Stay-at-home motherhood has become a new career for urban women, which means that women who used to have jobs quit their jobs during pregnancy and the birth of their children. Women have sacrificed a lot to take care of their children's growth and run a family. It is noteworthy that stay-at-home motherhood has become a new career for urban women.
Stay-at-home mom has become a new career for urban women. 1 Being a mother tutoring her children can not only save the nanny fee, but also save the tutor fee. More and more urban women choose to be full-time mothers. Stay-at-home motherhood is also a profession, which is accepted by more and more people.
Qiqi's mother is a cashier in a foreign-funded enterprise. She told reporters that her monthly salary is 4,000 yuan, and it takes at least two hours to commute every day. When she got home, she was too tired to accompany her children. At the same time, I have to spend 2000 yuan a month to hire an hourly worker to take care of the children because I am worried that the elderly will take care of the children too hard. The child's monthly expenses for attending various early education classes are at least 1000 yuan, which makes her salary little after paying these expenses. After repeated weighing, she simply resigned to take care of the children at home recently, which not only saved the nanny fee, but also saved the early education fee. This survey shows that there are more and more "stay-at-home mothers" like this in big cities across the country.
In this survey, samples were obtained by subsection random sampling, and nearly 2000 pregnant women and mothers of children aged 0-6 were successfully interviewed. The survey found that in parent-child families in first-tier cities such as Shanghai, Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the proportion of stay-at-home mothers was as high as 2 1%, while in second-and third-tier cities, the proportion was only 13%. Children 1 to 3 years old is the period when young mothers are most willing to be full-time mothers. For children of this age, 17% of the respondents are willing to be full-time mothers.
The status of stay-at-home mom has been widely recognized. When the questionnaire of this survey asks the interviewees about their professional status, it especially divides the "unemployed" status into "unemployed or not yet found a job" and "staying at home as a full-time mother".
As a result, only 4% of all the respondents think that they are currently "unemployed or have not found a job"; Nearly 20% of the respondents believe that their current occupation is "being a full-time mother at home".
The above choices made by the respondents in this survey show that although there is no "stay-at-home mother" in the official employment registration and occupational classification, there is still a clear difference between "stay-at-home mother" and "unemployment" in people's minds. Full-time mothers with children at home are more similar to a state of informal employment.
Stay-at-home mom has become a new career for urban women. When the baby was three months old, Xiaolin was reluctant to give it to her mother and officially went to work. From then on, the bitter days began. 24 hours a day, get up at 6 am. After the baby wakes up, he can't sleep anymore. Then he took care of the baby until 7 o'clock, gave it to his mother, and cleaned himself up and went to work. When you call WeChat at work or at home, your heart will really fly away, but you have to work hard to make money and suffer when you are stressed. Find a hidden place to suck milk when you rest. Mom can't help it Kobayashi never eats with his colleagues, but goes straight home to take care of the children, nurse and change diapers, and clean and wash clothes. His mother is old and it's hard to take care of the baby. Xiao Lin can't bear to let her do more. After half a year's hard work, the baby is a little older and has changed to a close-range job, and his life is better. During the period, I complained more than once, and I wanted to be a fair "abandoned husband and son" more than once. I didn't care about anything and went to chic, but when I became a mother, where did I get so much time to myself?
We all say that staying at home is the hardest. They have no rest for 24 hours a day and have to work at any time. And not understood by her husband, even complaining that she is useless. In fact, compared with full-time mothers, those mothers who have to work and take care of their children are the hardest.
Wake up early in the morning by the alarm clock, barely get up, clean up by yourself, clean up the children, dress and feed them, and then give them to the old man to go to work by himself.
You may encounter all kinds of problems and bear all kinds of pressures at work, which may be a harmonious and warm working environment, or you may have the supercilious look of your boss and the ridicule of your colleagues.
During work, I am most afraid of making phone calls at home. What happened to my child? I may be distracted by this phone call all day, I can't take care of it at home, I can't do my work well, and I end up complaining at both ends.
During work, especially breastfeeding mothers, it is very hard to find a hidden place to suck milk during the break and put it in a fresh-keeping box to go home for the baby to eat.
I dare not have any date dinner after work. A little ancestor at home is still waiting. Not much contact with the baby every day. How can I miss this time?
Happy mothers may have food when they come home. They just need to accompany their children. Unfortunately, mothers may have to look after children and do housework. At this time, their husbands will not come out to help, and they really want to kick them to death.
Sleeping at night may be the worst. You should have a good sleep after a tired day, but because the baby may need to get up at night and worry about kicking the quilt, the minimum needs can't be met.
It's too hard for a mother who has to take care of her children and work. Sometimes she really wants to go out without her husband, but after having children, she finds that it is a dream after all.