Heavy schoolwork, endless cram schools, endless homework, and children's daily lives are overwhelmed by learning. In the dim morning, the children have entered the school with heavy schoolbags on their backs. After school, I have to drag my tired body to various cram schools. When they get home, they have time to do their homework. However, this day is too tired, but there is a lot of homework. The immature body can't bear the drowsiness, so it is too tired to sleep directly on the table. It's no exaggeration. This is the daily life of primary school students in China. Is this kind of hard work day after day really a child's future success?
Various indicators of China society show that such heavy and hard study and life bring more misfortune to children. 85% of teenagers claim that they have no dreams. Excessive study leads to learning disabilities for children, and there are more and more adolescents with depression. ......
Since hard work is not the key to children's success in the future society, what is the key to children's success in the future society?
Baby Wang Le College lists marshmallow experiments for parents!
1966, Dr. WalterMischel of Stanford University in the United States conducted a cotton candy experiment on 4-year-old children. In the empty room, the experimenter showed the children two plates, one with a marshmallow and the other with two marshmallows, and then made an agreement with the children. If children can refrain from eating marshmallows until adults come back, they will get two marshmallows. After the experiment, some children ate cotton candy immediately after the experimenter left, some children endured eating cotton candy for a while, and some children didn't eat cotton candy until the experimenter came back. 15, these children were followed up. Interestingly, children who don't eat cotton candy are better than those who eat cotton candy in academic performance, health status, social adaptability and relationship with their families.
It can be seen that self-control is the key to determine whether a child can succeed in society.
Hearing this, many parents can't help asking: "Is self-control innate? Can it be cultivated the day after tomorrow? " In order to solve this question, the early education expert of Baby Wang Le College went on to tell about the second marshmallow experiment of Dr. WalterMischel's team.
1980, Dr. WalterMischel of Stanford University in the United States conducted the second cotton candy experiment. During the experiment, the experimenter added several small links to the previous cotton candy experiment, covering the cotton candy with a lid or letting the children put the cotton candy on the white clouds for interesting imagination. The experimental results show that children's waiting time has more than doubled.
The second marshmallow experiment tells us that letting children touch new things in a pleasant way can improve self-control.
The improvement of self-control can not only help children succeed in the future, but also help them overcome the pressure brought by their studies.
Therefore, the key word of 3-year-old baby's learning is: learn to be happy! Before entering school, let children contact with learning in a pleasant way, fall in love with learning and improve self-control. After entering school, the cognition of learning is very interesting, and the improvement of self-control can help children overcome the pressure brought by heavy schoolwork, bring the learning method of happy learning into primary school, and make heavy primary school learning easier and happier.
In order to create a relaxed and happy learning environment for children and provide customized EQ education in line with their temperament and personality, we should choose a professional education institution like Wanda Baby Wang Le Academy. Starting with professional personality tests, we can find courses suitable for children's personality, so that children can gain a sense of self-confidence through these courses which are good at and conform to their own personality, meet new challenges, improve their self-control through cognitive learning of fun games, and grow into future talents with high emotional intelligence.