Since the child is one year old, we have taken her to parent-child classes. We stopped for several months because of the epidemic. As for early education, I am the initiator. I started a little late at the age of one, and I regret it, but I am also the one who wavers in the middle.

In the same company, children will always get closer and share the deeds of the same stage with each other. Knowing that my daughter is in an early education class, some colleagues think that now is the era of big data, and there is a lot of information available on the Internet. Parents can teach at home, and it is only a matter of time before children learn some skills. Mastering early does not mean being smarter.

For my doubts, my husband asked me if my colleagues who put forward this view had done early education for their children. The answer is no, but I would like to add that this colleague's child is already in primary school, with excellent academic performance, self-discipline and independence in study and life, and has never participated in cram schools, so parents never need to worry about it.

My husband told me calmly that children's success is reflected in all aspects, and the contributing factors are complex and diverse. Don't try to measure them with the same ruler to determine whether they have reached the expected value. The same sunshine and the same soil moisture, not all seeds can germinate and grow up early, grow into towering trees, full of branches, and finally bear countless fruits, because they are not the same seed.

At first, we compared a number of early education institutions and went to an early education center that met the basic requirements in all aspects. In the end, we chose the one with the best experience for our daughter, although that institution was not the best on our list.

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Now my daughter is two and a half years old. Let me sum up my experience since I took the early education class:

Early education is the baby's early education. You don't have to attend early education classes, but early education is very necessary.

Japanese scholar Kuiyi Kimura believes that children's potential ability follows a decreasing trend, that is, children with potential ability of 100 at birth can become people with 100 if they receive ideal education at birth; If you start education at the age of 5, you can only become a person with 80 points. /kloc-started education at the age of 0/0, and can only become a person with 60 points.

At the age of 0-6, we should give targeted guidance and training according to children's physiological, psychological and sensitive development characteristics, lay a good foundation for the cultivation of children's multiple intelligences and healthy personality, pay attention to developing children's potential, and promote children's all-round development in language, intelligence, art, emotion, personality and society. In short, early education can make children grow up better.

Will early teaching make your baby's brain tired?

Early enough stimulation and learning opportunities will not only harm the brain, but also promote its development.

For example, Montessori education, their educational philosophy is to understand children, respect their personal dignity and growth process, create an environment for children to meet their own development needs, and then guide children to release their innate potential.

Is it better to teach early at home or enroll in an early education class?

If economic conditions permit and time permits, you can consider attending early education classes. Generally speaking, professionals will do better. They are familiar with the skills that need to be developed in each stage, master the methods of training and upgrading, and have supporting equipment.

In addition, in class, parents and children have a more sense of ceremony, and it is easier to concentrate on one thing. At home, there are many factors that affect them, so it is difficult to be distracted and always easily interrupted by "other more important things".

If some family economic conditions do not allow, or parents have no extra time to control, or parents have very strong self-study ability and can give their children systematic early education independently, there is no need to spend money to enroll in early education classes outside.

What should I do if I spend money on early education classes but it doesn't work?

In the classroom, there are very good demonstrations from the teacher's greetings to the children's meeting, and then to the acquisition and use of teaching AIDS. Children learn to communicate with others, learn to share with other children, and have a sense of order while waiting. ......

Every once in a while, we will review the children's performance. Even if there is progress, it cannot be proved that it is brought by early education, but one thing is certain: parents will make progress in this process.

We take a morning off every weekend and have two classes in a row. Good early education institutions attach great importance to extended family education. There is a special parent exchange group. The teacher lists the key points of the course and arranges some homework that interacts with children at home, which extends to similar life scenes.

The teacher of the early education center said: "Many parents can be teachers themselves after a period of classes. By analogy, they can also arrange rich activities at home. "

Children's education is a long process. As parents, we must keep a normal mind, downplay our utilitarian mind and reject blx. Our efforts may not be perfect, but we will meet better ourselves.

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