Even if he answers the question, the child cares about the left and right and will not answer the question directly. Not to mention others, that is, parents feel anxious and struggling to communicate with him, and are unwilling to communicate more. Every time I tell my child about this situation, the child looks impatient. Cousin was so angry that she wanted to beat her up directly. She felt that the child had no boy's courage at all. He dawdled all day and was timid.
My cousin's friends are comforting my cousin. One child has one personality. Let my cousin not be so anxious. Cultivate the children slowly and everything will be fine. Recently, however, my cousin happily sent a dynamic message, and the child passed the strict selection and got a high IQ certification report. During the chat, my cousin herself wondered why a child who is usually taciturn has such a high IQ.
The level of IQ is related to children's studies and whether they are smart or not. Every parent attaches great importance to his IQ. Nowadays, the academic competition is becoming more and more fierce, and parents are also anxious. Some parents even work hard during pregnancy, such as early education classes and prenatal music, so that their children will not lag behind others in the future.
According to research, the time before children go to primary school is a critical period for their intellectual growth. If you want to improve your child's intelligence, parents should seize the critical period and work hard. If children have higher intelligence, parents will be happy to spend more energy to cultivate them. Just like my cousin's children, if they are not specially tested, how can they know that they are not stupid children? Being criticized every day makes smart children feel inferior gradually.
Clues of children with high IQ
1, athletic ability
It is not unreasonable for the older generation to say that children who can walk are more important. There are many aspects of cleverness. Being talented in learning is smart, and being talented in sports is smart. Children need instructions from the brain to coordinate their limbs when exercising, so children who walk early will develop their brains faster.
2. Curiosity
Children are curious about this strange world. They want to know everything and touch everything. In addition, children are full of energy, so they always like to walk around and would rather play outside than stay at home. After the child's language expression ability is a little richer, he will pester his parents and ask: Why?
They don't really want to know what they are asking, but they regard asking questions as a habit. Sometimes I feel dissatisfied with the conclusion given by my parents and like to find the answer by myself. Parents should not think that children's nagging is precisely the performance of high IQ. Full of the world, can maintain enough innovation ability, but also improve children's thinking ability.
Step 3 focus
Focus, in layman's terms, is how long a child's enthusiasm for one thing can last and how long his attention can last. As you get older, your concentration will last longer. Concentration is an essential factor for study and work. The longer the concentration, the higher the efficiency.
Children with high IQ can keep well when they are young, for example, they can devote themselves to reading books and playing with toys. Even if parents ask their children to do other things, they will finish the task first. Such children can also take books as the center in their future studies, and their grades will naturally not be bad.
4. Language expression ability
Most children can't learn to speak until they are about two years old, but some children can babble at about one year old, which is also a sign of high IQ. Before speaking, children hear countless listening exercises, and after simple brain processing, they speak from their mouths. The brain needs the cooperation of ears and mouth to accomplish this task, and it is not a simple "parrot talk" as parents think.
Conclusion: If a child has a high IQ, parents should not be too complacent and educate their children with a normal heart. In the process of cultivating children, we should pay attention to their all-round growth. You can't just focus on what you are interested in. If a child doesn't like something, he ignores the cultivation in that respect. As long as children are fully developed, they will be better.