First of all, we must admit that well-off families can indeed provide better parenting mirrors for their children, but don't have children without money? Must have killed him when he was born. Not necessarily! A family without money does not necessarily harm children, and children who grow up in this mirror are not necessarily bad.
A girl needs pocket money to buy a new musical instrument at home. Because the economic conditions at home are not very good, her mother doesn't think it necessary to buy a new musical instrument. During the communication, the girl and her mother quarreled. In the quarrel, one of the words left her mother speechless: why did you have me when my family was too poor to support me?
No money and no children, this sentence is really a problem that many people are entangled in. It's easy to have children, but difficult to raise them. Raising a child is not only the cost of milk powder and diapers, but also needs special care. It's hard to support yourself. How can you have spare money to raise a child, but you want a child yourself? Alas! It hurts to think about it.
Do you want to have children without money?
See what everyone thinks: @ Min Min: My mother said: Don't talk nonsense about "having children means having money"! We were so poor then, and you are still alive. Besides, when you are rich, you will be old and unable to have children.
I said yes, in your eyes, children are like kittens and puppies, as long as they are fed.
But I'm alone. According to my bitter experience in the past 30 years, if this is what you call "living well", I can only ha ha.
If you really have money, you don't have to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Consider whether to continue working or resign to take care of the children at home. If you have money, you can choose to continue your studies or resign next month, or climb mountains with your children, learn piano with your children, and learn French with your children.
If you have no money, you can only earn money desperately and have no time to enjoy the time with your children. @ Teacher: It is the truth that you can educate your children only if you have money. You don't have to be unconvinced. Why? All the students in Oxford University come from wealthy families (70% from aristocratic schools), not because the rich have good genes, but because the rich occupy more educational resources.
This is especially true in China, where educational resources are limited. Rich children can go to Europe to see the Eiffel Tower and the Colosseum up close. Children from poor families can only read picture books of early education, while children from rich families can talk and laugh with foreigners in English abroad.
The children of poor families have never left the village, and the phonetic symbols are not allowed. Children of the rich can go skiing in Northern Europe, diving in Southeast Asia, cultivate a whole set of hobbies, and grow up to be Gao Fushuai.
The poor rent apartments in big cities, and then they are still busy every day, repeating their parents' lives.
@ Yang Yang: No money, no money and no culture. @ 中中中: Hey, I have a deep understanding that the distribution of material resources is too uneven. Only after experiencing those poverty, will I feel what kind of pain it is. @ Partner: In my opinion, as long as you can ensure that your children will not starve to death, you can educate your children well and you can be responsible for your children.
Even if children live in poverty, they can study books, learn world geography, know the size of the world and learn all kinds of delicious food in cooking. These books add up to no more than 300 yuan.
Even if you are too poor to go to high school, you can't go to a technical school. Then you can learn a skill, repair a car, be a cook, and cultivate children's self-reliance from an apprentice.
The key is to educate children to love life, teach them to study and teach themselves, and broaden their horizons. The world is so big that they can't say anything and want to experience it.
But life can still return to beauty, as long as there is love and positive energy in your heart, and you are afraid of being poor and not having enough to eat, but you have to wait for your child to pursue the qualification of braised pork.
Therefore, there is no standard answer to whether to have children without money, but I think that if you want to have children, the minimum life should be guaranteed. Otherwise, what do you use to raise children? But who can stop parents from wanting children?
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