In fact, after many boyfriends and girlfriends get married, parents will directly or indirectly express this information in front of their children, which makes young friends very annoying. Moreover, most young friends want to work for a few years first, and then consider having children when their careers are stable and their economy is rich. But in the eyes of parents, young friends must be pregnant and have children after marriage, otherwise others will gossip. In addition, she is young and can recover quickly after giving birth. She is over 30 years old, and there are still many adverse reactions that female friends have to face.
In addition, you can list the expenses of raising children in front of your parents. Because most young friends get married, they only pay the down payment for the house and car they buy, so they have to pay back the mortgage and car loan every month after marriage. At this time, their salary has spent more than half, plus the daily living expenses, so the salary is just right. But once pregnant, female friends will face the situation of no job. At this time, the burden of the family is all on male friends, and it is not enough for a family to earn money.
Moreover, female friends will be hurt physically and mentally during pregnancy, including after giving birth to children. In addition, if there is no parents to help take care of the children and give them corresponding help, then women and children are prone to problems. At the same time, parents should be told that confinement is definitely going to the confinement center, and children should also be sent to the early education center when they are one or two years old, listing all the expenses and difficulties they face after pregnancy. Only in this way can parents understand the difficulties of young friends, so enough is enough.