If a woman has any characteristics, it is mostly a symbol of "bad karma", but unfortunately too many people don't understand it. A woman who is only willing to pay for others is very stingy with herself. The most common mistake women make in marriage is that they are only willing to pay for others, but they are very stingy with themselves. Women are willing to buy four-digit shoes for men, but they don't want to spend hundreds of dollars on a skirt for themselves. A woman is willing to pay for the best milk powder for her children and sign up for better early education, but her clothes and skin care products are always solved on Taobao. Women dress their husbands up and their children up neatly. It's just that she always feels like a domestic nanny, not a hostess.

This kind of woman is miserable. Her misery is not caused by everyone, but she is the culprit. If women don't know how to love themselves, how can they expect others to love you? If a woman doesn't take herself seriously, who will take her seriously? All blessed women know that only by loving themselves will others like her, and only by being kind to themselves will others be kind to her.

Grasping the big events and small feelings at home, there is no time, indoor space, obligations and responsibilities in marriage. It can be said that men and women are equally divided. Some women have been handed down from their mother-in-law and husbands, such as "women take home as the world" and "it is a woman's duty to do housework and have children". In that case, what is a person's duty? Some men shouted confidently, "My own job is to support my family." In that case, why do women take pains to do housework and take care of their children when they earn the same amount of money? This is inevitably unfair.

When a woman takes care of the big and small affairs at home alone, she feels that she is an extraordinary person and can only do what should be done from the heart of a man. Maybe a man will dislike her cooking, her shirt is not clean and her home is not spacious and bright. When a woman has no time and space of her own, her home is her whole universe. For such a woman, it is equivalent to a frog in a well, and her day is only as big as a wellbore.

The unprincipled and bottomless forbearance in marriage made me black and blue. No one deserves a woman's unprincipled forbearance, including her other half. If a man really loves a woman, he won't want her to be his ideal type, because then she won't be what she used to be. Black and blue, his life has changed and his nature has changed. How can he still love her? Women also need to know clearly that they should never change too much for everyone.

A truly harmonious couple will understand that change is a mutual matter, not a personal matter. Men are willing to change for the women they love in marriage, and women also need to tolerate men's small willfulness and shortcomings to some extent. If the only person in a marriage who keeps changing is the woman herself, it will be difficult for their relationship to last. Even if the way is still there, the essence has long gone bad.