Nine-month-old children are the key period of children's development, mainly in five aspects: big sports, fine sports, language, adaptability and social behavior.
A 9-month-old baby can squat down and take things in a big exercise and stand alone for a moment, such as making a conscious voice in the language and knowing "no" (mother tongue); You can imitate the action of patting a doll, adaptively open the paper wrapped in the square wood, and put the square wood into the cup with fine movements.
Language intelligence training
Methods: Continue to practice pronunciation, such as calling father, mother, hugging, beating, doll, patting and holding high. After guiding him to imitate pronunciation, we should induce him to pronounce the consonants of words on his own initiative. Observe whether the baby sees his father calling him "Dad" or his mother calling him "Mom". Talk to your baby more at ordinary times, guide him to pronounce more and expand his language range. Continue to train the baby's ability to understand language, and guide the baby to answer with actions, such as welcome, goodbye, thank you, flying insects, and listening to children's songs and doing 1 ~ 2 kinds of action performances.
In life, at this stage of the baby, we should seize the opportunity to let the baby understand the meaning of "no". For example, when the baby wants to touch the hot water cup, the mother should seriously say to the baby, "It's hot, don't touch it!" " You can also hold the baby's hand, gently touch the cup, and then take his hand away from the object, or gently pat his hand to signal him to stop. Say "no" clearly to things that other babies shouldn't take, and shake your head and wave your hand to let him know the meaning of "no".
You can also play some password-listening games with your baby, such as "sit down", "can't eat", "show me" and "show me your new shoes" to see if your baby will obey the requirements of adults with actions. If the baby does it right, kiss him and reward him.
In addition, you can also show your baby various items, picture cards and literacy cards. It is best to give the same picture a name, so that the baby can understand that this picture is representative. After knowing a few pictures, you can use a picture with a literacy card to let your baby further understand that words can represent pictures and things. Because Chinese characters are images, most children can recognize Chinese characters first and then numbers. Only recognize one picture or one thing at the beginning of teaching and review it for 3 ~ 4 days. When the baby can name the picture, he can find the corresponding picture from several pictures, and then remember to start teaching the second picture. The baby's learning speed varies from person to person, so don't compare with other children of the same age.
You can also read children's songs, tell stories and read books to your baby. In daily life, parents can read children's songs and stories to their babies, and have kind and rich facial expressions, mouth shapes and movements. Children's songs read to the baby should be short and catchy. When telling a story, you can read a short story to your baby before going to bed every night. It is best to remember a story word for word and change it to something else, so as to deepen the baby's impression and memory. Read children's songs, tell stories and read books every day, and tell the stories in the book by asking and answering questions. When you hear them, your baby will become more and more interested in books, which is very helpful for your baby to learn languages. Developing the habit of reading is of great significance to his life. But the time for such a big child to concentrate is very short, usually tens of seconds to 1 minute. When the baby is interested and happy, read children's songs, tell stories and read books with him, otherwise it is meaningless.
In addition, it is necessary to train the baby to be a polite baby from an early age. Generally, the baby begins to express himself with actions from 7 months to 8 months. If you say "goodbye", let the baby wave while saying it, and the parents wave to him while saying "goodbye", so that the baby can associate the wave with goodbye and gradually understand the meaning of this word. Clap your hands to say "welcome", nod your head to say "thank you" and so on. And train the baby to make corresponding actions according to the parents' words to deepen the understanding of the language.
Social intelligence training
Methods: Continue to let the baby communicate with peers, family members and strangers, help him overcome his fear and anxiety about life, and guide him to express his feelings correctly. Especially when strangers arrive, parents must be careful not to let strangers hold their babies casually, and don't leave the baby to make out with the guests immediately, so that the baby will have the fear of being left out and abandoned. We should make him feel safe first, then infect the baby with his warm attitude and friendly atmosphere to make him feel trust in the guests, and then gradually let the guests get close to him. If the baby looks scared when the guest approaches, you can immediately hold him away, talk and laugh with the guest, and then approach again later, so that the baby can have a gradual adaptation process. After a while, the stranger can give the baby a small toy, play with him for a while, let him relax gradually, smile with him, and reach out to him when the baby smiles back. When a stranger picks up the baby, his mother should still be nearby, so that the baby can feel safe. The baby can reach out to his mother at any time and let him approach the stranger safely. Even if a stranger hugs 1 second at a time, after several such experiences, the baby dares to get close to strangers and new things.
Parents should pay more attention to taking their children out and get in touch with people, especially children of the same age. Encourage him to play with everyone, don't be overprotective, for fear that the baby will suffer. In the contact and play with children, correctly guide the baby to establish sympathy and competitive consciousness, so that the baby is confident, open-minded, cheerful, friendly and brave, and healthy and happy in the future social competition.
In addition, the mother can often raise the baby's right hand and wave it constantly, so that the baby can learn the action of "goodbye". When adults leave home, they should wave "goodbye" to the baby. Practice repeatedly. When the baby is in a good mood, help the baby hold his fists together, then shake them constantly and learn to do the "thank you" action.
Praise is the catalyst of infant's intellectual development. For every small achievement of the baby, the mother should always give encouragement, give great attention and praise, clap hands with the whole family, create a warm atmosphere and encourage the baby to continuously enhance self-confidence. In this way, hearing the praise of adults, the baby will repeat the action or language he has just completed, which has a great influence on the baby. This is the joy of his success and the best mental state of his intellectual activities.