As the saying goes, strict father is a loving mother.
When the mother grows up, she is mainly gentle and takes care of her daily life.
What is the growth process of seeds? Mature seeds begin to germinate under suitable environmental conditions. After a series of growth processes, the radicle of the seed first breaks through the seed coat and grows down to form the main root. At the same time, the cells of hypocotyl also grow and elongate correspondingly, pushing the embryo or embryo together with cotyledons out of the soil surface, and the embryo protrudes out of the soil surface to form stems and leaves. Cotyledons such as cotton and rape extend out of the soil with the germ, turn green after unfolding and carry out photosynthesis. After the young leaves of the embryo open to perform photosynthesis, the cotyledons will wither and fall off. At this time, a seedling that can live independently will all grow up, which is a seedling.
How to be a qualified father in the process of children's growth, fatherly love is very important. Fathers become children's disciplinarians in much the same way as mothers-by knowing their children. Whether it is a clever child or a naughty child, the more honest we are with them, the more we will realize that a father should have started to be a child's disciplinarian long ago. Give some advice to fathers to help them become qualified disciplinarians.
Start as soon as possible
As time goes by, spending time with children will pay off. You should establish a close relationship with your baby, so that the process of cultivating her into what you want will be natural.
Start with the basics.
People who keep climbing the work ladder mostly climb from the bottom to the position of authority, and their fathers have to go through the same process. Maybe you will feel strange: "What is the relationship between changing diapers and disciplining children?" Taking care of children helps you to know more about your children.
Changing diapers, bathing, dressing and playing with children will help you learn to "read" your children. In the first two or three years of life, the baby needs to change diapers about 5000 times. Suppose you help her change by 20%, you will have 1000 chances to communicate with your baby.
Make yourself trustworthy.
Even if you are the pillar of your family, it doesn't mean that you can certainly get the respect you want. Some fathers think that children must listen to themselves. The reason is simple, because "I am the father and you are the child."
It's not that simple. A child will obey the people he trusts, but trust will not come naturally with his father's title. It needs to be won through struggle. Only by establishing real authority will children obey you.
Here is a basic principle of raising children: before you become an authority figure, your children must be sure that you will help them. In other words, you must get to know them-meet their needs, share their joy, be a father who participates in everything for your children and make them trust you.
Provide principles for children
A father should provide his children with a big principle to control impulsive behavior. Children really want someone they trust and have authority to set limits for them, and they do have such needs.
Once you provide a big principle for your child's life, the child will feel more at ease, because you have directed her energy in a more meaningful direction.
Cultivate children, self-discipline first.
Remember, dads, the children you raise will become other people's husbands or wives, mothers or fathers in the future. The attitude you instill in babies and children bit by bit will determine what kind of person children will become when they grow up. Children learn by imitating. Therefore, the best way to shape a child's character is to set an example of the good qualities you want to see in your child.
It is very useful to list the qualities you want to set an example for your child. When making this list, we will realize that there are still many defects in the example we set for our children.
When we look at the items in this useful list one by one and consider them in connection with children's ordinary performance, we will realize that we have not shown all these qualities in many cases. This understanding tells parents that if they want to discipline their children, they must first discipline themselves.
Participate in children's activities.
Fathers, if you want to know your children and enjoy the time with them, you must join the children's team. Never be a distant father, but be a father who is always ready to play. You should voluntarily train your child to practice his favorite sports, or try to be a scout leader for a while.
You might say that sports are not my business. I know nothing about boy scouts. In fact, you are not required to be an expert, as long as you participate. Besides, you are always smarter and more sophisticated than children.
Take baseball as an example, and see what children will learn in team sports: success and failure, strikeout and home run, helping their peers get on base, getting on base after a kill or out, teamwork, scoring from scratch and scoring according to the rules of hitting the ball, dealing with their own and others' mistakes, facing victory and failure gracefully, and getting along well with others in a group. Baseball is like this, discipline is like this, and life is like this.
Show children a healthy concept of sex
Studies show that fathers can influence children's attitudes towards sex more than mothers. Babies can easily identify with their mothers from birth, and their experience gained from their relationship with their fathers plays a vital role in the development of their gender identity.
Boys need the help of their fathers to realize the value of their masculinity. A father who can help children and enjoy being human provides a healthy male role model for children to imitate.
Father's upbringing is equally important to daughters, because it helps them enjoy being a woman. The father let his daughters experience the opposite sex for the first time. If the father is out of his daughter's "circle", passive, numb and divorced from family life, then the daughter will lose the early education opportunity about the balance of gender relations.
One of the most influential factors on children's gender identity is how they view the relationship between parents. If a man loves his wife, supports her and helps her, then his daughter is likely to cherish her female identity and mother role. She would think, "Dad respects Mom because she is a woman and a mother."
Dad's attitude towards his wife also shaped his son's attitude towards women. As a woman whose marriage broke down once said painfully, "Our marriage failed because my husband didn't do his father's duty."
Be a responsible father for the family's livelihood
For most men, being an excellent family breadwinner has a vital influence on their masculinity and fatherhood. It is this that motivates them to work long hours, although they may make their families happier by staying at home more and doing things less (wives, please note: telling your husband in a gentle and loving way that you want him to stay at home more will help him do this).
If a man is the only wage earner in his family, he will feel heavy pressure, especially when the families around him are usually husband and wife. If you have to work long hours, you can try to combine being a father with work, do some work at home, or take your children to work. Knowing your work will help her grow up healthily. Once she knows what you are doing when you are not at home, she will accept you out more easily.
What role does the father play in the child's growth? He is the maker of chaos, the destroyer of rules, and the maker of trouble. In a word, the image of father is completely upside down compared with that of mother. But when you think about it, these identities mentioned above are not necessarily meaningless, and even more positive in the process of children's growth. Although it will make the mother lose her temper and give her a headache, if we seriously think about it, those unruly behaviors in front of the father will have a very important impact on the children's life, and their future social success and academic progress will often be traced back to these events. Then let's look back and see what role a perfect father will play in the baby's growth. 1 thick line Dad loves his children in a completely different way from his mother. It is full of * * * and is often unpredictable. They shake their babies to sleep much harder than their mothers, and they can often roll on the ground with their babies in their arms. When the baby is 8 weeks old, these differences between father and mother can already be felt in their little hearts. A child care expert made a detailed study of the life videos of two-month-old children, and found that these little guys would make special reactions when their fathers approached. At this time, they tend to curl up their arms and become short of breath, trying to open their eyes. Another survey of two-and-a-half-year-old children shows that at this age, more than two-thirds of babies will find it more interesting to be with their father than with their mother. Experts found through research that children like this style of their father very much and will consciously imitate it. In this way, the baby unconsciously learned some of the most needed abilities after entering school, such as how to get along with others, how to control his emotions, and even how to become a leader among his peers. In the opinion of early education experts, the value of dad in these education is far greater than that of early education classes and other educational institutions. As an expert father, since we were born, the love of mom and dad has been with us all the time. We can feel the difference between the two: mother's concern is very direct, which can make us feel stable and comfortable, such as asking questions in life; But fathers are undoubtedly more concerned. They will pay attention to the baby's future and teach the baby how to know the world and how to face the challenges brought by the world. For example, when fathers let their children go to the garden to help them with their work, they actually open a door for their babies to connect themselves with this ecological environment. Babies may go through a stage where they show extraordinary admiration for their father and think that he knows everything and can do anything. The world that dad lives in is also novel and full of temptation for the baby. They always secretly observe everything about their father with curious eyes Therefore, at this time, the father must appear in front of the children as an expert, teach them to solve practical problems, cultivate practical skills, and at the same time arouse their curiosity about science and mathematics with their own behavior. 3 Unique Teachers We will notice a problem that it is almost impossible for a baby to meet a male teacher in kindergarten and primary school. This is really a huge loss in the process of children's growth and even affects the cultivation of personality. It is hard for us to imagine that a child who is weak, timid and prone to tears will grow into a man with indomitable spirit. Since we can't change the teachers in the school, we can only start from the family, and fathers who are busy with their careers all day must work harder to find the feeling of men for your children. A good way is to read with children. The reading list is chosen by the father, who can read it in his own way and tell it to the children, which can greatly strengthen the cultivation of the baby's language ability, the mastery of reading skills and the understanding of basic knowledge. For example, we can choose a book about spaceships, attract babies with your masculine tone, make them pay attention to your story, and let them learn a lot of rich vocabulary unconsciously. Many experts firmly believe that reading in dad's style will make substantial changes in the book itself. For girls, reading with dad will greatly enrich their oral English, while for boys, the influence of this work may be beyond our imagination. They will regard this process as the cultivation of men's quality, and will consciously learn their father's tone and way of speaking as potential clues to become real men. In this process, their fluency in speaking and their ability to remember knowledge will be greatly improved. In addition, if you, as the father of your child, have some building skills or the ability of ball games, your baby will become your little tail when you work and exercise, but don't think they are in the way. Through these activities, the baby's sports ability and physical coordination ability will be greatly strengthened. The best playmate is the housekeeper at home, and the mother will pay more attention to the safety of the baby and the cleanliness of the room, but this will often deprive them of a lot of freedom and happiness. In these things, perhaps it is congenital naivety, and dad often shows greater tolerance. Different from the mother's interventionist personality, fathers usually become children's sympathizers and playmates, and even play games with them on the stairs or on the floor of the room that are boring to their mothers. Even if different babies live together, dad's participation will still be a vital part of their lives. In a family with a broken marriage, a single mother must understand this. That man is just your ex-husband, not the child's ex-husband. The survey of such families clearly shows that when babies feel the care of their fathers, they will feel obviously relaxed and safe. Therefore, in a single-parent family, regular communication between father and child is very important. Even if they can't meet often, regular phone calls or emails are necessary. In short, you need to remember one thing: in the world of children, mom and dad are completely different, and neither side can replace the other. And their completely different ways are the best boosting force in the baby's growth process. Fathers who can do these four roles well can be called perfect fathers, and their behavior will also bring a perfect growth space for their babies.
What was Jordan's growing process? Regular season record: 1. The average career score is 30.65,438+023, ranking first in history. 2. Personal score 10 is the first in history. 3. It tied Chamberlain's record of seven consecutive goals. 4. Scored more than double digits in 842 consecutive games, ranking first in history. 5. Keep the record of hitting 14 free throws in NBA (note that once it was1989165438+10/5, Utah jazz scored 14 goals in a single quarter. The other time is unknown) 6. 10 ranked first in the NBA in shooting times and shooting times. 7. 1987 set an NBA record of 23 consecutive points against Atlanta Hawks. 8. 1992 12.30, Miami Heat, scored 23 free throws at half time. 9. 20 goals were penalized. Both set an NBA record of 10. They led the Bulls to a record of 72 wins 10 losses in the regular season, which is unique in history. Only one team has two players and three pairs in a game, and Pippen * * * enjoys the honor of 1. Only one team has a game. With Pippen 13. The only player who scored 40+ points at the age of 40 is 14. The first player who averaged more than 20 points per game at the age of 40 was 15. Players over 38 years old scored a maximum of 5 1, while players over 39 years old scored a maximum of 49. Record: 43 points, 18.88, scoring champion, defending champion. Personally, I think this one is definitely the last one. Amityville's masterpiece of horror, 19. 10 was selected as the "best team" in NBA (from 1986-87 season to 1992-93 season, 1995-96 season to/kloc-0. Jordan won 12 triple doubles, including 7 triple doubles in a row, ranking second in the NBA (the first place was Lao Zhang's 9 consecutive championships). 22. I played three games in the second season of my career and came back injured after missing 64 games. In the remaining games, he successfully brought the team into the playoffs. 30 wins and 52 losses is the worst record in NBA history to enter the playoffs. 23. He also has a record of eight steals at half time, which can be shared with many people. 24. Stealing the king up to 3 times is also the historical record of several people sharing the NBA playoffs: 25 times. The number of shots was 4497, ranking first in league history. 26. The number of free throws hit 1463, ranking first in league history. 27. The League ranks 28th in history. Playoffs averaged 33.4 points per game, ranking first in history at 29. The total score of playoff career is 5987. For the first time in history. The average score in a single season is 43.7,365,438+0. The only player who scored 50 points back to back in the playoffs (after Xiao Aiping's record) 32. The only player who scored 45 points in three consecutive playoff games was 33. The highest score in five playoff games is 34. The highest score in three playoff games is 35. The number of times to score 40 points in the playoffs is 38 times, up to 36 times. 50 points in the playoffs is 38 times at most. 12 traffic jams averaged more than 30, with a record of 25 points 10 assists in three consecutive games last season (broken by that stone last year). 38. Jam scored more than 20 points in 60 consecutive games. 39. The playoff score was 63 points on the spot. The record of the first finals in history was 40. In the finals, the average game was 4 1 point, and the bulls were 65438. 6 games, 246 points, the first in history, 4 1. The half-time score of the finals: 35 points, Bulls,1June 3, 992, the first in history. 42. The total goal of the finals series: 10 1 ball, Bull, 6 games are the first in history. 43. As long as you enter the finals, you must get a ring hit rate of 100%. All-Star Game Record: 44. The total score of all-stars is 262 points, ranking first in history, 45. 1997. Won the first "triple double" in the history of all-star game-14 points, 1 1 rebounds, 1 1 assists. 46. All-star steals the most, 38 times and 47 times. He won the dunk contest twice in a row, and Richardson later equaled the record. 48. Other records: 49. So far, the series of Joe shoes has been produced for 22 generations. Also in the top 50. It has brought more than $654.38+000 billion in commercial profits to the NBA. No 65438 +0.565.438 +0. Personal annual salary. 1998 season is 34.5 million pounds. 52. Advertising revenue with an annual income of over 80 million pounds. 53.28 professional lore. 54. The first player with the title of "athlete of the century" in NBA history. 55. Up to now, it has appeared on the cover of the famous sports magazine Sports Illustrated 52 times, which is also a record. 56. The only way to achieve three in and three out. 57. The only way for the league is to make an exception and put back the retired No.23.58 jersey. MJ is the only player in the team he has never played for who is hung in the arena (the arena of the Heat) ~ 59. MJ is also the only player who won the Olympic gold medal on behalf of the American college basketball team and the American dream team respectively ~ This record is destined to be unparalleled. Because it is impossible for the United States to send university teams to participate in the Olympic Games. Jordan is the first person in history who can lead the team to three consecutive championships after his comeback. When he came back in 0.02, he donated all his salary (about 1 ten thousand dollars) to the victims of 91/kloc-0, and he was the only person in NBA history who donated his annual salary.
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What role do parents play in their children's growth? Education now is different from before. If you don't go to school, you won't know as much as other children. If you learn quickly, you will fall behind others, so you should advocate early education. Parents are the earliest enlightenment teachers before children go to school, and guide their children correctly in the future. Because they don't have enough knowledge, they don't know how to nurture and educate their children. There are also some parents who violate the laws of science because of the influence of feudal ideas and old habits, and the knowledge of scientific parenting in society is not popular enough. Therefore, parents should earnestly shoulder the responsibility of educating their children in the family and truly be a qualified parent. They must raise their awareness of their parents' great responsibilities and strengthen and improve their education to meet the needs of raising children. View original post >>
What role should parents play in their children's growth? Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and their behavior is the mirror of children, so parents play an important role in children's growth.
I think it should be the role of friends. Nowadays, children know a lot and have a lot of contact, and some children don't listen to their parents because of their family relationships, so they should be valued and respected as friends. Usually teachers only tell you what to do and what not to do, but friends are different. Friends will try with them and let him know the results and consequences of doing things. Slowly, he will know right from wrong.
In the process of children's growth, you are most concerned about their health and habits.
Health is undoubtedly the most important thing. Every parent wants their children to grow up healthily and always cares about their parents when they are sick.
Good habits are an essential requirement for children's future study and life. Habit can bring efficiency and safety.