In terms of making children happy to learn, I think parents should be able to do a lot of things, give their children motivation, encourage them to experience and let them feel the fun of learning. These are all very important.
00 1 Be a parent who can set the stage and dare to let go.
As parents of our generation, many people think of trying their best to create the best conditions for their children. At least I think so.
What is the best condition? I think the most fundamental thing is to look at the problem from the perspective of children. The key to learning to look at the problem from the child's point of view lies in the word "put yourself in the shoes". Think of yourself as a child. If you were Ta, what would you think? Don't judge children's behavior by adult stereotypes.
What is the most precious thing in a child? Childlike! Including innocent and lovely expression desire, always-on curiosity and tireless action. What parents can do is to provide a stage for their children to have fun and grow up happily!
002 Cultivate children's good habits
Good living habits include: going to bed early and getting up early, dressing and eating by yourself, paying attention, having self-management consciousness (arranging toys and reasoning), knowing daily rules (queuing, traffic lights), having basic safety awareness and so on.
How to form good habits? Let go and try+actively guide. For example, the habit of dressing, eating and arranging toys can be done by children themselves. For example, daily rules, rules for buying toys, etc. In the process of communicating with children again and again, we must constantly establish concepts in Ta's mind.
Parents' attention: First, don't discourage curiosity. Children are curious about everything, don't contradict and avoid it, and explain and discuss with Ta until Ta understands it. The second is to let children try. Even if children make mistakes in the process of trying, they will not be punished, but will sum up the lessons of mistakes and make persistent efforts. The third is to communicate in adult language. When you encounter problems, analyze the reasons with your children, let them find their own answers, and let them develop the habit of thinking about problems when they encounter problems.
Cultivate children's emotional intelligence.
First of all, I believe that emotional intelligence can be exercised. On the one hand, children should be given ample opportunities to experience emotions. Happiness is the clearest, so can children feel and accurately express excitement, excitement, injustice and sadness? I was quite excited when Xiaoyu said "I am so excited" for the first time. Think about where children learn this word. I remember that one of Sesame Street picture books is Understanding Emotions, which introduces the corresponding emotions in various situations. It is a picture book that can help children understand emotions. On the other hand, further understanding of emotions requires communication and affection. * * One way to love is to "feel ashamed". If the child is wronged and disappointed and can't do things well, sit down with the child, give him a hug, and then say, "The baby feels wronged today, and mom understands that the same thing happened to her when she was a child …", and use the method of "feeling ashamed of myself" to let the child release his unhappy emotions and try again next time.
The most obvious advantage of doing this is to develop a good parent-child communication atmosphere, so that children are willing to express their emotions and lay a good foundation for the smooth passage of the "rebellious period" in the future.