Children are in the primary stage of life, learning everything, with strong plasticity and poor self-control ability. This is not only a critical period for developing good behavior habits, but also a dangerous stage for catching bad behavior habits. If it is not cultivated in time,

Good behavior habits will miss opportunities and form bad behavior habits. However, old habits are hard to change, and habits become natural, which will bring irreparable shortcomings to future development. For example, Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said, "What is education?

In short, we should form good habits. "What good habits should be cultivated for children? . Mr. Ye Shengtao pointed out: "Education in our socialist society is to train students to live in a socialist society. "

All good habits. In moral education, we should develop good habits of dealing with others; In intellectual education, we should develop the good habit of seeking knowledge and familiarizing ourselves with skills. "Specific moral behavior habits, labor habits and living habits.

Habits, hygiene habits, study habits, social habits, etc. According to the characteristics of children's development, they never leave leftovers, dress themselves, don't spit, don't urinate, put used things back, sleep on time and be punctual.

The habit of getting up, etc. Having good living habits will lay the foundation for the formation of good moral habits, labor habits and health habits.

First, be persuasive and set clear and strict requirements for young children.

When making every request, we should carefully consider it in advance to make the request reasonable. According to the child's ability, it is required to improve step by step. At first, I just wanted my children to master simple rules of life.

For example, in class, sit quietly and don't disturb others. Then, put forward requirements about social behavior, for example, be polite to others, greet teachers and aunts, accept gifts from others, or get them.

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Judging from the ability of children, it is not only to complete some extremely simple requirements, but also to make great efforts. If the teacher's demands on them are unreasonable and they can't accept them, then such demands will come to nothing. When children can't meet some requirements of teachers, they often lose confidence in their own abilities, doubt what teachers say and distrust teachers.

When I ask my children, I should pay attention to making the content specific, clear, popular and concise; Suitable for children's age characteristics. For example, children are required to be polite to others. This is what I told the children: when I entered the park in the morning,

Say hello to teachers and children; Go home and say "goodbye"; Concentrate when talking to others, and don't interrupt when others are talking; Ask children to talk about hygiene, I said, to talk about hygiene.

Children, don't spit everywhere; Do not defecate anywhere; Ask the children to fold the clothes and trousers they took off during the nap and put them in a fixed place. There are 4 families and 4 children in ............................................................................................................................................................

Second, encourage children to develop good behavior habits in practice.

Children's willpower can't last long, and it is difficult to concentrate for a long time. According to this characteristic of children, I take the method of constant encouragement to correct their bad behavior. For example, when everyone is taking a nap, some children often get up.

If you come to urinate and walk heavily, give him a hint to remind him to correct it; When a child walks carefully, he smiles and nods to show that he is doing the right thing. Another example is that there is a new student named Wei in our class. He is very timid. male

I am not used to collective life, I don't believe in my own strength, and I often dare not do even the simplest things. For him, we need to get him into the habit of getting along with others. I encouraged him in various ways. First let him

Do something simple. When attending art class, let him hand out art paper; Let him divide chopsticks at lunch. After one or two exercises. His courage grew slowly. Then, I trained him in public.

The habit of talking before. Once when I was studying the children's song "Teacher's Hand", I asked the children in my class, "What can a teacher's hand do?" This is a very simple question. After asking questions, I consciously said, "Old!

The teacher will ask a brave child to answer this question. Let's see who is braver recently than in the past. "The children mentioned Wei in unison, and he boldly stood up and answered this question. Be a child

When encouraged, they will consciously stop those bad behaviors in order to get pleasure from their actions.

Third, pay attention to correct any small behavior mistakes of children.

Children often develop bad behavior habits from small mistakes. These things often happen in daily life: some children easily lose their temper, lying on the ground and desperately stepping on the floor with their little feet, crying and shouting; some

When children like to play with certain toys, they should be given unconditionally ... We should not tolerate these behaviors and let them develop. When I was in a small class, my children had bad habits, didn't concentrate on eating, and looked around.

Eat slowly while watching, and with the growth of children's age, the demand for communication between children is also increasing, and the phenomenon of chatting while eating is also increasing. The teacher's reminder is not a good way to solve the problem and mobilize the child's internal factors.

Only by stimulating children's self-motivation, can children become passive and active, and consciously abide by discipline, so the "best dining table" appeared in our class. How to be the "best dining table"? After discussion, we listed the standards.

Just eat carefully, don't talk, eat faster, don't be picky about food, and take a small red flower after the evaluation. The teacher also put forward requirements for the children in the class. Those who have made great progress can also be awarded the title of "best dining table", and many people have made progress.

Well, we can also have two "best tables". Now, unlike before, teachers are not reminded everywhere. Bad habits such as eating and talking, inattention, looking around and eating slowly have been reduced a lot, and eating is no longer a child's business.

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Fourth, cultivate children's good behavior habits through game activities.

Games are children's leading activities, and children are happy, active and receptive in games. Children can learn to correctly handle the relationship between people through the process of game activities, and it is easier to form some good ones.

Quality. At the same time, some bad behavior habits are easy to show, which is beneficial for teachers to find and correct them in time. For example, once, I organized children to play the game of "food store". At the beginning of the game, Lin Li and Jaco suddenly.

When we quarreled, I went over and asked. It turned out that we were fighting for a new gas stove, but we didn't want the old one. What shall we do? There is only a new gas cooker. After thinking for a while, I picked up the old gas stove and put it to my ear.

After a while, I said to the two children, "The old gas stove just told me that it can be used, and the children don't like it. It's so sad. It wants to find a good friend. Who wants to help it? " As soon as I said this, Lin Li left.

Took the old gas stove. The two children smiled and said, "Teacher, we won't argue in the future." I affirmed their behavior and taught the children to be polite and modest among their peers.

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Five, the teacher set an example and be a role model for children.

Children have strong plasticity and imitation ability. The most direct object of their imitation is the teacher. They observe the teacher's behavior most carefully, feel the strongest, and imitate the teacher's words and deeds indiscriminately. For young children, the teacher's words

It can be said to be the "highest instruction", and children can often be heard to justify their words and deeds: "That's what the teacher said ..." This puts higher demands on the teacher's words and deeds. Therefore, we pay attention to starting from ourselves and being strict with ourselves.

Self-discipline; No matter what children are asked to do, they should do it first; Don't let children do it, never violate it. Once you violate it, you must be brave enough to admit your mistakes in front of your children. I remember once I accidentally walked into the classroom after class and saw

There are two children sitting on the table talking. I criticized them on the spot, and then one of the children whispered, "Teachers sometimes sit at the table and talk." What he said surprised me. When I think about it, it is true.

There has been such a phenomenon. I said to this little friend, "Really? Why didn't you point out this bad habit to me earlier? Do you want to supervise each other in the future to prevent bad habits from popping up again? " The ancients said, "Words and deeds teach, don't they?"

Words and deeds, then awe-inspiring, without orders; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. "Therefore, teachers should standardize their words and deeds and set an example for young children.

Six, family cooperation, * * * to promote the formation of children's good habits.

In recent years, families have paid more and more attention to early childhood education, and this trend is very gratifying. However, many parents who are eager for their children's success only pay attention to developing their children's intelligence, but do not pay attention to the cultivation of their early behavior habits. This requires families and kindergartens to give priority to cultivating children's good behavior habits. Therefore, for some parents who only pay attention to learning knowledge, I will give them a multiple-choice question: A. Teach your children to write 10 every day. B, help children get rid of a bad habit within 10 days, and let children develop good behavior habits from an early age. Most parents will choose the latter with a smile.

In short, cultivating children's good behavior habits has a long way to go and must be implemented in all aspects of children's daily life. Adults are strict with them, so they should grasp them repeatedly and let their children develop good habits.