It is undoubtedly correct that parents who care about their children's future are committed to letting their children acquire knowledge and grow their talents. Wise parents should also let their children know that the space we live in is not full of sunshine everywhere, sometimes there will be many clouds and haze, and sandstorms often strike. Hardworking. Nowadays, children can't bear a little pain and fatigue. They want to eat well and work less. No matter at home or at school, you can't bear hardships and be afraid of work. They don't carry their schoolbags at school, and live a carefree life.

What family education lacks is the cultivation of children's good quality and fighting spirit. Now that there are fewer children, parents love them too much. Under the cultivation, children are lazy, selfish, self-righteous, self-centered, have no hard-working spirit, have poor ability to resist setbacks, and eventually develop an imperfect personality! On many occasions, we will always see parents escalate into scolding and fighting between parents because of small things like pushing and shoving between children. The reason is that they don't want their children to suffer, but they never think that these experiences are exactly what children need to learn when they grow up.

The best time for the relationship between mother and child and the establishment of a good and sound personality is to educate children on Chinese culture, benevolence, courtesy, wisdom, faithfulness, softness, courtesy and frugality, as well as Chairman Mao's ideological education of serving the people wholeheartedly, so as to cultivate children's physical and mental health and lay a good foundation for enrollment and future development. Since the post-90s and post-00s are both only children or second children, they are cared for and pampered beyond the reach of children of any era. They generally lack the ability of self-management, labor consciousness, teamwork, collaborative sharing and problem solving.

Parents are afraid of children suffering, teachers are afraid of getting burned, and schools are afraid of public pressure, but they are not afraid of spoiling children. Parents' love and protection, teachers' timidity and schools' fear of confrontation make students unscrupulous. Rational parents will care and love from an early age, study hard, guide education with correct concepts, and let their children embark on the right path and live a correct life.