I bought a picture book about the body, the difference between boys and girls, and giving birth to children a long time ago. The pictures on them are very real and explicit, but as the saying goes, when you think of Buddha in your heart, what you see in your eyes is Buddha. Therefore, as long as we regard this book as a popular science book, it is an ordinary popular science book.
My daughter has been interested in her figure since she was over one year old. Especially during that time, she had to stop diapers during the day and her mother-in-law put on open-backed pants. Just because she wears open-backed pants, she can see her private parts at a glance, so she can observe and play.
Every time I see it, I will stop it. Interest is one thing, getting hurt is another, and then I decided to wear real pants. But she was still curious. I took out my picture book and told her that it was a private part, and I couldn't touch it, let alone let others touch it. Moreover, the hands are dirty and have bacteria. When touched, they will be infected, uncomfortable and painful.
She seems to know, but she is also curious about other people's bodies. Especially the boys in her hometown also wear open-backed pants. She thinks it's different from her own, so she still grabs it. I bought a book "The Story of the Rooster", which clearly tells the difference between male and female body structures. After she understood, she was not interested in other people's bodies.
When she was in early education, she also found that boys and girls went to different toilets. Boys stand to pee, poop and squat, girls squat. The picture book says that a boy's penis is like a water pipe, which can be pulled far away. Sometimes she pees far away and explains that I have a hose, too.
In addition to her health, she is also very curious about how she came. At first I told her that she had been in my stomach for nine months, and then I went to the hospital to give birth to her. This process is like constipation. It will take a long time to pull her out. She can also play the role of giving birth.
I thought that was all, but my daughter has the ability to figure it out. She wants to know how she was formed in her mother's stomach. I put out my only scientific knowledge, "It is the combination of my mother's eggs and my father's sperm that made you."
"Then how did they combine?" She continued to ask.
The problem of "hmm" is really difficult to explain. "When I sleep at night, my father's sperm runs into my mother's ass like a tadpole."
"How did dad's sperm get into mom's ass?" She's still curious. The curiosity scratched his head, so he had to answer and swam in without paying attention.
She retorted, "How can tadpoles swim without water?"
"Me, me," I collapsed. "This is not really a tadpole, and it doesn't need water. You will know when you grow up. " I quickly stopped her and distracted her. This has no beginning and no end. I really don't know how to answer.
But she mentioned it from time to time, saying that "dad's sperm" was sometimes mentioned, and I was still confused. Does his father have gold? When did he hide the gold? Our family has never bought gold! Then it took half a day to react.
I once searched some videos of the baby's formation process on the Internet to show her. She was interested in knowing how the baby was born, but it really didn't seem to answer her question. I don't know how to explain it. I didn't really know until she grew up.
A long time ago, I also bought a set of books, which contained "No, I don't like being touched by you". It was about the violation of children by male teachers, which was regarded as safety education and made her aware of the danger. She also knows that private parts can't be touched by others, and she is ashamed. Now, she washes her ass herself. Occasionally, when I help her, she will refuse. This is a good start.
Especially when I went to the mall to buy clothes, I helped her undress and try them on without seeing the fitting room. She couldn't bear it, and there was nothing she could do in the end. She hugged her chest and told me to change quickly. I'm ashamed. I said she felt bad when there was no one else. This is the real growth.
Of course, after knowing this knowledge, she is rarely interested in the body of the opposite sex and does not study her own body. Just tell her boldly, especially with picture books, which is more intuitive and can impress her.
And all this education, in the end, has only one goal, that is, to let her protect herself, cherish herself, and even live a completely clean life without being hurt when she grows up.