1, don't dislike "second hand" when wearing clothes.

Many parents will be faced with the choice of buying new clothes for their children or wearing clothes worn by relatives and friends. Some parents think that other people's clothes are "second-hand" and don't give their children face. This idea is unnecessary.

Because children grow and develop very fast, they change every year, even every month. Even if you buy the best clothes for your children, you may not be able to wear them after a season. In fact, it is very practical for relatives and friends to wear small clothes and shoes-their children have never worn them several times, but they are all bought for their children, and relatives and friends are generally not bad.

Therefore, it is a good thing for children to wear clothes and shoes, buy some new ones themselves and give them to relatives and friends. The combination of the two can avoid a lot of waste.

2. Don't be greedy when buying toys

It is necessary to buy toys for children. Children will find life without toys boring, and toys can also promote the development of children's brains. But when buying toys, remember not to be greedy.

For example, I have a little nephew who was not at home before. I bought a lot of toys for him when he came home for the New Year, but he stopped playing in a few days. Cousin is embarrassed to blame little nephew for his impatience.

It's not that children are impatient, but that too many toys will distract them and they can't fully enjoy the fun and wisdom brought by each toy. If there are too many toys, children will feel unhappy.

A child psychologist in the United States believes that toys should be few and good, so that children can focus on their favorite toys within a range of choices. And more "open toys" are needed, such as building blocks, Rubik's cube, handicrafts, etc., so that children can learn and ponder repeatedly, have fun in thinking and exercise their brains.

3. Go shopping more and shop more.

Now, a new generation of parents like shopping online. Compared with offline maternal and child stores with opaque prices, online shopping can really be more affordable. But different online shopping platforms seem to be similar, in fact, there is still a big gap in prices. For example, Pinduoduo, which is very popular in recent two years, has invested a lot of subsidies in maternal and child products in order to open the market, which is a good opportunity.

How cheap are maternal and child products in Pinduoduo? A genuine Snoopy children's wear can be as low as 20 yuan, and a can of Australian Altair Platinum Edition milk powder is only 130 yuan (the market price is close to 200 yuan). Japan and the United States are very curious about these brand-name high-end diapers, and they have entered the era of "1 yuan/piece" when doing activities.

Some people may say, is a good mother and baby reliable? Is it genuine? Pinduoduo has done many factory live broadcasts and bonded warehouse live broadcasts. You can visit them when you have time. I'll believe that when I see it. Many parents didn't believe it at first, but later they became "real fragrant parties" ...

4. Pay attention to interest cultivation.

It is very important to cultivate children's interest, especially in this era when personality and expertise are more important. A child's specialty is outstanding, and his unique social competitiveness will be formed in the future.

In terms of interest cultivation, many parents like to "cast a wide net", including piano, dance, painting, calligraphy and sports, for fear that their children's talents will be buried.

But I want to say that there is often only one real talent. Lang Lang doesn't need to do anything else, just play the piano well. It's difficult to cultivate a generalist. What we have to do is to find out the real talent of the child, find out his interest points, and then enlarge it to the extreme.

Therefore, interest cultivation should not be scattered. At first, children can try a little more, but parents must observe more and see what their children are good at. Finally, choose 1-3 interest directions that are suitable for children, children like and children can bear, and then focus on breakthroughs.