Expect the son to succeed and the daughter to succeed. Every parent wants his baby to become better. But babies are made. Parents should pay attention to educational methods, starting from early education. Not only the general educational thought in principle, but also many details in daily life. If you can pay attention, your baby will be excellent.
Almost all parents want their babies to be better, so how to cultivate excellent babies?
Five Details of Early Education
1, "Make your own decisions."
If parents want their children to work hard on something or stop doing something, they can say so. This can let children know that they are responsible for their actions and cultivate their sense of responsibility.
2. "What are you trying to say?"
Children are sometimes dissatisfied, but they can't tell their feelings clearly. They just like to shout "I don't want you!" " "I don't like it! Parents can let their children fully express their emotions. Let your child know that you want to know his inner thoughts. In this way, even if the child is not around, the child can release his emotions well.
3. "Mom loves you, but she doesn't like you doing this."
It is inevitable that children will do something wrong. As parents, it is easy to take drastic measures and blame children. However, the best way is to talk about it with children. If a child does something wrong, he needs to be punished, not corrected.
4. "Different people have different needs."
If children see other children have new clothes and shoes, they should also buy them. You can tell your children that not everyone needs new shoes and clothes, but we still have them, so we don't need them. Other children need new ones only when they grow taller, so that children can learn to realize their own needs.
5. "Try to help me solve this problem."
This is a very attractive and challenging question. If you fully respect your child, he will feel respected and let him try to solve the problem. Instead of blindly blaming others for doing badly, even in the future, children can distinguish what can and can't be done.
The above details are the essence of previous summary. I'm sure I can help you. Maybe you have encountered such a' problem' and it is very difficult. Maybe you will encounter these problems in the future. Anyway, it will be useful to remember. Actually, examples are just examples. If it's all listed, there won't be enough room to write it. The main reason is that parents draw inferences and experience for themselves.
How to cultivate a baby with high IQ
3 years old is a critical period for the rapid development of baby's intelligence. If the baby's daily performance is not as you expected, parents can think about countermeasures from another direction, especially from the baby's point of view. Although the child is still young, he can still feel the appreciation of his parents, which is also very helpful for the establishment of his self-confidence.
For lively and active babies, education should be praised more and criticized less to be effective. Children who are active are generally smart, so they should pay attention to the situation and not be too eager to ask their babies. Teacher Zhou Huan, who is engaged in preschool education, thinks that these children have an advantage in motor function and like to use body language to represent sound language. She said that "hyperactive" children will not suffer from ADHD. On the contrary, some of these children are smart and bored with things around them, so they do a lot of little tricks. For such children, parents need to educate them through praise according to their characteristics.
Role-playing games can not only help 3-year-old babies experience life, but also help their intelligence development. Play games with him, such as seeing a doctor, having guests, going shopping in Carrefour, catching bad guys by police uncles and so on. And make up your own game content to enrich it. You and your baby play a role, such as watching a doctor's game, one plays a doctor and the other plays a patient. Teach him to observe these roles at ordinary times
Reading every day can improve your baby's memory and imagination. Parents accompany their baby to read a simple fairy tale every day. Fairy tales should be short, concise and easy to understand. Parents can add some adjectives or idioms when telling stories to their baby to enrich his language ability. Tell him a story for him to repeat, or let him make up his own story by looking at the picture. Whatever he makes up, encourage him to go on and help him make it up from the beginning.
If the baby has attended kindergarten or kindergarten, the mother can accompany the baby to sing children's songs and recite Tang poems at home in combination with the classroom content of kindergarten. Usually, you can increase his knowledge by seeing anything on the road, such as the names of various animals, plants and buildings, the uses of various shops, and you can also tell him some astronomical knowledge by looking at the sky.
How to cultivate a baby with high emotional intelligence
1, through telling stories and talking about kindergarten life, complete the cultivation of baby's moral character. Parents should have some time to talk to their babies about kindergarten life every day, and then instill some good characters. You can also instill it by reading stories. After a story is finished, you can summarize the good qualities reflected in the story with simple words. Keep repeating and leave a deep impression.
2, hobbies and extracurricular interest classes are not as many as possible, although there may be many things that the baby likes, but if there are too many activities, the baby will be physically and mentally exhausted, and finally may not be able to do anything well. On the contrary, if you carefully select only one extracurricular activity that she likes, she will not only study energetically, but also cultivate a strong sense of responsibility for her own activities and her own group.
3, less snoring, more praise for the baby is conducive to the formation of baby's self-confidence, mainly to appreciate education, more praise and more encouragement. Don't hit the child, it will hurt the child's heart the most. Don't swear, but set an example.
4, teach the baby to start from others, cultivate the baby's compassion, and prevent the baby from forming a selfish personality. In fact, babies are compassionate from birth, and half-year-old babies will cry when they see another baby crying. This is the most direct and simple expression of baby's sympathy. As the child grows up, you should help him to further cultivate this good quality in his daily life and play. You can ask your children from time to time: What can you do to make other children happy? How did you make the child angry today? Why are you doing this? This method can help children to establish a harmonious relationship with others and cultivate their love for others.
5. Cultivate your baby's independent ability. He can do whatever he can, and parents should give their babies the opportunity to make their own choices. For example, put on clothes, give him two clothes and let him choose what he likes; Going out to play allows him to choose a place to play. He usually does things by himself and tries not to refuse. If he wants to refuse, he needs to tell him the reason and affirm his enthusiasm.