In the self-media circle, there is a recognized fan structure circle, that is, among your fans, 10% unconditionally accepts you, 10% scolds you for stepping on you, and 80% only pays attention to your content without paying attention to yourself. This structure is reasonable and scientific.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes.

How many people support you, how many people trample on you, how much praise you can bear, how much slander you have to bear. The world is fair.

Yesterday afternoon, I also met a black powder in the live broadcast room of Tik Tok. He doesn't know what I'm talking about, and neither do I. Anyway, it's just rat shit. It is very common for such people to play from the media for three years in their spare time. I remember one time when I was doing a free open class in the community. I didn't bother him at that time, but my reader, who is a die-hard, directly scolded the man.

Sometimes my first instinct is, why are these people so idle? They have time to come here to write bad reviews for me and watch me broadcast live, so they might as well do something meaningful. This kind of people must be very poor in real life, either poor or ugly, full of hostility, lacking tolerance for anyone and everything, always loving criticism and finding fault. He must have been cut many times on the internet, injured and not pleasing to the eye, and he was doomed to get nothing good.

Do I need to compete with such people?

No need. If I take it seriously, it's a waste of time. So under normal circumstances, I just turn a blind eye and keep my ears clean.

Later, I always insisted on two kinds of mentality. First of all, we can't win everyone's love and recognition anyway. We just need to find a small number of people who recognize us. Second, to start a business on the virtual internet, we should cultivate a sense of dullness and not be too sensitive. Our efforts should not be recognized by others, but by ourselves, which is enough.

Last night, I watched a live broadcast of a new media big coffee. Finally, he couldn't resist the pressure and burst into tears in front of the camera. Whether it's putting on a show, creating a marketing stunt or revealing his true feelings, he said that the pressure of being a marketing Party B is really too great. Even if he works hard, it is difficult to get Party A's approval. He did this activity to prove himself, and as a result, countless people sprayed and ridiculed him, and the comments in the live broadcast room were also black.

First of all, someone is black, which shows that many people pay attention to him, which is also a good thing. Explain that this topic marketing has been half successful. If no one cares, it will be a failed plan. It is a good thing that someone scolds, which means that there is concern and no one scolds, which means that it is not worth scolding.

In the new media era, there are still people who make talk all day and deliberately provoke others to scold. Scolding can make a personalized brand image more realistic and three-dimensional. Social media needs personality too much! In addition, scolding can also exercise people's psychological endurance.

Secondly, if you encounter black powder in the live broadcast room, my suggestion is to directly block it and turn a blind eye because it interferes with us. There is no need to quarrel with this rubbish, because it is worthless. On the one hand, it can also reflect the blogger's mind and tolerance, pretend to be invisible, have high emotional intelligence, and don't give each other a chance to brush their sense of existence. Laughter and scolding are articles!

Secondly, you can ask the administrator to shut up the black powder, or start other fans to brush the screen and ask him out! Name criticism! After all, people who watch our live broadcast have more neutral and die-hard fans. You have the right to control the public screen. Uniting to safeguard the interests and reputation of bloggers is also something that everyone is willing to do. Black powder, in turn, was spurned by everyone and naturally ran away.

Furthermore, it is wiser and more emotional to accept the self-deprecating and self-deprecating model and treat black powder as a joke. If you say you don't understand what I said, I don't understand myself. Just talking. This is the domain of acquaintances. If you have enough mentality and wisdom, you can also turn black powder into powder and black powder into true love powder, so as to show your true strength.

If you face more than one black powder, but a group, then you have to think about whether someone is deliberately behind it.

Black powder is like a ball. The more you resist, the more persistent you are. Instead, it will quickly gather and grow, and finally become an "army."

As long as you pretend not to see it and keep your inner fluctuations stable, black powder will naturally feel boring and will dissipate if it finds that it can't irritate you after infinite provocation, and it will be boring if there is no opponent to scold it.

Occasionally train co-anchors. In the live broadcast room, fighting gangsters is also a skill, which requires training, a strong heart and a good attitude. If it's not good, it's toxic. If you can bear it, you can bear it.

As a self-media, or anchor, the focus is still on content creation. After all, what kind of people we write will attract. Sometimes, I will reflect on these negative comments, perhaps true voices, which will give us unexpected gains. After all, it's the same to hear more compliments. Real bad reviews can also help us grow.

For example, black powder is not a person.

Maybe he didn't agree with any words or opinions in the article, which aroused his emotions. He wanted to refute, but he was only emotional and had no substantive views on the theory, so he had to be punished for speaking fast. If such a person talks to him face to face in real life, he will definitely not scold you, but smile and shake hands and say: I have read your article.

If he can refute specific arguments and arguments and benefit me, I want to thank him for helping me grow up. After all, everyone has their own limitations, and we should learn to accept different views. In addition, mountains and rivers, bosom friends are hard to find.

The improvement of vision and pattern requires experience, time precipitation and constant thinking. This is urgent, we don't need to explain too much.

I have been wandering on the internet for many years, and I also understand that this is a virtual world where applause and fists exist.

Everyone is here, humble or proud, struggling between desire and reality. Life is often trivial and ordinary. In the day after day, we slowly lose patience, are careless about many things, and often give some leisure and triviality "seriousness".

Everyone is ordinary but extraordinary, perhaps this is the true face of life. Everyone is simple and ordinary, and in his own way, every day is a little more different in texture. In the future and dreams, it is wild and unrestrained, calm and unknown.