Which do you value more, children's IQ or EQ? The door of wisdom needs to be opened with a key. Whether the future is good or bad depends on the growth of children at this stage. The happiest thing for children is to get their parents' approval. All parents should attach importance to the education of their children. Share your child's IQ and EQ, which one do you value more?

1 Which do you value more? I saw an advertisement in some early education centers to cultivate children's IQ, EQ and DQ. What do you mean?

IQ refers to IQ, that is, IQ. Cleverness is usually called wisdom, also called cleverness. It is the ability of people to know objective things and use knowledge to solve practical problems. Intelligence includes many aspects, such as observation, memory, imagination, analysis and judgment, thinking ability and adaptability.

Emotional intelligence refers to emotional intelligence, also known as emotional intelligence, which is a concept corresponding to intelligence and IQ put forward by psychologists in recent years. Mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, emotion, will and frustration tolerance.

People with high emotional intelligence have the following characteristics: strong social skills, outgoing happiness, not easy to fall into fear or sadness, relatively devoted to their careers, honest, compassionate, rich in emotional life but not out of bounds, and can feel at ease when they are alone or with many people.

If a person is withdrawn, weird and difficult to cooperate; Inferiority, fragility and inability to face setbacks; Impatience, stubbornness, conceit, emotional instability, etc. are all manifestations of lack of emotional intelligence. Even if his IQ is higher, it is difficult to achieve anything.

Now psychologists generally believe that the level of emotional intelligence has a great influence on a person's success, and sometimes its function even exceeds the intelligence level.

Experts also believe that whether a person has high emotional intelligence is closely related to the education and training he received as a child. Therefore, the cultivation of emotional intelligence should start from an early age.

DQ refers to developers, including emotional intelligence and IQ. It covers eight aspects of children's intellectual and emotional development.

It seems that IQ and EQ are very important for a person's future. What does this training include?

Genetic factors and nutritional factors will affect people's IQ and EQ, and more importantly, the acquired environment and training. From the birth of the child, parents can grasp the critical period of the child for training according to the needs of the child's intellectual and emotional development at different stages.

Cultivate children's fine movements such as grasping, hand-eye coordination; Running, jumping, climbing and other body movements, rhythmic body, sensory integration and so on. The ability of visual pursuit, memory and judgment, and the ability to observe colors and shapes; Listen, understand, feel, learn to speak, etc. Logical thinking ability, such as concepts, problem solving and logical reasoning; Innovation and creativity, such as divergent thinking; Let children learn to express their feelings, share cooperation, establish social relations and build self-esteem; Cultivate children's self-reliance, learn to take care of themselves, take responsibility, learn to make choices, experience being respected and form an independent personality. These are the education of IQ and EQ that children can't grow up without. With the balanced development of IQ and EQ, children will have good developers, thus laying a solid foundation for their future.

Which do you value more, IQ or EQ? 2 1, the tone of trust.

Choose to trust your children completely at all times. Children especially want to gain the trust of adults, especially parents.

What education fears most is that children can't do it. There is actually a curse in parenting, that is, when you think a child can't do it, she may not be able to do it.

If you always deny your child, it will hurt your child's self-esteem and make him feel insecure about his ability. Don't let your child's life be ruined in our tone.

2. Respectful tone

Locke, a British educator, once said that the more parents don't publicize their children's faults, the more children value their reputation.

They feel that they have a reputation, so they will be more careful to safeguard others' praise for themselves.

Equal respect is the beginning of good communication.

3. The tone of the discussion

From the age of three, children's self-awareness will begin to sprout, and with the growth of age, this self-awareness will become stronger and stronger.

When children have their own opinions, it shows that children begin to know their own strength and ability.

When he puts forward different opinions, don't think that he is rebellious, doesn't listen to you, opposes you, and rudely opposes him.

In the tone of negotiation, let him know that he is equal to you and that you respect him.

For example, if you want him to pick up the littered toys, you can say:

Baby, throwing toys around is a bad habit. Can you organize them with your father?

Never use the tone of command: What's the matter with you? Toys are thrown everywhere. Clean them up quickly.

Otherwise, children will be disgusted when they hear your blame, and they will be unhappy even if they do what you ask.

4, the tone of praise

Every child has merits worthy of praise and a desire to show. Finding his merits and giving him praise will make him more willing to show it.

Specific praise is better than simply praising your child that you are great and effective. Praise is a process of hard work, so that children will feel that they have done a good job and cannot do without their own efforts and efforts.

5. The tone of encouragement

No one is perfect, people make mistakes, and children inevitably make mistakes. When children do something wrong, don't criticize and blame blindly.

On the contrary, we should help him learn from his mistakes, accumulate experience and encourage him to succeed again.

I remember my daughter once broke a pot cover, and I could see from her expression that she was afraid of being scolded by me.

I told him, don't be nervous, everyone will be careless, and dad will make mistakes, and told her that she saw a texture pattern that ordinary people can't see from breaking a glass, which is also a gain from a mistake.

In fact, in the face of the subject of life growth, parents' sense of responsibility and wisdom are everything.

As long as we have the heart, as long as we use our brains, we will certainly find the happiest, most interesting and optimized interactive games with the world, the future and children.