Because of my mother's existence, I relaxed twice, without grievances, quarrels and unhappiness.
From the beginning, I didn't consider the Moon Center because my family's economic conditions were limited. More than 20 thousand a month (this is still cheap [covering your face]), I will feel distressed.
My husband gave my mother 5000 yuan, but my mother didn't want it. Mom says you are my daughter. If I don't take care of you, who will? It is false to say that I am not moved.
As for the questioner, your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship. It is estimated that this month is also a chicken flying a dog jumping. It's good that your husband can help you speak and share the burden. If my husband listens to her mother-in-law, you will feel uncomfortable after giving birth.
I suggest you go back to your small home to have a baby and take a month off to take care of both the maternal diet and the children. Others, like washing clothes and buying groceries, are of course the husband's responsibility (it depends on whether your husband can give it to you).
It would be great if your mother's family could come over. But if mom can't come, one month is enough.
You want to live in the moon center, but your mother-in-law and husband disagree. Do you have money yourself? If you have no money, then discuss with your husband to have a new moon.
Go to the moon center, otherwise you really can't sit well. I regret it. I have been pregnant for more than 20 days, and the baby has always been alone. Every day, she is nursing and changing diapers, especially at night. The point is that I will still spend the next month at my mother's house, and my mother will cook and wash clothes.
If economic conditions permit. After giving birth, the mother felt that family members could not take care of themselves and the baby. In order to recover faster, you can go to the Yuezi Center. However, the old people at home don't think so. They think that the price of the moon center is high and they have no responsibility. So, which is better, the moon center or the home?
1. If you choose to have a confinement at home, you can enjoy more space, and your mother or mother-in-law can take care of you. In a familiar environment, you can make your mother feel very safe, but in this process, you also need to deal with your mother-in-law's problems.
2. If you are confined to the confinement center, whether it is early education for the baby, teaching the baby to swim, or postpartum repair, it can be said that there are really many projects, which can not only effectively help the mother to remove stretch marks, but also effectively care for the breast, which is not easy to sag, and does not have to deal with the thorny mother-in-law problem. Young mothers prefer it.
3. Whether the confinement is going to the confinement center or going home needs to be combined with the actual situation of the individual. If you don't have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but your mother or husband is taking care of you, then you don't have to go to the middle of confinement. After all, if you are in the month center, the cost you need to spend every month is unacceptable to normal people. So it should be decided according to the situation of each family.
You husband and wife have money, it's up to you. If you go to the confinement center, you have to be guaranteed by your parents. After all, raising children is your husband and wife's business.
If economic conditions permit, you can of course live in the Confucius Center, where you can get better care. They are all pregnant women who take their babies for confinement. They know how to recuperate Ma Bao's body, help Ma Bao to make postpartum repairs, cook meals every month and take good care of the baby. Ma Bao can feel at ease for the next month, but it is a bit expensive to live in the confinement center, and the cheapest one is 20,000 to 30,000 yuan a month.
I went there when I had spare money.