In another month, the kindergarten will start school.

Every year, when new students enter the park, there are children pulling their parents' clothes and feet and crying. Adults are reluctant, but they have to be cruel.

How can we prevent crying and adapt as soon as possible? According to my personal experience, I did the following three little things with little effort one month in advance, and the effect was very good.

Before my A Dai went to a small class, I used to take him around the kindergarten by battery car.

We watched the children in kindergarten play football and played a lot. A Dai also changed from being afraid and shy to waiting for a long time.

Later, in the first three days of the formal kindergarten, he didn't cry at all, so he generously entered the park.

So my experience is: one month in advance, take the children to kindergarten by bike. If the kindergarten is open for visits, you must take more children.

Generally speaking, the kindergarten is close to the park, within three or five kilometers from the community where the children live. Cycling back and forth, even playing and watching, is only two hours at most. Not particularly troublesome.

When showing children around, you should say more guiding words. For example:

Visiting the kindergarten and saying these words more are all to let the children have a psychological preparation slowly, so that they will not feel strange when they formally enter the park.

Buy some "kindergarten" theme picture books and read them with your children. This is also done to make children psychologically familiar with kindergartens and prepare for them.

Nowadays, children are loved by their families. After entering the park at the age of three or four, you can't urinate independently, nor can you eat, dress and eat. Parents don't know what kindergartens should do.

It is very necessary to buy some related picture books and make targeted preparations in advance.

Last month, in a bookstore in Suzhou, I saw some very good kindergarten picture books, which illustrated the situation of kindergartens in detail. For example:

However, in the year before my family A Dai went to kindergarten, I didn't buy any picture books in this field.

The main reason is that I have a big heart and didn't expect such a book at all. The other is that A Dai has been doing early education intermittently, and she has also made some preparations, so I don't worry too much, and it doesn't matter a bit.

In the last year or two, I have paid special attention to picture books because I want to have children and write, and found more and more picture books with the theme of "kindergarten". It's enough to spend fifty or sixty dollars on two or three books. The most important thing is to buy. Be sure to watch it with your children and communicate with them more.

My "early education" here is broad.

Including some paintings, classes, music, balance cars and so on for two or three-year-old children.

These classes, to be honest, are nonsense about how effective they are. It's impossible to say it's useless.

My personal suggestion is: if the family's financial conditions are acceptable and someone picks you up, sign up for a few, just play as a child and buy peace of mind.

Parents should have their own opinions and do what they can. Don't be fooled by the anxiety of sales, thinking that if you don't go to early education and don't enroll in interest classes, your child will be finished in this life.

My family's experience in A Dai was that I signed up for an early education brand when I was over one year old. At that time, the report was mainly because:

A Dai's language ability is not very good, and he is not suitable to be with children. There was a good early education class just outside his home, and he signed up.

In hindsight, this kind of early education is quite beneficial.

First, let children gradually adapt to the adult world and understand the instructions of adults. The second is to learn some small games, put together puzzles, build blocks and walk the red line. The third is contact with "going to school".

In addition, we should remind friends to report early education, and never report too much at once.

We enrolled in 96 classes in those years. We thought that two classes a week would be over in a year and a half at most. Finally dragged on for three years! A Dai is in kindergarten, and we haven't finished our early education.

Sales will tell you that the more quotations, the more cost-effective. But the reality is that children have many "accidents" that they can't help themselves, such as holidays, illness, travel, parents having to work overtime, and so on. So 40 knots is enough.

Visit the kindergarten in advance and buy some theme paintings for early education.

The above three things, at least the first two are easy, not difficult and won't take up too much time and energy. Parents are advised to have a try.

Try to think from the child's psychology. I was held in the palm of my hand by adults at home for three or four years, and suddenly, without any warning, I was thrown into a strange environment. In the face of thirty or forty strange children and two or three strange teachers, you have to take a nap and eat by yourself. Can we not panic, cry or make trouble?

Even if you are an adult, you will be nervous for a few days if you quit your job and suddenly go to work in a strange city and company. Say it again, son!

After doing these three things, there is no guarantee that children will not cry or make trouble in kindergarten. But at least children can have a process of psychological construction and gradual adaptation.

It's all small things. I'm afraid I can't, but I'm afraid I can't think of it. It was not until A Dai went to kindergarten that I summed up these experiences. Sharing here today, I still want to say a word:

Children's trust and intimacy with adults also have a process of establishment. Your concern for him, your heart, and your child are still young. Maybe you can't say it, but you will definitely feel it psychologically.

In the matter of going to kindergarten, parents often use snacks to face challenges with their children, so that children will trust you more and know that they are not alone in the face of thirty or forty strange children and teachers.

Don't you think so? * * * Encourage.