Second, the question of money. In marriage, money is needed everywhere, and it is difficult to move without it. Before getting married, you must consider a lot of things that don't need to be considered, and then you will find the importance of money. In life, many reasons between husband and wife are due to the contradiction of money. Third, the problem of children. Having children after marriage, having pressure and responsibility, and having a different life, many people can't accept this, their minds are immature, their thoughts are unprepared, they can't be responsible for themselves, their families and their children, and suddenly they feel that life has changed dramatically.
And this change may be terrible, unacceptable, and begin to escape from reality. Slowly, the contradiction between husband and wife about children will appear, and then there will be quarrels, and then gradually become divorce. Fourth, life is too stressful. Once married, it means the loss of freedom and the arrival of pressure. Almost all young couples are burdened with heavy debts. The house is millions, and the car is at least100000. Within two or three years of marriage, you should have children and provide for the elderly. Such pressure, in this young family, has surpassed love and exceeded the tolerable limit.
When you should enjoy the sweetness of your wedding, you have to consider these pressures. If it is in a small town, most couples will go out alone to earn money and reduce the debt pressure, and the other person will take care of the family. Sooner or later, such separation will lead to estrangement between husband and wife. Young people are mostly spoiled and never under pressure. It's like looking for a job, quitting if you are under pressure. Once the marriage encounters twists and turns, the relationship between husband and wife becomes difficult. Many couples don't think about the solution, so they break up.