People should distinguish clearly what you should and shouldn't do. For example, when we work in a company, all you know is to clean the table, sweep the floor and pour water for the boss every day. You think these things are important, but they are not that important. You don't do what you have to do, and the boss doesn't need it. Even if the boss sees him, he won't pay attention. This is not what he wants. What the boss needs is real skills, real achievements and real means.
Just because you did something you shouldn't do doesn't mean you shouldn't pour the boss a glass of water. It means you shouldn't make a living from it. Don't think that you go to a company to clean the table, pour water and coax the boss. Someone did this, but it's not as important as you think, not because this task is important, but because this person is important.
The company where I used to work had a front desk responsible for these things. As long as the chairman is here, her task is to bring water and fruit to the chairman. No one can do it. Only she can do it, so it's not that you can't do it, but maybe you're not as beautiful as her. We often do things that are not within your responsibility, so you will flatter, and it is easy to lose yourself at this time.
If one respects the boss, I will also pour water, but I can't lose myself, not pour water for the boss and put in a good word. Kissing the boss's ass is actually a bit of cheating, cheating the boss's approval with tea and cheating the boss's good opinion of you.
Confucius said: We should respect the boss, not flatter him. The most important thing in the company is to accomplish our tasks, our growth, our skills and our goals, not to please anyone. A person who constantly improves and corrects himself in the workplace will eventually live an unshakable position in the rivers and lakes, thus winning an all-round victory.
There are many precious things in our China culture, but because we lack education in this field, we don't understand them, and neither do our parents. No one puts these things into our lives.
This is why we don't know the beauty of The Analects of Confucius, so we worship foreign things and flatter foreign countries, feel that others are good and we are not good, and stand in our own country and criticize our own culture every day. Are you really good? You are not good, you haven't even learned the thinking of your ancestors.
The Analects of Confucius is a treasure, but we didn't learn it ourselves. Since we say that others are good, we have a high philosophical thinking and a high traditional culture.
Now we are slowly recovering the traditional culture. I once took my children to kindergarten for early education. I found that the kindergarten began to teach children the Disciple Rules, and slowly began to see the treasures left by our ancestors. How lucky this is.
If you don't do the right thing, you won't have the courage. What is courage? Don't think of yourself as rude and arrogant. True courage is responsibility.
We often say that being a mother is being strong. Why does a woman become strong and brave after becoming a mother? Because she has the responsibility to shelter her children from the wind and rain, it seems that a weak woman will become fearless after giving birth. When you understand that courage is a responsibility, you will become brave. We feel that some things are our responsibility in this life, and only when we take responsibility will we go further.
With responsibility, you will work hard and seriously and will not feel tired. Just like when we do something for our children, we don't feel tired, because it is our responsibility.
Some people are very afraid of taking responsibility. They don't know what they should do, so they go back to playing games, drinking and bragging. A truly responsible person will do many meaningful things. If we want to understand what we should do.
In the process of educating children, we will feel that children are really difficult to manage. This is actually that we don't know what we should do. In this society, it is our responsibility to educate children. We have the responsibility to educate our children well. We should teach our children the best things and be worthy of this life.
Don't put your heart too small to take any responsibility. Once you have the responsibility, your life will become grand and happy. When you have nothing to do, your heart is actually the most tired. Find what you want to do, and your life will be happy.