(1) Don't let material comforts confuse you. Try to keep a low profile and avoid attracting friends who look at superficial conditions.

I also know some people whose living conditions are not very good, but they have a good car with high recognition, such as BMW or Mercedes-Benz.

The down payment for buying a car usually consumes all the savings. Every month, they pay back the car loan and have little left. But a good car can decorate the facade, get girls, and have great face.

There have been different voices about consumption. When conditions permit, I also agree not to wronged myself and enjoy the best. So what is the best? Is the most expensive the best? If you upgrade your life in an all-round way, can you bear all the top life configurations? A friend suggested not to buy a villa because he found that he wanted to live comfortably after buying it, and the decoration would cost 5 million yuan.

The most terrible thing is that once you choose another way of education, it is basically irreversible. There are many examples around us, which look glamorous on the surface, but in fact only we know how we are doing.

(2) A good attitude towards life is to be careful but not to waste money.

I like luxury goods. Every time I go to a luxury store, I like the things inside, but only when I have made great achievements and rewarded myself will I buy one or two. I like many things. I like reading and traveling. I also like big houses and luxury cars, but liking them doesn't mean owning them. I prefer to live a stress-free life for material enjoyment. Having such a good thing should give you a blessing and make you more confident or beautiful, instead of becoming anxious and losing yourself.

Take the decoration of our home as an example. We believe that we must live comfortably after spending so much money to buy a house. We put a lot of thought into the decoration, but on the whole, the money spent is within our tolerance. The most expensive thing in our family is the mattress. Mr. Liu and I are both mental workers. It is very important for us to have a good rest. Bed is the most basic model and a designer brand. The wardrobe and cupboard are made by the master himself, and only one brand is allowed to make a door to keep it beautiful. For the choice of each brand, we must meet 80% of the demand and have the highest cost performance. If it is better, the price may rise more than a little.

This is our attitude towards life, and we are careful but don't waste money.