The "many products" version of Shanghai socialite quickly caused a hot discussion on the Internet, and then the "male version of socialite" immediately appeared and rushed to the hot search. In order to know the truth about celebrity circle, a car blogger went to the luxury car rental office to ask about the situation. The boss replied to himself: "In fact, this situation is very common. A few days ago, eight men and two women came to rent a car, but they didn't drive, so they parked on the road to take pictures.
There seems to be some misunderstanding about the word "celebrity", which is a circle that most of us can't touch. Celebrities who are "well-born, talented and beautiful" can be seen everywhere. A group chat called "Shanghai Celebrity Crowd", everyone actually thinks that the nature inside is a celebrity in Shanghai, which seems a bit like pointing a deer at a horse.
What is the real life of celebrities in Shanghai? Others are analyzing the industrial chain behind these seemingly celebrities. In fact, no matter from what angle to interpret this phenomenon, I feel that I have two words: magic.
Before this incident came out, it can even be said that it refreshed my three views. Six people can make an afternoon tea for two at the Ritz-Carlton, and 15 people can make a top-class luxury hotel of 3000 yuan a night. In fact, it is to send a senior circle of friends. I'll shoot it when you're done, and I'm sure of the time management of these "Shanghai celebrities".
What's the purpose? Is to use a seemingly high-end exquisite life to go fishing in various high-end places, hoping to find a rich man who can make himself rich. This is the ultimate goal of their group fight.
Just as the group said: "Promote high-quality boys to each other, make friends with financial giants, and return to study abroad." Moreover, in their cognition and values, cars such as BMW and Mercedes-Benz are no longer representatives of the rich, and the minimum match is the start of Porsche. The former can't enter their eyes, and the latter can only feel.
In the eyes of celebrities, there is an opportunity. The high-level people who come out of the group and live a fine life have a certain chance of success in fishing for Kai Zi in the life circle of the rich, but in our view, it is just like wanting to go home empty-handed.
As soon as the news of celebrity group fights came out, the Shanghai high-end hotels involved immediately responded, saying that there was no such thing, and the hotel needed real-name registration. No phenomenon of many people staying together is found, and the authenticity of online group chat and group is not considered. In fact, in real life, such a situation does exist.
Where there is demand, there is a market. When the profession of online celebrities became popular, a bunch of institutions emerged to cultivate and incubate online celebrities. Of course, this celebrity group fight will naturally produce a wave of industrial chain. When the news first came out, many netizens found advertisements for group fights and renting luxury goods, brand-name bags, hotels and so on online. There is no denying that there are such people working together to enjoy luxury.
Mentioned here, I thought of a sentence:
The more lacking a person is, the more he wants to show off.
What kind of talents are celebrities? A real celebrity won't take some beautiful photos and send them to a circle of friends just because she went to a high-end hotel and had a fine afternoon tea, let alone take photos there for a long time in front of her car logo. Imagine a person who eats lobsters almost every day. Will she send them to friends circle to eat lobsters?
First of all, real celebrities are not as superficial as you think. People never lack these things. They like to create the illusion of high-end people in their circle of friends, not only girls but also boys.
There is a black product specially designed for high-end people who build a circle of friends. As long as a few tens of dollars, you can create a trap for your friends. As long as you spend tens of dollars, the magical "male celebrity" can receive all kinds of high-end video materials, watches, luxury cars, travel and food every day. Just looking at the circle of friends, I really think I am a person with an annual salary of one million or even financial freedom. All you have to do is copy and paste for a few seconds.
Back to 20 19, the PUA incident, which also caused waves on the internet, once had a reporter unannounced visit to the PUA training class, and the male trainees were actually the predecessors of the current "male celebrity". Their practice is not limited to carrying words and pictures in the circle of friends, renting a car, buying fake watches and taking photos with real people in high-end places to show their quality of life, so that they can then put themselves in the mirror.
In fact, after all, what is the difference between the current "male celebrity" and the original PUA tutor? One is cheating money, and the other is biased. Perhaps the current "male celebrities" are the products of the evolution and development of the original PUA with the development of this era, but they can't escape the same feature: they all try to take shortcuts for their own goals, and they all want to use their fake appearances to achieve their goals quickly.
Behind these false "celebrities" actually reflects a distorted psychological and social values: that is, money is paramount, things that cannot be solved without money, and things that cannot be done without money.
In the PUA incident, the girl who was pushed off the cliff by her husband survived. How much courage does it take to face reality again? In real life, for most deceived girls, many people will be devastated and it will be difficult to get out of the shadows in a short time. Like the woman who was pushed off the cliff, I thought I had met love, but I didn't realize I had met the devil until I was pushed back to life. Similarly, some people are unwilling to be ordinary, full of energy, and dare to attach themselves to others.
For those celebrities, the value of putting money first is to always remind yourself that if you can't get married, you should at least make some money from them, otherwise you will be sorry for the hard-earned people.
But the most critical problem is that even the high-end exquisite, once accustomed to the luxurious life, it is very difficult to live their original real life, not to mention the seemingly luxurious life behind it.
Moreover, the point is that this kind of life itself is a life far beyond one's ability. Once there is no "speller" on the road, this kind of life will be fragmented, which is the inferiority of human nature.
The transition from frugality to luxury will be quite difficult, and vice versa.
Once a person is used to a frenzied life, tastes the taste of making money seemingly effortlessly, and tastes the sweetness of taking shortcuts, it is difficult to readjust his mentality. Just like Gu Jia in "Standing at Thirty with Nothing", she thinks that she has come into contact with the circle of rich women, and she expects these ladies to take care of the business of the whole family fireworks factory, thinking that she has entered the circle with a bag of hundreds of thousands. Just because the two families played a game of golf together, the fireworks factory got the big bill of Beijing Paradise. The ease of making money and taking orders suddenly made Gu Jia feel the benefits of entering Mrs. Fu's circle. She began to enjoy this seemingly unearned success and tasted the benefits of contacting this circle. In order to help her husband realize financial freedom as soon as possible, she cares more about Mrs. Fu's circle than her old customers, because she wants to take shortcuts. In the past, the company was very friendly to customers.
So there is a tea garden that Gu Jia wants to take over directly from his wife. In fact, the motivation behind it is very simple, that is, he wants to use this relationship to continue to take orders for his own fireworks business. But once you get used to it and like the taste of taking shortcuts, you will fall badly. Shortly after taking over the tea garden, Gu Jia discovered that this was a pit dug by ladies. The tea garden can't make any money at all. Due to years of losses, the ladies want to make a move. Because the money invested in tea garden didn't pay off, families in Gu Jia suddenly fell into economic crisis and faced the choice of mortgage house.
You see, people who are used to taking shortcuts, once they like to take shortcuts, sometimes pay a huge price.
I was crazy about taking shortcuts when I was studying. Every time I do my homework, I borrow it from my classmates. During the final exam, I also begged the teacher to make her relax. As a result, when I was looking for a job after graduation, I suddenly realized that I didn't know what I could do or what I could do. My brain is a mess.
At that time, I didn't understand what reading was for, and I didn't think it would be useful. There is even a feeling that I can finish it early. Indeed, the process of reading and learning is also a long-term accumulation process. It is impossible to give you what you want in a short time. At the same time, there is no guarantee of how much salary you will get and what kind of management position you will take in the future. There is no correlation and causality.
But in fact, it is this learning process that we have experienced, a process that seems to have no quick return, which has gradually formed our cognition and values about ourselves, society and even the world, so that we can learn to think independently, so that we can distinguish between true and false by ourselves, so that we can see through the truth behind many things without being biased by others.
When I first joined the work, as long as I brushed those short videos and question-and-answer platforms, I felt like a waste in an instant, and there was a feeling that people with a monthly salary of over 10 thousand were everywhere. I am the only one who is poor, and everyone except myself has lived a life that I envy and yearn for, but people who really have their own cognition and values can actually know at a glance that this is just a gimmick for some bloggers to earn eyeballs and traffic. The real social reality is the monthly salary 1000 yuan.
If we can have our own cognition and judgment, we will not be easily confused by the illusion created, and it will be easier to see the cruel reality and truth behind the illusion.
Celebrities pack their circle of friends with luxurious life and establish their own personal designs. Little imagine, in fact, their youth and beauty, in the eyes of the rich, is actually just a short rent item. If they have used it and experienced it, they will choose to abandon it.
Those seemingly easy and attractive shortcuts often hide traps that you can't see. It seems to be a shortcut, but in fact it is a detour. They look easy, but in fact they cost a lot of money.
Down-to-earth efforts and progress are the best investment for yourself. I hope you and I can see the truth of time clearly and keep a clean heart in our hearts.