□ Xiang Li
With the baby's loud first cry, parents began to make a comprehensive "education plan", and they took care of everything and vowed to let the baby win at the starting line. However, while the small body draws nutrition, the baby's small head also needs to be nourished. Early education at the beginning of life plays an important role in the baby's growth. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
However, in the face of this elf who eats and sleeps every day, how can we carry out early education? Don't underestimate the baby's ability. They are like a sponge. They can absorb the whole unknown world by stimulating some natural abilities, such as sight, touch and hearing. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Suggest 1 4 kinds of spontaneous potential stimulation.
Potential 1: swimming
Potential exposure: when the baby is still in the mother's stomach, he swims in the amniotic fluid. Therefore, for a period of time after birth, the baby still has the ability to float and hold his breath. Put the newborn baby into the water to swim as soon as possible, otherwise, it will be difficult to teach him to swim after his natural potential disappears!
Training mode:
Newborn babies can swim after being checked by pediatrician for good physical and mental condition. You can do it in the baby pool at first, and the first water temperature should be controlled at 36℃ and 37℃. Practice for 5-40 minutes at a time, starting with a short time and gradually extending later. You can give the baby a massage before swimming. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
When taking a bath, parents can drag their baby back and forth in the bathtub by hand, so that the baby can brush up on the feeling of swimming. After half a year, adults can take it to a small swimming pool for exercise. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Potential 2: Look up at your stomach.
Potential: At the age of 6 weeks, although the baby's neck is still soft, it has begun to have the strength to support the head. If he is put on his stomach, he will try to turn his head and make a gesture that he wants to climb. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Training mode
After a month, the baby can learn to look up by lying down. Let the baby lie on the bed, bend his arms on his chest, palm down, and support his body. Mother used a toy to call his name to make the baby look up. Note that this game is best played when the baby is awake and in a good mood, and at the same time, it should not be played after breastfeeding, so as to avoid the baby spitting milk. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Shoulder support is another way to practice raising your head. After nursing, parents let their baby lie on their shoulders and pat him on the back when burping, which is actually to exercise the strength of the baby's cervical spine. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Potential 3: Grasp
Potential exposure: If you tease a newborn baby with one finger, he will hold on tight. This is a physiological reflex grasping posture. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Training mode
You can prepare some simple toys to induce your baby to reach for it and stimulate him to develop the enterprising spirit of "reaching out when you see something". In order to stimulate the baby's interest in grasping, toys with sound can be used to attract the baby's attention. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
According to the different shapes, sizes or positions of objects, the baby can be trained to grasp by changing the hand posture. For example, holding a thread or rope can train the baby to grasp it with the fingertips of thumb, index finger and middle finger. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Potential 4: step and walk
Potential exposure: put your hand under your newborn's armpit and let him stand barefoot on the table, and the baby will automatically go straight ahead, just like a cat walking. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Training mode
Keep exercising. 2-5 minutes a day, taking the baby to walk on a plane with different textures can not only consolidate the physical strength of the little guy, but also stimulate the sense of touch. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Parent-child gymnastics when the baby lies flat, he can do passive leg movements, gently hold his feet with both hands, swing back and forth in a walking posture, and pick up the baby in the air to exercise his leg staring ability. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Proposal 2 Visual stimulation in black and white world
Vision is the baby's most important sensory ability. Of all the information absorbed by the baby's brain, more than 85% is obtained through vision. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Five stages of visual development
The first stage: babies only respond to light at birth. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
The second stage: the baby can feel the contrast between black and white from 2 months. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
The third stage: the baby gradually distinguishes the outline of a plane object from 3 months. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
The fourth stage: the baby gradually has color and three-dimensional sense from 4 months. The fifth stage: the baby begins to know and remember the common symbols of life from 6 months. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Only by mastering the characteristics of baby's visual development can we give the baby proper visual stimulation step by step. However, in the actual operation process, many parents mistakenly think that only bright and bright colors are the best stimulation for their babies. Actually, it is not. Piaget and other modern psychologists have pointed out that infants aged 0-3 months are most sensitive to black and white. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Understand black and white
Alternation of light and shade
If babies can't respond to black and white tones at once, it's better to let them adapt to the alternating light and dark environment first. After all, newborn babies have poor eyesight and only feel the "brightness" and "darkness" of light, and the response to light and shade is the beginning of baby's visual development. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Operation: When the baby wakes up, put the baby in a dark room, alternately turn on the light 1 minute and turn off the light 1 minute, and switch it on and off five times in1minute. If it is inconvenient to use the electric light, you can use a flashlight instead, but don't let the baby look directly at the light. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Black and white chess cloth
At the age of 2 months, the baby's vision can already distinguish between black and white. You can choose black and white chess cloth to enhance your baby's visual response to black and white. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
There are six ways to operate black and white chess cloth. Show one where the baby can see it for 20-30 seconds at a time, and then put it away. Play only one game a day, five or six games, and change one game every three days. After the black-and-white game, the baby's vision is not only improved faster, but also his attention is obviously enhanced. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
A black and white world
The 0-year-old visual and tactile book series is carefully designed for newborn babies, with a total of 5 books. Among them, the "black and white world" is designed according to the black and white theory of the famous psychologist Du Yajie. Each page has a silhouette of an object, which stimulates the baby's visual development with strong black and white colors. At the same time, there is a concave-convex design on the page, so that the baby can feel the world around him with his eyes and hands. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Parents can read with their babies. While letting the baby fully contact the various black and white tone silhouettes in the album, he can also repeat the pronunciation of "black city" and "white" continuously. In addition, due to the concave-convex design of the page silhouette, it can also give the baby a chance to fully touch and identify objects, bringing different freshness to the baby. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Proposal 3: tactile stimulation of skin-friendly parenting
What is parent-child communication? For infants, parents can't hold their children more than five times a day, which can't be said to be complete parent-child communication. The hug, kiss and touch between parents and children express and communicate the true mutual attachment and affection between parents and children. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
When the baby of 0-2 months is crying because of discomfort or fear, as long as it is naked in the mother's arms for the first time, it will soon be quiet. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
3- 1 month-old babies lie on their parents and listen to their heartbeat, so they will soon fall asleep peacefully. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Babies aged 5-7 months show physical and psychological attachment to their parents. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Babies aged 8- 12 months will want to be hugged by their parents immediately when they see their parents leave work. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Four skin-friendly parenting methods
Breastfeeding-Breastfeeding can not only fill the baby's stomach, but also feel the mother's warm embrace and caress. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Kissing-that is the expression of maternal love, so close contact with mother can reduce the baby's anxiety. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Hug-A mother's hug is the safest. Here, the baby can find warmth, comfort and let go of any psychological burden. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Touch-the baby is a natural hedonist, and he needs a full-body massage after the "spa" (bath). Mother's gentle hand manipulation not only promotes the baby's physical development, but also allows the baby to fully feel the maternal love transmitted between the palms. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Proposal 4: Auditory stimulation given by sound
Don't think that the baby can't hear anything in the mother's stomach. Studies have shown that fetal auditory receptors are basically mature at the age of 6-7 months, and ultrasound imaging can also observe the blink response of the fetus to sound stimulation. It can be seen that when the baby is still in the mother's belly, it has already heard. He can hear his mother's heartbeat, the sound of blood flowing, the sound of her chest ups and downs when she breathes, the conversation between mother and baby across the stomach, singing and so on. All sounds accompany the growth of the fetus until birth. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
After birth, the baby is better at exploring the world around him with his "little ears"-
Babies like listening to people's voices.
Newborns born less than three days have shown a preference for their mothers' voices. You see, when the mother called the baby in the baby's ear, his head immediately turned to his mother and looked at her affectionately with a happy face. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Babies like to listen to high-pitched sounds.
Another linguist's research found that parents instinctively raise their tone when talking to their newborns, but these high-pitched and meaningless syllables and phrases can attract the baby's attention to the maximum extent. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Babies like soft and beautiful tunes.
Using the "sucking technology" research, it is found that newborns born 24 hours later suck faster when they hear beautiful music. Once there is rhythmic noise, they will stop sucking and fidget and refuse. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Since proper auditory stimulation can help the baby grow up, let's give "little ears" more care.
During breastfeeding and nursing, parents can talk with their babies face to face. When talking to your baby, you should use "children's voice", that is, high tone, exaggerated intonation, like singing rhythm, shortened syllables and repeated words. For example, "Baby, I'm Ma Xie. Mom loves you! "
The real business of "Little Ear" is to collect all kinds of sound stimuli, so even when doing housework, as long as the baby is awake, you can call him Mangzi, sing to him and talk to him. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
You can use some sounding toys to make him listen and watch, and you can also play music for him. After a period of practice, you will find that if you put the tape recorder playing music on the baby's right, the baby's head will turn right slowly; if you put it on the left, the head will turn left. www . qikan . com . cn 0 CMO 8057 tw rj 5k 3 1
Excessive stimulation, such as watering flowers with too many water samples, will also be counterproductive and should be avoided. If you find your baby tired and upset, stop hearing stimulation as soon as possible.
From: Long Yuan Journal Network