Experience of reading pre-school education books 1 "People must keep learning if they want to make progress." This is a truth that everyone knows. But when a series of things such as work, marriage and having children happened one after another, I dare say that I have never read a book seriously. What books should I read to complete the reading task during the holiday? I solemnly ran to the bookstore. Choose this major. To be honest, I really don't have the courage to choose a professional and theoretical book, because I really don't like it. What should I do? Suddenly, a book called "A good mother is better than a good teacher" attracted me. I only browsed a few pages, and this book gave me quite a shock. "Mom is a friend, mom is a teacher, and mom is a child's guide. Different ways of educating mothers often affect a child's life. " This seemingly ordinary but actually quite philosophical introduction has driven me to make up my mind to buy it home and become one of the must-read books for my holiday. In the next few days, I almost finished reading this masterpiece by Yin Jianli.
The seven elements of education in Yin Jianli are:
1. Improve the quality of love.
2. Make learning easy.
3. Lifelong moral education.
4. Cultivate good study habits.
5. The wisdom that parents should have.
6. Small things are big things.
7. Get out of the misleading education.
Every point of the seven elements of education is very detailed. The author puts the problem of education in front of us through his own contact examples, and teaches us how to solve the problem of education, so that children can be educated without being hurt and remain childlike.
It is easy for adults to do things for their children, and any parent can do it; The hard part is that it doesn't work for children. The most important thing is that children are often given the opportunity to do things alone, take responsibility alone and solve problems alone. Parents who can let their children do it alone should not do it, and parents who can let their children think alone should not rush to give him advice. In front of children, parents should pretend to be incompetent and ignorant, so as to leave all kinds of opportunities to their children. Let children do everything by themselves, make some mistakes, and let them learn to do things slowly. The result is that they will not make mistakes again.
The author said in the book: "It is a bad habit and habit to hit children. An adult who conquers children by force, no matter how rich he is, how prominent his position is, how profound his knowledge is, and how full his reasons for hitting people are, is a sign of his lack of wisdom. At this moment, you think you are strong and just, but in fact you are irrational and overbearing; You have lost all psychological defenses in front of weak children, so you can only find a balance for yourself physically. Violence in the name of love, at this moment your behavior is so rude, but you are a savage in a suit and tie. "
The phrase "violence in the name of love" gave me a strong feeling and made me reflect more and more deeply. Sometimes I have a bad temper, and I hit my child as soon as I get out of control. Most of our childhood education is taught by our parents. But times have changed, and today's children should no longer receive the education that their parents painstakingly managed but failed in the 20th century. Primary school teachers say that children don't have good tutors, junior high school teachers emphasize that primary school teachers don't educate children well, senior high school teachers complain that junior high school teachers are incompetent, and university teachers feel that it is unnecessary to be responsible for students' behavior. In this way, children grow up and really become the scourge of others. Who is responsible for them? We should be worried about this. As the child's first teacher-parents, I feel more and more at a loss. I think only continuous learning and improvement is the road of education I want to take now. When we complain that children are ignorant, disobedient, always make mistakes and fail to achieve their ideals, are we willing to reflect on our educational behavior and admit "I was wrong" to our children or ourselves? If we have no courage or are unwilling to make this kind of reflection, we should not expect our children to change.
Behind a successful child, there must be a pair of parents who have successfully educated their children. Yin Jianli selflessly dedicated his parenting experience to readers, which gave us a direction for children's education and learned how to make children accept our opinions better, so as to cultivate smart, healthy, lively and caring children.
Experience of reading preschool books 2 At present, most of our children are only children, so I think what they are facing is the lack of peer communication. Of course, when children are in kindergarten, there will be many peers and there will be a lack of playmates at home. In this regard, I watched Peer Communication in preschool psychology, which made me understand the significance and methods of peer communication.
It is actually an unequal relationship for children to contact adults at home. Children's affairs are arranged by adults in an orderly way. Children think less, their viability is weakened, and their living ability is not formed. There are also hidden dangers of physical and mental precocity, which may form the character of "little adults". From this perspective, peer communication is very important for children.
In the process of communication with peers, peers are synchronous and can promote the all-round development of body and mind. This is mainly due to the similarity of physical, psychological and cognitive experiences of peers. Some people say that only children know children best. That's true. Once, I saw two mothers chatting with their babies under the age of 18, and found that the two children were also communicating in silent language: one baby smiled and the other smiled; One baby makes a sound, and the other baby makes a sound ... This shows that the synchronization of peer communication cognition makes their communication very easy, including children in our kindergarten. Adults don't understand their thoughts, so children's peer communication can promote their all-round development of body and mind.
The synchronization of peer cognition determines the effectiveness of peer interaction. At present, children's psychological and physiological levels are closer to their peers, and they are prone to * * * emotions in the cognitive process, emotional experience, purpose and self-control ability of the same thing. Especially in the formation of social behavior norms, there is a synchronous process. When children encounter contradictions, we adults are always used to educating our children like this: "You are the big brother (big sister), so you have to make way for the little brother (little sister)". The two different implications of this matter may have different effects and results on the two children. One party will think that I am the eldest brother (elder sister), so I have to suffer hardships. After a long time, I will form a personality tendency; The other party will think that I am a little brother (little sister), and he should let me go. Over time, there will be personality tendencies. I think this kind of education is not conducive to children's ability to solve contradictions and does not have the effectiveness of communicative influence.
After reading this peer interaction, I understand that there are many misunderstandings in the educational methods around us. I will continue to learn how to educate children correctly and improve my educational ability!
During the holiday, I took time to read the book Carl Vitri's Education, which is a collection of educational stories about the father's successful education of children, a collection of works to prove the value of early education with his own successful experience, a practical manual to guide the reform and development of family education, a guiding light to improve the educational level of each family and a direction to comprehensively improve the quality of citizens. Although I haven't really realized the effect of education in the book, some contents are really reasonable.
First, karl witte's educational philosophy.
1, noble sentiment: helpful, kind, compassionate, kind, lively and cheerful, civilized and polite; Dignified, see all kinds of high school and low occasions;
2. Quick IQ: Parents' home education plays a decisive role; Good methods should be constantly summarized and verified according to the actual situation of children, and learn all kinds of knowledge quickly, purposefully and happily, without any time to get twice the result with half the effort; You have to play well and have knowledge, but I encourage playing with others, which is also part of communication. Learning from play is easier for children to accept, and parents should often study it in depth. The process of tutoring children and learning children should be happy. If the results are remarkable, I think the door of wisdom will open.
3. Enhance physical fitness: First, a healthy body is the foundation of everything. Here, Carl specifically mentioned that children should not overeat, otherwise it will affect their health and intelligence. The second is to talk about hygiene, needless to say;
4. Elegant culture edification: vocal music art education, casting a noble and interesting person;
5. Glorious labor: cherish the fruits of labor and create them; You get what you pay, and you get what you get for nothing; (At the same time, it should also be explained that if you pay, you will never get it. )
Carl's method is relatively simple: reward a good Gaby; In the new era, children should experience the joy and harvest of labor and the hardships of labor.
Second, calvert's educational principles.
1, "Adult" Education: In the process of educating children, old calvert never treated children as children, but communicated in an adult way.
2. "Democratization" education: In the eyes of old calvert, parents have no absolute authority in front of their children. On the contrary, parents should pay special attention to children's "face".
3. "Happy" education: calvert's erudition is not based on the same painful study and training as us. On the contrary, for him, learning is a kind of happiness.
4. "Individualized" education: One of the most essential characteristics of education is to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Moreover, it is an important principle of family education to teach students according to their time and circumstances.
After reading this book, the biggest inspiration I get is to educate children in the right way, cultivate their self-care ability and good behavior habits, develop their intelligence, guide their interest in things around them, and form the habit of being diligent and thinking. Cultivate children's ability to find and solve problems, encourage children to dare to ask questions to adults, and cultivate children's curiosity about reading, perseverance in finding problems and self-confidence in solving problems.