Many times, no matter what we say, children just don't listen, remember or change! It is puzzling and helpless. In fact, education experts have also said that reasoning with children is the most ineffective way of education.
Unreasonable, what should I do?
1, appropriate pressure, give children more room for progress.
Parents can put some pressure on their children, but it should be appropriate.
Usually, when educating their children, parents should avoid long-winded preaching or rigidly stipulate what children must and cannot do. If there are too many times, they will do the opposite.
For example, we can set a short-term goal for our children. This goal is not too difficult, but it is not too simple to accomplish.
Appropriate encouragement and confidence can be a simple hug, a warm conversation, a long-awaited toy or a trip.
2. Learning method combining teaching with learning.
Good study also needs correct guidance. Children are always bored and bored in the process of learning, and are not interested in learning, but they can often concentrate and have high interest when playing games. This is actually out of a sense of accomplishment. Playing games is not a kind of learning, but children are easy to learn games, but they are unwilling to concentrate on their studies. We should also learn to satisfy children's psychology and entertain and educate.
3, direct demonstration, visual impact
Sun Li once said to Weibo: Both babies don't like brushing their teeth. I watched a documentary about a boy who ate too much polysaccharide and drugged seven pills, which made my heart ache!
So Sun Li showed the documentary to the children, and also printed out the key pictures and posted them on the bathroom mirror, so that she didn't have to tell them once in the morning and evening. This is called brushing your teeth carefully.
So many times, the preaching of language lacks some impact. Giving children visual or physical experience directly is the best way to let them accept the lesson. ?