What is the reason for this phenomenon?
The change of environment and diet has made kindergarten a completely unfamiliar environment. The food you eat may be different from what you eat at home in peacetime, and it will also make children feel anxious. So how can children alleviate this symptom?
Before going to kindergarten, I suggest you go to an early education institution first. Some early education institutions focus on courses, with one or two class hours a day, accompanied by parents in short classes, to reduce children's anxiety in the new environment. On the one hand, it can learn knowledge, on the other hand, it can make children adapt to learning with peers earlier.
Before preparing to go to kindergarten, read some books or videos about children going to kindergarten, get to know the class atmosphere in advance, and tell children some stories about going to kindergarten. Children will have a basic understanding of going to school and will not be so resistant.
When you are free, you can take your children to children's education playgrounds and small sports playgrounds. Let children contact more peers, learn to communicate with peers in entertainment games, and also exercise their thinking ability and great sports development. Prepare for better integration into the collective after going to kindergarten.
When you are separated from your child, you should communicate well with your child and agree to pick him up after school. This is only a temporary separation. Don't suddenly disappear, which will aggravate the child's panic and anxiety. Every time you say goodbye to your child, let him slowly accept and adapt to such a fixed difference.
Lunch break in kindergarten is also very important. Before taking a nap, it is a familiar environment with my family. Some children will have the feeling of recognizing the bed, and bring some things that children like or are familiar with to make them feel more secure and familiar.
In fact, not only children will have separation anxiety, but also parents will have this phenomenon.
Qiqi's mother is also a full-time mother. On the first day of kindergarten, Qiqi's mother cried worse than Qiqi. I waited at the door all morning, secretly watching Qiqi from the window. School is almost over, so I wait at the door early.
On the first day of sending children to kindergarten, we can see that many parents are in this state. This is the first time that parents have left their children for so long. Parents should do their own psychological construction and choose a good school in advance. I believe that kindergarten teachers will take good care of their children after professional training. Crying with her child in her arms like Kiki's mother, reluctant to leave, will make Kiki mistakenly think that kindergarten forcibly separates him from her mother.
Parents' emotions will also affect children's emotions. Parents had better do the following:
No matter how sad you are, you can't show it in front of the children. Smile and say goodbye to the child, and try to face the child with a calm expression. If parents can't help crying with their children, it will make them more sad and anxious.
When the teacher takes the child away, don't pull it again to show reluctance. When the child grabs clothes or hair, look at the child gently and tell him to pick him up after school.
Firm attitude, many parents can't bear to see their children cry, always comforting and accompanying them at the door, and some parents take their children home and say they will come back tomorrow. The child is very clever. When they see the effect of crying for the first time, they will cry more sadly afterwards. Parents should confirm their attitude. Children are actually stronger than they think. Say goodbye to your child gently and firmly, and the child will slowly accept and grow up.