquette education. Every time parents come, their children will take the initiative to receive them, pour tea and wine, and give some money as the fare for the elderly when they leave. I like to work. I will work in vegetable fields in the county and do simple things with shovels. I like puzzles. I am willing to express my thoughts among friends. I am very willing to share my own things. I often play and bring a lot of food or toys to share with children.
Second, children need a democratic and harmonious family education atmosphere that they don't like or spoil;
Family relations should be harmonious and democratic; Parents should not be arbitrary, but should discuss; In the process of education, we should talk-do-talk again; The education of the education, the lesson of the lesson; Will establish a routine process and occasionally punish me. The worst time, I knelt for 20 minutes and asked to raise my hand. But we seldom use this method to blame too many children for being timid, or affecting communication and forming barriers.
Third: children need an excellent team of enlightenment teachers;
I am quite resistant to higher education. The model of kindergarten learning primary school and primary school learning junior high school is not good; It's never too late to learn subject knowledge. Kindergarten is the only place to implement quality education. Childhood is such a few years, there is really no need to go to primary school. This mainly refers to school education. Here I boldly suggest that, first of all, as much as possible to carry out group activities (lifting tables, balloons, group activities), less personal activities; Try to exercise outdoors and less indoors; Try teamwork and less individualism; Regardless of children's academic pressure and academic needs, you can do more things with your hands and brain. Praise more groups and less individuals to make students happy; In addition, if these education involve some funds, we are fully willing to share them;
Fourth, we need the support of a group of peers and parents who share the same ideas;
Our children are poor, there are few brothers and sisters, and there is a lack of communication or even communication; I suggest that our parents contact more and set up a qq group or blog, because our children are likely to be primary school students or even high school students; We can meet for an outing, and meet for skating. It is correct that children must play with children.
Current issues and discussions;
1。 The child began to have rebellious psychology;
2。 Children began to discover computer games.
Thank you for wasting your time. Please forgive my shortcomings.
Speaking of children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Although the family situation is different and the education methods are different, the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up healthily, live happily and study easily.
From the time my children go to school, I pay attention to cultivating their good habits and living in an orderly way. Learning: First, cultivate children's autonomous learning ability. Writing while reading, the circle of the circle, the point of the point, the note of the note, improve reading efficiency. Second, we should listen carefully and hold the class for 45 minutes. I devote myself to the classroom study, and listen to the class with questions on the basis of self-study or preview, with high concentration. All the important things I learned in class left a deep impression on my mind. Third, take notes skillfully. Write down the main points of the lecture, typical examples, and problems that you didn't understand at that time. Review, digest and think, and make a brief record. Fourth, treat exams correctly. When the test paper is handed out, the focus is not on the score, but on where the wrong questions are and find out the reasons for the mistakes.
Guide the balanced development of children's subjects, and don't have weak subjects. We should not be too hasty or lose confidence when dealing with the difficulties in our current study correctly.
Don't ask too much of your child, give her some room for free development, and suggest that your child read more good books. Cultivate children's interests in many aspects. Children like dancing and musical instruments. After school, they signed up for dance classes and guzheng classes. He is very interested and has achieved good results. Fortunately, he won the gold medal and participated in the Spring Festival Evening in Qingdao. In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises.
In a word, I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are * * *, and some things are different according to children's personality characteristics.
Parents' Speech at Parents' Meeting of Preschool Parents 3 Dear teachers and parents:
Hello!
First of all, I would like to thank xu teacher, the head teacher, for providing us with this opportunity to get together and let us communicate on how to cultivate our children, which will be more conducive to their growth. My child's name is xx. Since I entered xu teacher's class, I found that my children have changed and become happy, confident and self-motivated. This is the result of teachers' management and education. I'd like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank all the teachers for their meticulous care and hard training!
Children are our hope. All the parents here hope that their children will be successful when they grow up. So am I. To be honest, I really can't say what I want to say about the experience of educating children. The parents here are much better than me in educating their children. Besides, my children are not particularly outstanding, but I am also very gratified and proud. Because she has a balanced development in all aspects, especially in getting along with her classmates and treating her elders, she does everything wholeheartedly. I won't talk about the experience of educating children here, because our children are all senior two students, and they are facing intense senior three study in the second half of the year, so I want to talk to the parents present about what our parents should do in the second year of senior two. Talk about my personal views on this, and ask parents to give you more advice when it comes to improper points!
First of all, I think that as parents, we should examine whether the way we educate our children is appropriate, whether we blame more and encourage less, whether we talk more and listen less, and parents should always reflect on how to communicate with their children. When parents communicate with their children, I think we should do two things: first, let children complain about their learning difficulties; Speaking of which, I am deeply touched. In the past, my daughter would often complain in my ear, saying: the teacher is not afraid of our exhaustion, and she arranges so much homework every day, and she doesn't want to think whether we can finish it or not. How is its quality? I know how to decorate. Hearing this, I was anxious, thinking that would be terrible. My daughter is beginning to get tired of learning. In a hurry, I retorted, "What's the matter? Can't you finish what others can finish? " Besides, the teacher has considered it. "When she heard this, she got bored and said angrily," It's not good for people to complain in front of you! "Hearing her words, I felt a lot in my heart. Then I calmed down and thought about it. As a parent, I should not only listen to children's anecdotes, but also listen to their complaints and complaints. This is also the most effective way to reduce stress. Besides, children don't tell their parents who to tell. Second, when communicating with children, rewards and incentives precede criticism and punishment. Don't open your mouth to criticize, it's endless. As adults, we also like to listen to good words, let alone children. Timely rewards and incentives can enhance children's self-confidence, and children with self-confidence will have interest in learning. I follow the same principle as her father: praise her when she makes progress and help her analyze and correct problems in her study or life. In this way, children are constantly confident in constant praise.
Secondly, we should pay attention to the child's physical and mental health and let her develop in an all-round way. Nowadays, children are facing all kinds of psychological pressures, and their unbalanced mentality is aggravated, or they feel depressed and wronged. If parents fail to find out in time and give timely assistance, it will affect children's physical and mental health. Physical and mental health is the capital of children's study and the strong backing of children's study. With this capital, parents should constantly encourage her to ask for all-round development and cultivate her abilities in all aspects. I often tell her: "Take part in the activities organized by the school as much as possible. As long as you try your best, mom won't care too much about the final result. " In this way, she is encouraged to take an active part in various activities in school classes, such as speech contests and sports meetings. Although some students didn't get satisfactory results, she took part in this activity after all, because I know that students are constantly learning in the learning stage, and they can learn things that can't be learned in books in the process of participating. Let's take her learning cross-stitch as an example. At first, she wanted to study, but as a parent, I was worried that she would delay her study and that she would attend to one thing and lose sight of another. After all, the task of studying in high school is heavy, and later she was promised to study, but she was asked: First, she should not delay her study and stop once she found it. Second, since you have learned, you should try your best to learn. I thought she was just on a whim, but after a few months, she not only didn't relax in her studies, but also found that her learning efficiency improved. Because in the process of studying, she can relieve the study pressure after a week and relax. This will keep you in the best mood in your study next week.
Thirdly, parents should correctly guide their children to arrange their spare time reasonably, so that she can learn a lot while relaxing. Now children only have one and a half days after school every week. Make full use of this time. After her daughter comes home, she often goes online to find solutions to the problems accumulated in a week. Occasionally, she will listen to English songs, watch English news and write about her feelings. Anyway, this time is at her own disposal, and then she will stay for a few hours to finish her holiday homework, sum up her learning experience and improve her learning methods, which will get unexpected results. Some parents blindly control their children not to touch these things (computers, televisions), which will stimulate their curiosity and is not conducive to their future growth. Parents should teach them to make rational use of this resource, which will get twice the result with half the effort.
Of course, there is no fixed method for education. After all, we face different children, but we all have a common desire, that is, everything is for children. In addition, parents are the primary nurturers of children, and family education is the first influencing factor of children's initial ideological consciousness and good habits, so parents should give their children a clean world and let them grow up healthily and happily! Let's spend a happy and fulfilling high school life with them and set foot on another new starting point in life! thank you
Today, I chose the topic of "growing up with children" to talk with you. We will be parents for as long as our children are old. We became parents from the moment the child was born. Before that, we had no training, so we had to grope our way forward. As parents, from the perspective of being mothers (fathers), we are the same age as our children, and we are just children. We need to study and grow together with our children!
Yesterday, I read the answer sheet written by my parents, and I deeply realized our parents' sincerity and eagerness. Yes, children are our hope. Who doesn't want children to be dragons and women to be phoenixes? So how to educate your children well is another big problem, which can't be explained clearly in a few words. Because the growth of children is a long process, and different stages of this process are full of various problems. I think everyone has a deep understanding of this. I believe that the growth of children is a process, and as parents, it is also a process of growth. From perfect maturity to urging children to grow up healthily is a kind of responsibility and also a kind of growth and progress.
So, what problems are we facing at this stage and how to solve them? In this answer sheet, I feel a lot of ideas from my parents. Now I will talk about some of my ideas from three aspects: happiness, autonomy and communication.
Some parents said: "Childhood belongs to children, and children only have one childhood, so I think children should be given a happy and regretless childhood." I quite agree with the view of "happy childhood". Children should be the happiest. So there is no need to encourage every child to become an elite. In intellectual development, I should learn to wait. My child is not a child prodigy, so when the child is not sure about something, don't force it blindly, but let the child slowly accept and adapt through guidance, so that the child can feel the joy of growth in the process of slow progress. But, similarly, I also think that making children happy is not to let them do whatever they want.
"Some parents unilaterally think that happiness is to let their children have fun, not to let their children go to such long classes, for fear that excessive learning pressure will destroy their studious nature." I think this is the same as giving children too many interest classes. They are both extremes. First of all, some children fall behind in their studies, but their parents have the time and ability to help. Then there is no need to sign up for a learning interest class. But if on the contrary, you don't have time to discipline your child by yourself, let him play outside for a day, or watch TV at home for a day. Then I think it's ok to sign up for an interest class. Some of our parents are impatient. After studying for a semester, they feel ineffective, so they stop studying and don't take other effective measures. I don't think it is advisable to let them develop freely. Let children study happily and develop happily, which is the direction we should work together.
The second topic is "autonomy". Cultivating children's autonomous learning ability at home is not a one-off event. Parents must be prepared to fight a "protracted war". Therefore, in the initial stage, parents must take a little time every day to pay attention to their children's learning. Stay with your child silently while reading and doing homework, so that your child can feel the care and support from his parents. Check when helping children complete their learning tasks and evaluate his learning situation in time. Of course, this kind of evaluation is mainly based on encouragement, and the areas that need to be improved are put forward appropriately.
After this persistence for a period of time, parents should communicate sincerely with their children. Parents can tell their children that learning is like your current "work", and you can grow better after you finish it. You've been doing well recently. However, mom and dad don't have that much time to study with you. Besides work, there are many things to be busy at home, so we must learn to teach ourselves.
In this way, parents can assign learning tasks to their children and ask them to finish the homework assigned by the teacher independently within the specified time. After completion, parents will check and evaluate. Of course, such a requirement should be adhered to every day.
The third stage is the consolidation stage.
In this process, parents should pay attention to their children's independent completion of homework in time, and don't let their children feel that autonomous learning is "parents don't care". Parents should make an objective and fair evaluation of their children's autonomous learning, such as the time and quality of homework. If their children do well, parents should praise them. If your child doesn't do well, you should point out the direction of correct efforts. I believe that as long as parents work hard, they will certainly cultivate children with independent learning ability.
The third topic: communication
One of the skills: strive to create an atmosphere of equal and free communication. Parents should talk to their children equally, pay attention to listening more, talk less, be patient, and judge after listening to all their feelings or inner experiences. On the premise of acceptance and understanding, give guidance and education. Parents should take a tolerant attitude towards the differences between parents and children. If they are too tough and ask their children to obey unilaterally, it will cause emotional harm and often affect their behavior. As a result, it will not only cause difficulties in parent-child communication, but also cause adverse consequences because of impulse.
Tip 2: Parents and children have the same activities and become good friends with their children. Friendship between friends often talks about everything. Similarly, the most effective way to communicate effectively with adolescent children is to bend down to make friends with them and play games with them. Parent-child activities can enhance mutual communication and cooperation, improve parent-child relationship and family relationship, and promote family harmony. With such an emotional foundation, are you still worried about not knowing your child's thoughts? There are many ways of parent-child activities, such as parent-child games; Participate in sports activities together; Read together; Chatting together or something.
The level of family education also determines the development of our children. Our family education should also strive to develop in an effective direction. To be honest, in this respect, it is really up to parents to explore the appropriate methods themselves. Because only you know your children best, every child is different, and education should vary from person to person. Teachers can only guide your family education methods, so many times you still have to rely on your parents to explore, you can learn from other parents' good educational experience, you can discuss with teachers and so on.
I summed up a few points, hoping to help you.
Be more positive and less negative. Communicate more and scold less. More encouragement, less blows.
More company, less indulgence. Set an example and preach less. Care more and spoil less.
Manage more money and give less money. Learn more and grow more. Good habits will benefit you for life.
I firmly believe that "there are no children with poor education, only education that is not suitable for children." Children enrich our lives and make us more mature. So, in fact, we grew up with our children. Finally, I sincerely wish every parent can grow up with their children, find a suitable education method for their children, and let their children receive education happily and grow up healthily and happily.
Speech at Children's Parents' Meeting Dear teachers and parents:
(used when meeting in the afternoon) Good afternoon.
When the children came home for dinner at noon, they told me that the class teacher Chen asked me to speak at the parent-teacher meeting tomorrow. This is the teacher's trust in me, and I immediately agreed. Calm down and think about it, and prepare to say from the following aspects:
First of all, express my gratitude. I sincerely thank the teachers, especially the class teacher, Mr. Chen, for their inculcation and hard work! To tell the truth, it is not easy for a teacher to give a good lesson and bring a good lesson to train more than 60 students into useful materials. Schools have high hopes, and parents have high hopes. Teachers are under great pressure and mental burden. No matter what happens three years later, teachers will spend 10 on their students every day from 6 am to 6 pm. It is often said that teachers are hard-working gardeners. It's spring silkworm (the silkworm in spring will weave until it dies). This is a candle (the candle will cry the wick away every night). Is the engineer of the human soul. It is the most glorious profession in the world, and it is no exaggeration to use these praises to teachers. At today's parent-teacher conference, let me say sincerely on behalf of all parents: Teachers, you have worked hard!
Second, express my shame. It is every parent's wish to expect their children to succeed, but it is not enough to expect their children to succeed. The three pillars of modern success are the perfect combination of family education, school education and social education. In fact, many parents are only responsible for their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation after sending them to school. There is too little family education and almost no social education. At this point, I feel deeply ashamed. To tell the truth, I graduated from a normal college and worked as a coach for six years, but I still don't know how to teach children well. The method is too simple and rude. Even if I teach her, she doesn't listen to me, and she rarely communicates with teachers at school. Therefore, my grades in the class are downstream, which has dragged down the whole class. I'm ashamed of it.
Third, show my expectations. People's IQ is high or low, which is innate, but a person's success does not depend entirely on intellectual factors. In my opinion, the key of school education can't just focus on imparting knowledge. Cultivating students' strong interest in learning, forming good study habits, mastering scientific learning methods and having the spirit of hard study are four essential links in school education. Especially for poor students and students who can't develop in an all-round way, it is most important to enhance their confidence in learning from each other's strengths! Premier Wen Jiabao said during his visit to the United States that confidence is more important than gold and currency. This sentence also applies to poor students-this is one of my expectations; Second, parents' meetings should be held frequently, and teachers should participate flexibly and diversely, so as to change the situation that only the head teacher is a one-man show. Teachers comment on the subjects they teach, parents can exchange experiences with each other, and student representatives can express their opinions on the spot, which truly makes the parent-teacher conference effective; Third, as parents, they all want their children to get all-round development. In my opinion, it is useless for a weak scholar who has no hands to tie a chicken, and it is useless for a nerd who turns a deaf ear to things outside the window. Only those who have IQ but no EQ will not make great achievements. Teaching and educating people is the dual responsibility of school education. It is said that there is a theme class meeting every week in the class, which is a good way to exercise students, and I hope it can be continuously improved and carried forward; I look forward to No.4 Middle School. I hope that after three years, more than 60 students in this Olympic Mathematics class can get more than 600 points in the college entrance examination, just like a class in Qujing No.1 Middle School in Yunnan Province. At that time, all our parents will go to the Education Bureau to praise the teachers! Thank you!
Parents' Speech of Parents' Meeting of Children Six teachers and parents:
Good afternoon. I'm XXX's parents.
In my opinion, it is the common wish of the school and every family to cultivate a smart, lively, healthy and progressive child, and it is also the common responsibility of the school and each of our parents.
There is no doubt that school is the most important place for children to learn culture, science and other knowledge. The school has professional teachers, scientific teaching methods and a large number of teaching AIDS, which can enable our children to receive a comprehensive and systematic education. For example, when children are learning pinyin, our parents' own pronunciation is not standard, and sometimes they may be misled by dialects; When studying mathematics, although most of our parents can know the answer, they can't explain to their children the reasons for doing so. Therefore, children's cultural knowledge is mainly obtained through school education. At the same time, the collective life of the school can also develop good behavior habits and study habits, and cultivate excellent moral qualities such as respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching, loving labor and uniting classmates, which is difficult for a single family to do. So I am very grateful to the school teachers for their careful education of children.
Some parents may think that since school education plays such a big role, we don't have to worry about sending our children to school. I think this idea is debatable.
First of all, children only spend more than five hours at school every day, and most of the rest are at home. It is impossible to educate children in this period by this article of a free teacher. As the saying goes, "parents are children's first teachers". Many good moral qualities, behavior habits and study habits of children, such as respecting parents, being diligent and thrifty, cherishing food, and completing homework on time and with good quality and quantity, all need parents' correct guidance and supervision at home.
Secondly, there are more than 50 children in each class, and each child's situation is different. Teachers have a heavy workload every day. A teacher has many classes a week, which is quite hard. Teachers must complete a large number of teaching tasks in a limited time. Children's understanding and mastery of various subjects are mainly tested by exams, which are not conducted every day. Then, the child's study on that day will still be checked by the parents. So I think parents should always take the initiative to communicate with teachers. Through communication, you can keep abreast of your child's study at school. After returning home, you can let your child review and consolidate the imperfect knowledge, and you can also keep abreast of your child's behavior habits. It will be much better to cooperate with the teacher to correct some bad behaviors and habits. Take my children for example, my children have always been more confident, which is an advantage, but it has formed a psychology of only listening to praise.
For a while, he didn't listen carefully, and sometimes he spoke a little. The teacher criticized him, and he thought it was no big deal, so he held back the criticism and went home without listening to any criticism. In those days, he was unhappy and I was very upset. I really don't know how to educate him. So I went to school to find Mr. Liu, who helped me analyze it and thought that the main reason was that teachers and parents praised the children too much, which made him feel very proud. He can't accept a little criticism now. Such children's feelings are too fragile, which is also a common problem of many only children now. In the long run, he will not be able to bear the difficulties and setbacks in the future, which is very unfavorable to his physical and mental health. Teacher Liu suggested that in the future, no matter at home or at school, I will tell him what to do if he can do well, because he has grown up now. For things beyond my ability, if I do well, I will tell him. If I work harder, I believe you will do better. Tell him clearly that doing something wrong is wrong and what should be done is right. You can't just praise without criticizing. In this way, the requirements of the school and the family have reached the same. After a period of persistence, children began to treat criticism correctly and received good results. I think this good change is the result of timely communication between parents and teachers.
Therefore, as parents, we should closely cooperate with teachers and fulfill the obligation of educating children. The above views are my personal experience, please criticize if there are any mistakes, thank you!