How to be a good parent is an eternal topic in social discussion. I have been very keen on discussing how to be a parent since I was in college, so although I am unmarried, I know the difficulties of my parents. After reading this book, I know more about how to be a good parent. Whether it is used for children's education in the later period or for counseling now, it is very meaningful. About how to be a good parent, there are several things that must be done: children should have goals when they are young, not when they grow up. Because children will never grow up, and after setting goals, they must not give up. They must form habits from an early age. Only in junior high school can they help children form habits smoothly, not by temporary changes. It can be said that this case is applied to psychological counseling. To respect children's choices, many parents now blindly help their children make decisions, and it is also boring to reason with parents during counseling. Through the real case of this book, you can convincingly tell your parents. Then, the current family conditions are particularly good, and parents love their children very much, so sometimes you really can't criticize this family, because you have no children to criticize others. There are such famous examples of educational experts, which can be boldly used. Education for children is limitless, but we must give them limited help. I believe that the counseling effect will be better. Coupled with the book's emphasis on the power of parental responsibility, I believe that the later services can be reduced a lot. Zhang Zhongqing is my most admired father and teacher. I didn't expect paternal education to be a career in one's philosophy, and it is lifelong. And his education is different from ordinary people. His cultivation of children focuses on the cultivation of children's abilities, while modern education, including schools, pays attention to children's achievements, so Mr. Zhang Can has educated such good children. Moreover, I can see from him that education must be patient. It is conceivable that Mr Zhang Can insists on telling stories to children every day. In addition, it also reflects from the side that parents should have corresponding literacy, otherwise, how can you guide children in the form of stories when they make mistakes? In particular, the cultivation of children's gratitude is what many parents expect and what many parents can't do, that is, the cultivation of personality. Finally, the importance of early education, but the children trained by great men are all trained from early education and are very skilled. The cultivation of interest is also very important. Now many families are aware of this benefit and begin to choose a wide variety of interest classes for their children, but often children can't stick to it and parents are very anxious. Therefore, the choice and persistence of interest is also very important. Relying on teachers to guide Xiao Lei is very successful. It is very successful to rely on the father to stimulate children's interest, develop their intelligence and let them do everything with all their interests. In short, children's education is both bitter and exciting. Knowing this is really useful for our counseling, and it also relieves a lot of pressure on our service for parents to know them, so I think this book.

Message: Everything in this world is accomplished by hope. If a farmer doesn't want a corn to grow into a seed, he won't peel it off. A bachelor will never get married if he never wants to have children; A businessman won't go to work if he doesn't want to make a profit from it.