Experience: See how I "interview" the new moon.
Before giving birth to a baby, I still firmly believe that I can take care of the baby alone. However, after the baby was born, I discovered how rare it is to have an experienced new moon. It is often said that some people are not good at character and technology, and it is useless to invite them. But after my unremitting efforts, I finally found a qualified new moon. One: looking for evidence from the predecessor, the third party evaluation is more fair. After I decided to find a new moon, I began to ask people around me about it. After hearing about it, a relative introduced me to a relative in my hometown, saying that he wanted to earn some money at home when he was free, and it was no problem to take care of my baby. On hearing this reason, I refused. The reason is very simple, such a new moon is not professional at all, but it will pull out some unscientific taboos to toss people. After hearing that there is a more formal and popular Confucius Center in the city, I began to call there to contact. After making my request, I also asked the other party to introduce me to the Confucius Center, which must be experienced and professionally trained. The Confucius Center sent several resumes of Yue Yue. I think two of them are more experienced and have written down the contact information of people who have served before. I called according to the phone, and I told each other frankly that I wanted to find Yue Yue. Both mothers gave me some details about Yue Yue. The two moons speak highly. They are capable and not afraid of hardship. They really think about the baby. After leaving, the baby still can't bear to part with her. After listening to the introduction of the third party, I have a bottom in my heart. I looked through other resumes, and there was indeed a Yue Yue who happened to have worked in my community. I immediately called the householder and talked about their views on this Yue Yue. Disappointingly, the other party's evaluation of that new moon is not high. So, I decided to invite those two moons for an interview. Two: observe the details and evaluate the experience of the new moon. I have an appointment in the morning and an appointment in the afternoon. The new moon that came this morning is called A. When she came, she brought a shopping bag. I am curious. She told me that it was clothes worn by some children before. Newborn babies have delicate skin and generally don't wear new clothes, so some new mothers will look for these old clothes everywhere. She didn't know if I needed it, so she brought it here to have a look. I felt satisfied inside, so I began to ask her about her previous experience. All new mothers should pay attention. Be sure to ask about your work experience before Yue Yue, not what you will do in the future. Experienced Yueyue will often tell you what precautions a newborn should take from breastfeeding to bathing, and what posture a new mommy should take from breastfeeding to changing a baby's diaper. If you ask, "How can you take care of the baby when you come?" Such a problem, then some moons with good water blowing ability will drive you crazy, and you simply can't understand the true ability and level of moons, and slowly emerge. On the contrary, the new moon B that came in the afternoon was exaggerated a lot. Asked her "how to help the baby bathe", her answer was "Although I am four thick and five big, it is no problem to bathe the baby". I don't understand at all. My focus is whether she is professional or not. Three: for example, let her solve practical problems. Finally, I chose Yue Yue. When she came to our home, she not only took good care of the baby, but also gave me a lot of guidance. Later, my mother-in-law came to my house and visited for a week that month. Even her mother-in-law praised her professionalism. Now that I see that several sisters around me are still worried about the monthly interview, I will post my own experience for your reference. In the interview process, the following questions are the key to examine Yue Yue's professional ability! There are many reasons why babies can't sleep well at night. Professional lunar calendar can list several baskets and put forward countermeasures. If the answer to this question is "Never mind, I have you", don't be moved by her efforts! This only shows that she is an inexperienced fake moon. Professional Yue Yue will tell you that baby shower gel made of natural oil should be chosen for baby shower. However, babies under 3 months should use less shower gel. In order to keep warm more fully, you can choose a towel with a hat, because the head is the easiest part to dissipate heat. Choose a small towel made of pure cotton, which has good hygroscopicity and is small and lovely. You can buy different colors to wipe your face, feet and ass. Of course, this question is not to answer "touch" in the second month, because even if it is answered, it may not be reliable. In fact, in addition to physical exercise, newborns will also develop intellectual listening exercises and picture-watching exercises, which are carried out in the process of playing with their babies, and will be known by specially trained new moons. After professional training, Yue Yue knows that babies need to be taken care of very much. Once they cry, they should go to see it at once. Therefore, the emotional needs of babies should be met unconditionally. Babies who are often held and accompanied have better intelligence and physical development than those who are neglected. Although many new moons know the benefits of spending more time with their children, in order to save trouble, they will still urge their parents to "stop crying when their children are tired of crying." Of course, this new moon can't please go home! Of course, many questions will still be asked during the interview, such as "What brand of bath series do you think is better for the baby", "Diapers or diapers" and "When is the best time to bathe the baby", but whatever you ask, it is to ensure the professionalism of Yue Yue. Finally, I wish everyone can find a satisfactory new moon!