It is wrong for parents to choose their children to attend early childhood classes. Many parents are busy with their work, leaving the elderly or nannies with their children all the time. I hereby appeal to parents not to neglect their children's early education because of heavy work, but to see the misunderstanding when parents choose their children to attend early education classes.
The misunderstanding that parents choose their children to attend early childhood classes is 1 1. Early education is to instill knowledge and develop skills.
"Don't let children lose at the starting line" has formed a strange circle of thinking. Parents force their children to assign too many hard tasks, and their children's completion is regarded as the standard of judging "IQ" by their parents.
In fact, children should learn how to be a person, how to be a person, and learn a positive attitude towards life and an optimistic, inclusive and cheerful personality.
2. The children's first teachers are old people and teachers.
In contemporary society, parents are not only family members, but also social people, which leads many parents to be busy with their work and neglect the education of their children, leaving the elderly or nannies with their children all the time.
This is very irregular. Most of the elderly in the family are very fond of their children and try their best to arrange everything, which makes the children show obvious lag in social activities. I hereby appeal to parents not to neglect their children's early education because of heavy work, but to participate in their children's initial growth.
3. Good teachers in schools and early education must be good.
In daily life, we can see many parents rushing about for their children's early education, even mobilizing the whole family, thinking that the best education is to let their children go to the best schools and find the best teachers.
In fact, this is very undesirable. Different early education institutions and teachers have different educational methods, each with its own characteristics. Parents should consider teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, not choosing the best, but only choosing the most suitable one.
Matters needing attention in early education class
1. In class, parents must show up with their babies instead of letting the elderly or nannies at home cope.
2. Teachers in the early education class demonstrate and guide, but they should not take full responsibility. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door and practices in the individual." The real effort should be in the practice of parents and children after class. If the child has not made any progress after the first early education course, then parents should find reasons from themselves.
Don't rely too much on early education classes, and don't force children to learn various skills. The most important thing is to learn the teacher's learning methods and educational ideas.
4. Children should follow the principle of "voluntary" when attending early education classes. Children who are willing to learn, attending classes is a kind of enjoyment; Naughty children, attending classes is a constraint on their self-awareness of the world. Forcing children to go to class is often counterproductive.
The child is still young, and he doesn't know what he is learning, so what's the use of learning. More depends on the choice and guidance of parents, so "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" is particularly important.
6. Don't go with the flow and blindly follow the trend. Don't choose the best, just choose the most suitable.
My concluding remarks:
Although there are advantages and disadvantages in early education classes, the advantages still outweigh the disadvantages. Before choosing an early education class, parents should never listen to others and send their children without carefully reviewing their experiences.
This may have the opposite effect. In addition, if parents decide to send their children to kindergarten, they must be with them, and they must not fake their hands and let nannies or grandparents accompany them.
The misunderstanding of parents choosing their children to attend early childhood classes II. Common misunderstandings of mothers taking their children to early childhood classes.
The common misunderstanding of mothers taking their babies to early education classes, here are the contents and methods shared by "early education schools", hoping to help your early education and parenting.
As mothers in the new era, everyone should know a lot about early childhood education. Mothers want to create the best environment for their children to grow up and let them receive the best early education under the conditions they can.
Now, more and more babies begin to follow their mothers into the classroom, taking parent-child classes and early education classes. Let's take a look at it with the early education school. Some understandings and understandings of mothers taking their babies to early education.
Feelings and sharing of mothers taking their babies to early childhood classes
When Qiqi was 0-/kloc-0, I took him to three experience classes without systematic course training. The feeling of early education class is:
(1) The content of the course is mainly games, with the help of different toys to help children recognize. In addition, train your baby's motor skills, such as crawling, so that parents can do exercises, sing and dance with their baby.
(2) The baby is too young to understand the teacher's requirements and does not cooperate with the teacher's arrangement.
(3) Each class is short and the pace is too fast. Babies' autonomous activities are often interrupted. For example, the teacher gave him a geometric building block, and he was playing with great interest. The teacher asked him to put the ball back and take out another ball.
(4) Adults are really tired. I will lie down and do exercises for a while, run around in circles for a while, and hold the child up and down for a while. The child is still puzzling, but I am so tired that I am sweating.
Reasons for giving up early education classes:
(1) I can do early education courses at home. I have the concept of early education, and I can get enough rich and scientific knowledge and methods of parenting from the internet, magazines, newspapers and books.
(2) Early education classes need perseverance. Because of my work, I can't guarantee to accompany my children in every class, so it is better to give up the fixed time and implement early education according to the time and place.
(3) I don't think it's meaningful to spend 50 minutes in early education class every week. The best teachers in the world are parents. They should subtly educate their children in daily life, pay attention to exercise their sports ability, cultivate good habits, establish a perfect personality and so on.
I never thought it necessary to go to a professional early education institution to take early education classes. Parents must have a correct understanding of early childhood classes.
Mother's misunderstanding and understanding of early education curriculum
The object of the 65438 +0 early education class is children.
Many parents think that attending early childhood classes means throwing children into the classroom and learning from teachers. So I'm absent-minded, unable to devote myself wholeheartedly, chatting or walking or making phone calls. In fact, the early education class teaches parents, not children!
The significance of early education class is to help parents establish a scientific concept of early education and understand some parenting knowledge, including diet, health and intellectual development.
Help parents grasp the baby's sensitive period in time and help the baby feel new things together; Let parents know the characteristics, interests and abilities of their children at each growth stage;
Emphasize parent-child interaction, let parents master some educational methods and skills by playing games with their children, and so on. That's why I said before that I feel that attending early education classes is more tiring than children. Because, I am the truly educated person.
NO.2 the responsibility of early education lies with the teacher.
Some parents put all the responsibility of education on the teachers in early childhood classes, thinking that teachers in early childhood classes teach and educate people just like kindergarten teachers or primary school teachers. In fact, the teachers of early education classes mainly demonstrate and guide parents and children to play interactive games.
Many parents spend money to enroll in early education classes. Because of their busy work, they let their children's grandparents and even nannies accompany their children to early education classes.
Accomplish the role of "accompanying reading", thinking that there is a teacher anyway. This is all wrong. It is best for parents to accompany their children to attend early education classes in person in order to achieve the purpose of education.
No.3 early education class is to develop intelligence and make children smarter.
Some parents mistakenly think that as long as they attend early childhood classes, my children will be smarter than other children and win at a starting line. In fact, early education is not limited to intellectual development, nor is it to cultivate "prodigies".
The content of early education also includes creating a growing environment for children, triggering children's exploratory behavior, and promoting children's all-round development in five major areas: big sports, fine movements, language, cognitive ability, emotion and social behavior.
The early education class is not the magic class in imagination. Not all children who have attended early education will make a difference in the future, and children who have not attended early education classes are nothing.
Fourth early education = early learning
I once heard a mother who opposed early childhood classes say, "Today's children are really tired, they can't take care of themselves, and they have to attend classes everywhere? Is the little fart child who is still breastfeeding starting to learn? " She has a misunderstanding about the early education class. In fact, early education classes are not for babies to learn knowledge.
Many parents like to use the standards of "how many words can be recognized", "how many poems can be recited" and "how many numbers can be counted" to measure the effect of children's early education.
But the biggest significance of early education class is not to teach the baby to sing a song, recognize a word and recite a poem, but to play in middle schools and schools, to make education entertaining, lively and interesting, to make the baby happy to learn, and to improve the baby's independence, imagination, memory, concentration, adaptability, social ability and so on in the game.
NO.5 early education class has an immediate effect.
Some parents said that they felt that the baby had gone to an early education class and there was no change or progress. In fact, the baby's learning has a process of accumulation.
Especially for babies under 1 year-old, what they touch will not be displayed immediately, and it is impossible to have an immediate effect after class. Moreover, because the early education class pays more attention to the cultivation and development of potential, the effect of early education is difficult to find in a short time.
Parents can't just focus on the results, ignore the process, and pay too much attention to whether their children have made progress. In addition, psychological preparation is also needed, that is, early education is effective, but it does not mean that all early education courses are effective. In fact, a considerable number of early education courses have been infected with commercial flavor, and there are many hype elements.
NO.6 all the training is pinned on the early education class.
Early education courses are generally only once a week, and each time is only 45 minutes or an hour or two. If you don't pay attention to some training in your daily life, all your previous efforts will be in vain. Therefore, the effect of early education mainly depends on "extended family learning" after class.
Teachers are not blind when teaching parents and children to play games. The setting of each game is based on the growth and development characteristics of the baby at all stages.
Parents should learn the teacher's attitude towards children, guide children's skills and how to play games with children. At the same time, they should repeat the games played in class and train in the process of taking care of their children.
NO.7 the more expensive the early education class, the better, and the more bizarre it is.
In the past two years, early education has mushroomed and become a popular trend, which is sought after by many young parents. Of course, businesses will also take this opportunity to speculate, and the cost is quite amazing.
Many families with financial strength buy their babies a "starting line of life" at a high price, and it will cost thousands of dollars to move after a semester. The cost of a class is basically 100 ~ 200 yuan or even higher, and some "climbing classes" are even more expensive than MBA.
Some parents blindly believe that the more expensive the early education institutions, the better the environment and the better the teachers. In fact, expensive courses are not necessarily suitable for babies. Early education should not be aristocratic, and high-priced courses are meaningless. As long as the baby is happy and healthy and affordable, it is a good early education course.
In addition, some parents just blindly follow the trend and don't know much about early education. They saw all kinds of strange names such as "Montessori" and "Orff".
I don't understand how much gold there is, and I want my children to keep pace with the times and get in touch with new things. Especially it is more fashionable to hang foreign names. These are all wrong, and we can't blindly follow the trend.
NO.8 the more complete the types of early education courses, the better.
Every parent wants their children to develop in an all-round way, so the more varieties and richness of early education courses, the better. Some parents give their babies music initiation lessons at Orff Music Center.
I went to Baby Art to play painting class, and then I went to Helen Duolun to learn English. Finally, I signed up for a sports baby class to let my baby "relax". I mistakenly thought that this would make the baby develop in an all-round way, but in fact it just made myself and the baby exhausted.
If you report too much, on the surface, you have different emphases, but in fact, it has not doubled the improvement of your baby's intelligence. Besides, we should set aside time to go out to play on weekends anyway. Don't forget, nature is also a good teacher for babies.
On the 9 th, the baby was forced to "listen carefully" in class.
In my impression, every time I attend an early education class, some children cry from the beginning to the end of the class, and some children are very naughty and jump around.
I just don't listen to the class well and don't cooperate with the teacher. At this time, the mother of the child is usually very angry and helpless. She always feels that she spent money on class, but it was wasted by her baby.
I think it is normal for children to behave naughty in early childhood classes. Especially 0- 1 year-old babies, some have not adapted to such a lively environment, or have been crying, or have been breastfeeding or sleeping.
If you can't go to early education, your baby's feelings are the most important. If we just force children to adapt and go against their feelings and psychological emotions, such early education will lose its meaning. How old is the baby? Parents ask him to "listen carefully" in class honestly, isn't that too high?
10 early education curriculum is the whole or core of early education.
No matter how good the early education curriculum is, it can't replace the role of family early education. Parents are always children's first teachers, and families are always children's first lessons! Education is a compulsory course for parents at all times. We don't have to spend a lot of money on early education classes, but we should accompany our children with love and enough energy.
As new parents, on the one hand, we have no parenting experience, on the other hand, we may be more fresh to our baby than patience, carefulness and persistence.
Therefore, we can't "build a car behind closed doors" and listen to the opinions of professional organizations. Early education classes are also our auxiliary means. Absorb more excellent early education ideas from early education classes,
Make a systematic plan for children's early education, grasp the law of children's growth, and pay attention to exercising children's sports ability, cultivating good habits and establishing perfect personality. It is more meaningful in daily life than simply taking early education classes.