1, birds and cow dung
A bird is flying south for the winter. It was so cold that the bird froze, fell from the sky and landed in a large farmland. When it was lying in the field, a cow came and took a shit on it. Frozen birds lie in a pile of cow dung. Digging cow dung is so warm. Cow dung slowed it down! It lay there, warm and happy, and soon began to sing happily (inspirational story www.lz 13.cn). A passing cat heard the song of a bird and came over to find out. Following the sound, the cat found the bird hidden in the cow dung, quickly dug it out and ate it!
The moral of this story is
1) Not everyone who shits you is your enemy.
2) Not everyone who pulls you out of the shit pile is your friend.
3) Besides, when you are stuck in a pile of shit, shut the fuck up!
2. The story of porridge.
Seven people once lived together and shared a big bucket of porridge every day. Sadly, there is not enough porridge to eat every day.
At first, they drew lots to decide who would share the porridge, one serving a day. So every week, they are full only one day, that is, the day of porridge sharing. Later, they began to elect a noble person to share the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please and bribe him, making the whole clique smoky and noble people corrupt. Then everyone began to form a three-person porridge Committee and a four-person selection Committee, but they often attacked each other and quarreled constantly, and the porridge was all cold in their mouths. Finally, I came up with a method: divide the porridge in turn, but the people who divide the porridge have to wait for everyone else to pick up the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to distribute it equally, even if it is uneven, you can only admit it. Everyone is happy and kind, and life is getting better and better.
The same seven people, different distribution systems, will have different ethos. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem, and it must not be completely fair and open, and there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every leader needs to consider.
Step 3 be small
During the Warring States Period, Wei Huiwang wanted to send troops to attack Qi because Qi Weiwang violated the Covenant. In order to persuade Wang Wei to stop fighting, Hui Shi, as prime minister, invited wise men from Beijing to wear in. When Dai Jin met Wang Wei, he asked. Does the king know snails? Wang Wei said? I see. ? Depp said: Snails have two tentacles. There is a country in the left corner, called Touche, and a country in the right corner. In order to compete for territory, the two countries went to war and buried tens of thousands of bodies. The winner chased for ten days and five days before withdrawing troops and returning to camp. ? Wang Wei smiled disapprovingly and said, Isn't this all fake? Dai Jin said: It's not a lie. If you don't believe me, I'll prove it to you: in the king's view, is there an end in all directions? Wang Wei said: There is no end. ? Dai Jin asked again:? After cruising in the boundless universe, people's hearts return to the world. Can we say that the world is so small, as if it were nothing? Wang Wei said: Yes. ? The gold digger asked:? Since the world is so small and dispensable, and Wei is only a small place in the world, the capital is a small place of Wei, and the king is a small body in the capital, then, compared with the endless universe, what is the difference with the kingdom of people living in the right corner? Wang Wei said? There is no difference. ?
The Daikin people are gone. Wang Wei seems to have been introduced into the boundless universe and can't see the world, let alone Wei. It realized the smallness of the world and territory, the boredom of fighting and expanding Xinjiang, and the fact that the income from winning is just a dime a dozen, which really doesn't make much sense. So he praised Dai? My Lord. , think he has such a vision, far more than a saint. (From "Zhuangzi")
Inspirational stories in the workplace tell us that all the gains and losses in the workplace are insignificant, and no one will regret not spending more time working in the office when he dies. Pursuing happiness, peace and happiness is the most important thing in one's life.
4. Maitreya
Anyone who has been to the temple knows that Maitreya is the first to greet guests with a smiling face as soon as he enters the temple gate, and on his back, Wei Tuo is the black face of Darkmouth. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.
Maitreya is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still makes ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.
The Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and smiled at all the guests, so the incense flourished. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.
In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
5. Listen more and talk less
Once a small country came to China and paid tribute to three identical gold people. The emperor was very happy. However, this small country is not kind, and at the same time a question arises: who is the most valuable of these three gold people?
The emperor thought of many ways to ask the jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work, all of which were exactly the same. What shall we do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A vast country, you don't even understand this little thing?
Finally, an old minister who abdicated said that he had an idea.
The emperor invited the emissary to the main hall, and the old minister confidently took three straws and inserted them into the ear of the first gold man. The straw came out of the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out directly from his mouth, and the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without any noise. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth, which was supposed to make us listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.
Step 6 get used to it
Father and son live in the mountains, and they have to drive ox carts down the mountain to sell firewood every day. Father is more experienced, driving in the town, the mountain road is rugged and tortuous, and the son has a good eye. He always reminds me when he wants to change. Dad, turn! ?
Once my father didn't go down the mountain because of illness, and my son drove alone. At the corner, the cow refused to turn, so the son tried every means to get out of the car and push and pull, lured by grass, and the cow did not move.
What the hell is going on? My son is puzzled. In the end, there is only one way. He looked at no one around and shouted near the cow's ear. Dad, turn! ?
The cow responded and moved.
Cows live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits instead of bad ones. When more good habits are accumulated, there will naturally be a good life.
7.rabbits and crows
A crow sat in a tree and did nothing all day. A little rabbit saw the crow and asked, I can sit there all day like you and do nothing. The crow replied. Sure, why not? So the rabbit sat under the tree and began to rest. Suddenly, a fox appeared. The fox jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
The moral of this story is that if you want to sit there and do nothing, you must sit very high.
8. Robbers and apprentices
Once, an old robber took his apprentice to rob a bank and was chased by the police. The two men ran away like crazy and almost ran away with their pants. I finally got rid of the police, who were out of breath and collapsed on the ground.
After a long time, the shock subsided slightly, and the disciple said, Master, Master, if only there were no police in this world! ? Master scolded:? Bullshit! If there were no police, would we still have food? ! ? The apprentice is very confused. Master? Really? Whisper:? You only know one thing, but you don't know the other! Think about it, if there were no police, would everyone dare to steal and rob? It is precisely because of these policemen that we have blocked those capable people and have a living space! What are we compared with them? What skills do you have? Don't we make a living by motivating thieves to do things they dare not do? Police! We're here! Without the police, where can we live a good life? ?
You see how beautiful successful people are, but you only see one side and can't see the other, right? I only saw the thief eating meat, but I didn't see the thief being beaten? I didn't see their sweat, tears or even blood shed for success! Even if you saw it? The thief was beaten? Are you only willing to do it? A thief who only eats meat and doesn't get beaten? . There is nothing so cheap in the world! We can learn from the experience of the old robber above. As long as you have a little courage and self-confidence, it is enough to break through the physical and psychological barriers.
9. cannibalism
Two cannibals went to work in a company, and the boss said that if you eat people in the company, you will be fired immediately! ? After three months, everyone lived in peace. Suddenly one day, the boss called the two men to the office and scolded them. Damn it, if I told you not to eat people, you wouldn't have to come to work tomorrow! ? Two cannibals packed their things and left. When they went out, one couldn't help cursing the other: How many times have I told you not to eat work? For three months, we ate a department manager every day and nothing happened. You ate detergent yesterday, and today they found it! ?
10, loyal dog
Tom, the dog, looked for a job everywhere and was busy for many days, but found nothing. He complained to his mother in dismay. I'm such a useless loser. No company will accept me. ?
Mother asked strangely:? What about bees, spiders, larks and cats?
Tom said: bees work as stewardesses, spiders work on the Internet, larks graduate from conservatory of music, so they become singers, and cats graduate from police academy, so they become security guards. Unlike them, I have no experience and diploma in higher education. ?
Mom continued to ask:? There are horses, sheep, cows and chickens.
Tom said: horses can pull carts, wool is the raw material for textiles and clothing, cows can produce milk and hens can lay eggs. Unlike them, I have no ability. ?
Mother thought for a moment and said? You are not a horse running in a chariot or a chicken laying eggs, but you are not a waste. You are a loyal dog. Although you don't have any higher education or skills, a sincere heart is enough to make up for all your shortcomings. Mark my words, son, no matter how many hardships you go through, cherish your golden heart and let it shine. ?
After listening to his mother's words, Tom nodded vigorously.
After all the hardships, Tom not only found a job, but also became the manager of the administrative department. Not convinced, the parrot went to the boss and said, Tom is neither a college graduate nor a foreigner. Why give him such a high position?