1. Accompany children and make progress with them. In the process of cultivating children's habits, adults have hardships, but seeing children's progress and growth, they will feel that these efforts are worthwhile. Therefore, when the child is young, let him develop some good habits. Adults should first set an example, which is also very rewarding for his life. Every parent wants their children to be outstanding, so these efforts are necessary.

2. Make a schedule of work and rest. In fact, it is to make life and study rules for children, that is, when to study, when to play and when to rest. Love to play is a child's nature, and adults can't deprive children of the right to play. If children are not happy, they will not be able to concentrate well when studying, and they will not feel energetic. Therefore, parents only need to let their children learn when to study and when to play at an early age, so that when it is time for study, children will consciously sit at their desks and start reading and doing their homework.

3. If the child is interested, provide conditions for the child to learn what he likes. Over time, children will develop the habit of loving learning. For example, in guiding children to read independently, we can let them read picture books and excellent cartoons first, or let them use interesting Schulte tables in speed reading memory training and memory picture training games to help them improve their reading interest and memory, thus helping them develop good study habits. Active learning

"It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish". Whether in our school or in many families, children are passively indoctrinated.

When children pick up books independently and read greedily, it is a symbolic difference-children understand active learning.

The good habit of letting children learn independently is an example for parents. Both parents like reading and have the habit of reading before going to bed. Children near Zhu Zhechi have naturally formed the habit of reading.

A child who learns to learn actively is equivalent to mastering the golden key of life.

Step 2 know how to listen

Children who don't know how to listen like to interrupt and interrupt. Even though they seem to be listening, their thoughts may have drifted 108 thousand kilometers away.

If parents find that their children have these minor problems, they'd better stop them in time. Because listening represents respect for others, it can achieve better interpersonal relationships and facilitate communication. If you don't know how to listen, you may misunderstand what others mean.

Carnegie, former president of General Motors, said: "A pair of smart ears is better than ten glib mouths. 3. Diligence and persistence. "

Diligence is the secret of Mr Li Ka-shing's success. They are richer and more diligent than you. You are poor and lazy, so you can only make smelly mats. Probably no parents want their children to be a "smelly mat".

Diligence can make up for it. The 10,000-hour law shows that poor children can only work hard if they want to fight back.

How to cultivate children's diligence and persistence from an early age? For example, to finish one thing before you can do something else, you must draw it first and then build a building block, and finish it; After school, you can't stop going to school because of a little thing; Long-distance walking should be completed, not by car; Let children form the habit of doing housework from an early age, instead of abandoning their "help".

4. Self-discipline and self-control

A good little experiment to judge whether children have self-control is to put a favorite food in front of them and tell them, "Mom poops in the toilet. If you can hold 10 minutes, you will get two.

Few children can do it, but none of them have this quality. Because greed and curiosity are children's nature.

Can it be cultivated? Try to make children regret it!

Self-control is like a tranquilizer, which can make children do their homework on time after play, get up on time when it is cold, and bury themselves in reading when children play ... Such children are absolutely amazing when they grow up. A good little experiment to judge whether children have self-control is to put a favorite food in front of them and tell them, "Mom poops in the toilet. If you can hold 10 minutes, you will get two.

Few children can do it, but none of them have this quality. Because greed and curiosity are children's nature.

Can it be cultivated? Try to make children regret it!

Self-control is like a tranquilizer, which can make children do their homework on time after play, get up on time when it is cold, and bury themselves in reading when children play ... Such children are absolutely amazing when they grow up.

Step 5 learn to think

Don't tell children that "only hair can grow on their heads, not grass", "goldfish can only swim in the water, not fly in the sky" and "this is the only answer, nothing else"; Ask children such as "What would you do if it were you?" "What do you think is in your stomach?" And "Give 10 bananas to 10 monkeys, but you need to leave one for the waiter. How to divide it? " Accept children's answers and encourage them to form the habit of thinking.