First of all, I personally think that the process of separating children from their parents should be the same as changing milk powder for children. The transition should be gradual, and you can't change from one brand to another immediately. So I took her to an early education class for a whole year. From the beginning, I studied and worked with her. Later, she was in front of the class, and I used my mobile phone to deal with work problems in the back; Then she teaches in the classroom and I work outside the classroom. The reason why children have separation anxiety is because of strangeness and insecurity, so as parents, we need to accompany our children in a strange environment, and then slowly pull away after the children are familiar with this environment. The teaching mode of early education is similar to that of kindergarten. When she is familiar with this teaching mode, even if the environment changes, she won't feel so strange.

Followed by some small details of picking up and dropping off the baby. Don't let the child think that his parents don't want him, but throw him into kindergarten! I never allow anyone in my family to say, "You're going to be locked up in kindergarten! You can't just play at that time! " This kind of joke is absolutely forbidden! At home, I will repeatedly say, "Mom really wants to go to kindergarten. There are so many friends and teachers playing with us in the kindergarten, and there are so many fun toys and games! Why can't the teacher let mother go to kindergarten? ? "Xiao Mianmian always says proudly," You're going to work! Only small partners can go to kindergarten! " She is really proud that she has become a kindergarten student! And I can't! I will definitely insist on picking up and dropping off in the first half of the year. Show envy on the road every day and give her to the teacher immediately (mother must show a happy mood and don't let her children feel your worry! You can't cry! ), go to school on time, don't let the children experience "my friends are gone, why don't my numbness come to pick me up!" ? "This kind of mood. Our kindergarten teacher will post the child's daily performance on the blackboard outside, so I will take the child to see it, find her name and admire her progress.

Finally, talk about some ability preparation before entering the park. Only when children have independent ability can they adapt well. Because if he can do a lot of things independently, he will not be so dependent on the help of others, and there will be no "my mother feeds me at home and my teacher doesn't feed me, so I might as well stay at home!" " This idea. Therefore, before children enter the park, they should be trained to eat, go to the toilet, dress, take a nap and pack toys. Don't ask him to do it much faster, just get into the habit of doing it yourself. Only when mom and dad let go early, the children's ability will be stronger and they will be more suitable for kindergarten life. After all, there are so many children that teachers can't be on call.