"The wife is not local, and the object at that time was also thinking about her low requirements and easy to get along with. I don't know all kinds of dissatisfaction and distrust after marriage.

The house was before marriage, and her name was not written. I got pregnant after marriage, so I told her not to go to work, and I'll take care of it. My annual salary is about 300 thousand, and I pay her tens of thousands of dollars every year. I will pay for the expenses at home.

After giving birth, she wants to study for a master's degree and take the exam. I said that you are in your early 30 s, what master's degree are you still studying? Fortunately, you were not admitted. Later, I spent money to learn yoga, then I learned early education, and my children went to large classes. Let the children go to private schools, and the tuition and meals are 5800 yuan/month. Death is expensive, but children are happy, and it doesn't matter.

I feel that our consumption concept is also much worse. At that time, when she was with people, her monthly salary was less than 10 thousand How could she be so wasteful after she got married? But except for education and children's expenses, everything else is basically economical.

Now my wife is basically insecure, the money is not in her charge, and the house does not have her name. She spends all day with her children, learning piano, Go, painting, dancing, writing and swimming. Everyone goes out to attend training courses, and it's all money.

Now we basically have no communication, because children can't live without her all the time, and cooking is so-so. Should I divorce her? "

My suggestion: you should know how to communicate with her more and care about her more, instead of giving her something and leaving it alone. She has resigned, and there is nothing left. If you don't care about her, she will become more and more withdrawn and insecure, because you and your children are all to her. Let's have a good communication! Divorce is good for you, the children and her, and your wife is still good.

Your wife takes care of the family while taking care of the children all day. Besides paying attention to children's education, she didn't spend much money herself. If she hadn't been married, she would have 10 to 0.2 million/200 thousand a year now, and then she got married for a day, but she still couldn't figure it out after working hard for a day. She works so hard that you think she is relaxed. No wonder she feels unsafe.

She should be allowed to find a job. It doesn't matter how much money she has. Let her communicate with the outside world more. One is to distract her, and the other is to give her a certain economic foundation.

Your relationship needs a change. Your wife may focus too much on the children and ignore your needs, but you have no personal experience of your wife's hard work, no gratitude to her, and think that she takes everything for granted. Family relationships and husband-wife relationships need to be managed with care. If you only want to save yourself trouble and be lazy, God can't save you!