When the baby is 2 years old, he enters a sensitive period of social interaction. At this stage, the baby's parents should know how to let go and can't hold on to it. Instead, they should be allowed to exercise in society.

However, this kind of exercise is different from college students entering the society. Just getting in touch with society, nature, playing with peers, and even going to the park to see pigeons foraging on the ground.

The sensitive period of social communication is not a sign that you can go to kindergarten.

Desiring to socialize and going to kindergarten are two completely different concepts.

2-year-old babies begin to have the desire to explore the world, and the flowers and the company of children of the same age will stimulate their curiosity. But it doesn't mean to communicate all the time, nor is it absolutely impossible without communication.

If conditions permit, it is a good choice to send your baby to an early education institution for systematic education. Receiving 2 hours of training in the early education center every day can not only exercise the baby's brain development, but also won't make them afraid.

This fear is also the product of separation from mother. At this stage, the baby is in the stage of intuitive thinking. As long as they can't see their mother, they will feel uneasy and can't accept that their mother is only leaving for a short time.

At this time, if the baby is sent to kindergarten and separated from his mother for too long, their sense of security will be overdrawn a little. Thereby hindering the normal development of thinking and brain.

2-year-old children are also weak in self-care.

2-year-old baby's ability to go to the toilet by himself is very weak. Although at the age of one and a half, Ma Bao can start trying to help her baby quit diapers and exercise herself to go to the toilet, but if she really wants to go to the toilet by herself, she must be around three years old.

Therefore, it is inevitable that a 2-year-old child will often pee his pants when he goes to kindergarten. Even if kindergarten teachers can take pains to change their children's trousers, it is still very harmful to their hearts.

Coupled with the ridicule of other children, children are likely to be unwilling to go to the toilet or hate going to kindergarten for this reason. Neither the former nor the latter is easy to solve.

Children should be sent to kindergarten when they are 3 years old?

Then, since children around 2 years old are not suitable for kindergarten, it is ok to send them to kindergarten at 3 years old according to other mothers' choices. If you are over 3 years old and haven't sent to kindergarten, aren't you losing at the starting line?

Moreover, most parents will make such a choice. With the age of 3 as the time node, they can send their children to kindergarten earlier than the age of 3, and parents feel that the earlier the better. Which means the escape was successful.

But such behavior sometimes hurts children. Although the development level of different children is different, the general development indicators are not far apart. How many "prodigies" are there in life?

It's just that the specific situation needs parents to control themselves. Even if you are over 3 years old and haven't been sent to kindergarten, don't worry too much. Maybe this growing environment is more suitable for children!

Parenting experts admit that it is not the best choice to send kindergarten at the age of 3.

We all know that boys mature later than girls, which is related to hormones in boys and the development of boys' way of thinking. Therefore, boys aged 3 or 18 are more "naive" than girls of the same age.

In this way, if there is a baby boy at home, before sending the baby to kindergarten, we must pay more attention to the baby's various abilities, whether it can sleep independently, go to the toilet independently, play well with children and so on.

In addition, no matter whether it is a baby girl or a baby boy, there are people at home to take care of it. If possible, it is best to send it to kindergarten in the future. Three and a half years old is a good time. Similarly, male babies can be a little late.

Babies of this age can adjust their attachment to their parents, control their emotions, understand the teacher's words and abide by the rules well.

Mother alpaca has something to say:

Ma Bao must correct his thoughts. The purpose of baby going to kindergarten is to promote growth, not to encourage it for growth. This should be taken for granted. If you do the opposite, it is unnecessary.

Moreover, when the baby is not in kindergarten, the treasure mothers can't completely ignore it. They thought that everything would be fine if they went to kindergarten. Teachers will teach babies, but they will hide themselves from leisure.

Such an idea is absolutely impossible. Family education is the most important whether it is kindergarten or primary school. Even parents who know nothing and have no experience should study hard and grow up together with their children.

Today's topic:

How old is your child in kindergarten? How long has he been anxious about entering the park? How did you guide it?