The core of early education is to provide an educational and nutritious environment for children's brain development and personality growth? Activate? So as to lay a solid foundation for its future development. The following is my selected The Importance of Early Childhood Education. Welcome to refer to it!
1 the importance of early childhood education dear parents,
Hello everyone! First of all, parents are welcome to take time out of their busy schedules to participate in the activities jointly organized by Huaan County Family Planning Bureau and Huaan No.2 Kindergarten? 0-3 years old early education? A series of activities, we will study together in the future, and discuss with you and your children the development characteristics, psychological development law, health care, education points, scientific feeding, parent-child games and hot issues of early childhood education for 0-3 years old. I hope that through such beneficial preschool education activities, we can help everyone get out of the misunderstanding of family education, establish a scientific concept of preschool education, and master timely, moderate, accurate, balanced and comprehensive parenting methods.
Let's start with a well-known story: the mother of a 2-and-a-half-year-old child went to Darwin with her child in her arms and asked him for advice on parenting. Darwin told his mother regretfully: It's a pity that you are two and a half years late. ? As a social person, all the foundations are laid, and the efficiency is the highest in infancy. No wonder the famous Italian educator Montessori said: The first three years of life are better than the later stages of development, and better than the sum of three years until death? . The special session of the United Nations General Assembly held in 2002 set three main objectives, two of which were? Every child, without exception, should have the best start in life? And then what? Every child should have the opportunity to fully explore his potential? . Carol Bellamy, Executive Director of UNICEF, believes that any government or individual should give priority to early childhood education. The golden age of learning is before the age of 3, and it is best to start education from the neonatal period. The so-called effect of early education from zero to newborn has been confirmed by various experimental research results.
As the saying goes:? Look at the old at three, and look at the old at seven. ? In the family, parents will never give their children who are about to enter middle school or university to a poor teacher, or even spend a lot of money to get into a good school. However, before the age of 3, they give their children to a babysitter who doesn't know the language or even anything, or to grandparents with strong traditional ideas. Due to the limitation of the education level and doting psychology of the elderly, they can only let their children stay at home. Young parents don't spend much time with their children because they are busy at work during the day. After work, they just chatted with their children about the troubles caused by physical fatigue, and soon it was time for them to go to bed. Because the baby is with his family every day, this environment is also easy for children to develop a withdrawn character, afraid of meeting strangers, selfish, lacking cooperation and communication with babies of the same age, and not giving their toys to children. What's more, it's a pity that the baby missed the opportunity and lost the most precious potential development time in his life, but this period is the easiest for them to grasp. This period is not influenced by school education and social education, but also a little.
2/kloc-today in the 20th century, the frontier of talent competition is not in universities, primary and secondary schools, or even kindergartens, but before the age of 3, in the cradle of babies. I hope that young parents will start from themselves and help their babies with early education from the age of 0, so that your baby can win at the first starting line.
Today, I mainly talk to parents about children's disobedience. My own children have the same experience and understand how parents feel now. I often meet many parents who complain to me that my children are very disobedient. He won't do anything you ask him to do. Very stubborn, especially disobedient. He is very active. He seems interested in everything. He wants to move everything. Just try it. You told him it was dangerous not to touch the power socket, but he insisted on touching it. He is not afraid of anything. What do you think we should do to educate him? ? Once when I was shopping, I met a mother who took her baby to buy clothes. Mother was attracted by a beautiful suit and asked the baby to try it on, but the baby just didn't try it on, but clung to a pair of sneakers on the other side of the suit, and mother couldn't take it away. Finally, the child cried and stopped buying clothes. Mom went up to him angrily and said, I have never seen such a disobedient child as you. It's really embarrassing that you don't want such a beautiful dress, insist on a pair of shoes and cheat. ?
Both the situations I mentioned can be discussed. If you encounter such a problem, how to solve it?
As parents, how should we face such a thing? Shout loudly, or calm down and reason. Is your method effective? Today we will discuss this problem together.
Through the case just now, it brings us a question worth thinking about. Why are our children not clever and obedient?
First, to find the root of the problem, we must first understand the age characteristics of 3-year-old children.
1. From the improvement of physical activity ability. 3-year-old children's big muscles develop rapidly, their body movements are more coordinated than before, and most of them like to run and jump. (For example: difficult places, roads, places with water, uneven places, etc. Three-year-old children have strong physical activity ability and can do many things in daily life by themselves. Therefore, they are eager to expand the scope of independent activities and constantly try to accomplish new things independently. Try even if you can't finish it, no matter what the result is. But these requirements are often blocked and restricted by parents. Why stop them? In the eyes of adults, there is no result at all. For example, if a child builds a building block and he puts two spheres under it as pillars, adults will tell him that this is not possible. Will the children buy your account? So there will be resistance.
2. From the development of children's self-awareness. Children in this period are in a sensitive period of autonomy. It turns out that children can't tell their own wishes from those of others. Now, they know exactly what to do. Me? Do what? Me? Want to do it. Therefore, they should stubbornly express their will. However, this kind of performance often conflicts with the requirements of adults, so children will feel frustrated and lead to rebellious behavior.
3. From the development of emotions and thinking. Because three-year-olds are immature in many ways. Emotional control ability is still very weak. Once they are dissatisfied, they will show it in straightforward forms such as shouting, so they are often considered by adults as deliberate opposition. Three-year-old children are often stubborn because of their low level of thinking development and lack of flexibility. They don't have a strong sense of time, so even if they tell him to wait only one minute, he won't give up. Everything he wants to do must be done at once. All these will lead to children's rebellious behavior.
Therefore, only when parents truly grasp, face up to and understand the development characteristics of young children in this period can they understand our children, walk into their hearts and listen to their voices.
Second, analyze the reasons why parents lead their children to be disobedient.
1. Parents spoil their children too much. Parents will be satisfied with what their children want, which can be described as obedient. This is easy to encourage children to be willful. Once the child's requirements are not met, he will cry and make a scene until he achieves his goal. As parents, first of all, we should not blindly meet the requirements of our children, we must distinguish between right and wrong, and reasonable requirements can be met; Unreasonable request, can't promise. Once the child cries, don't beat and scold, just be patient and reason with the child, and it is best to enlighten him with vivid and educational stories.
2. Parents' words and deeds are different. Some parents think that children can only be restrained without trust and respect, otherwise they will get out of control. Therefore, parents usually ignore their children's complaints and demands, and even scold their children regardless of occasions, which dampens their self-confidence and self-esteem and makes them feel afraid of their parents. Some parents think that children are easy to coax and cheat, and often make promises without thinking, but the results can't be realized, resulting in mental damage to children and distrust of parents. Over time, children will lose their trust and respect for their parents, and their parents' words will naturally be ignored, and their rebellious mentality will become more and more serious. For example, in order to let children get up on time in the morning and form good habits, parents and children agree to get up at seven o'clock every day, but every time mom and dad rest, children will be late for kindergarten. Over time, children will lose trust in their parents' words.
3. scare children in various ways. Some parents will scare their children with some terrible things when their children are disobedient or fail to meet their own requirements. (For example, if a wolf bites you and mom and dad don't want you) Parents should not expect too much when educating their children. Dragon? , see a woman? Phoenix? Poor people carry on the family line, but some parents put forward some very high and strict requirements for their children without considering their actual situation. These requirements are beyond the tolerance of children, which will make them lose confidence and even get bored. Over time, children become suspicious and timid. Have rebellious psychology.
What adults say is right, and children mistakenly think it is wrong, so they don't listen. When parents give instructions to their children, if the children think that the instructions of adults are incorrect, or not necessarily correct, or unclear, there will be cases of non-execution, which will lead to disobedience of children. For example, when winter comes, all the children wear warm clothes, but Wen Wen of the first class insists on wearing skirts. Mom said? It's cold outside today. If you wear a skirt, you will catch a cold. Do you need a fever or an injection if you have a cold? . Throughout the morning, mother and daughter came to kindergarten late to get dressed. My mother didn't convince Wen Wen, and finally came to kindergarten in a tulle skirt and down jacket.
Indeed, what adults say and do affects our children all the time. When children are disobedient, as adults, we should consider from the standpoint of children: why should children be with themselves? Does the child have to listen to what you say? If you really need children to listen, you should choose an expression that will make children happy to accept, because many times children's views are reasonable.
Third, face up to the child's disobedience.
Haicha, a famous German psychologist, made the following experiment: He made a long-term investigation on 100 children with strong resistance tendency at the age of 2 to 5 and 100 children without this tendency. The results show that 84% children with strong resistance have decisive judgment and strong willpower when they grow up, while only 24% children with negligible resistance can really be called willpower and judgment. Each of our parents likes their children to obey, but not for their own development needs, mostly to maintain their own face. But when you are proud of your children's obedience, don't forget that this may stifle the formation of children's willpower and judgment.
Children sometimes don't listen to the following situations:
1. When children focus on their own affairs, they listen but don't listen? . Some children are very headstrong. They must finish what they want to do, otherwise they can't do other things according to their parents' requirements. For this, parents can't stop it rudely, and they can give a certain time buffer.
2. When parents always talk to their children in an angry and high-pitched voice for a long time, will children talk to adults? Shout? This is just a habit. Adults don't raise their voices and shout repeatedly in the future, will children? Can't you hear me? And once children get used to loud and rude voices, they will gradually adopt gentle and civilized education methods? Disobedience? Attitude.
When children are disobedient, parents often use punishment to control their children, which seems to be the most common thing when we raise children. But once this habit is formed, long-term use of this method will make parents and children nervous in parent-child relationship.
In the face of children's disobedience, the most important thing is to regard this age characteristic as a normal phenomenon. Because we know that children have to grow up. Facing the children? Disobedient? We need to know more. As long as parents have enough understanding, children are often easy to accept their parents' guidance. Disobedient? .
Four, several common ways to deal with children's disobedience
1. Cold treatment.
When a child loses his temper or rolls around and cries because his requirements are not met, parents should ignore him, show no love, pity or concession in front of the child, and don't bargain with him. You can take evasive measures and leave him temporarily. When no one is in charge, the children themselves will feel bored and make concessions. For example, if a child clamors to buy toys or even rolls on the ground, parents can take the method of not persuading, explaining or arguing to make the child feel that parents don't care about his behavior. When the child is in enough trouble and gets up from the ground, parents can say: We know you are unhappy, but you are not fooling around now. You are such a good boy. ? And show happiness, satisfaction and concern, reason with him and analyze whether his behavior just now is right or not. This kind? Cold treatment? This method is usually more effective.
2. divert attention.
This method is very effective for this age. Parents can take advantage of their children's psychological characteristics of being easily distracted and attracted by new things to shift their attention from what they insist on to other novel and interesting objects or things.
Case: I remember when my child was a child, it was late one day and it was time to go to bed, but Hao Hao was not sleepy at all. No matter how we reason with him, he won't listen.
? No, I want to play. ? Hao Hao shouted 1 vigorously.
It was too late, so we had to force her to wash her face and feet to go to bed, but after going to bed, her resistance was even stronger, her face was full of tears, and she didn't cover herself. It seems that coercion will not work.
So I had a brainwave and said, Hao Hao, shall we play a game?
On hearing that his mother didn't criticize him, Hao Hao said that he was playing games and suddenly stopped crying, saying, how to fight! ?
I grabbed the huge small police cap on the table and buckled it on my head: Mom is a policeman, the doll is a sister, and you are a brother, okay?
Hao Hao looked at me with curious eyes. At this time,? Police? Say in a serious tone: I heard that you have a little barefoot doll here, right?
Sister doll said: No, my brother is a good doll, and his feet won't be put outside. ?
At this time, Hao Hao's brother was suddenly hoisted into the game. Sister? Under the positive hint, he immediately put his little feet into the bed and stuffed them in the quilt, saying, aunt police, you are mistaken! ?
I secretly smiled and pretended to be very angry and said, alas, there are no naughty children here. Hao Hao is obviously asleep. Some kid lied about his military situation and asked me to find him. ?
So? Police? Pat? Brother? Head, waddled away.
This game made Hao Hao laugh, forgot all the unhappiness, and soon fell asleep. The next morning, Hao Hao talked about last night's game again and couldn't help laughing. So, while the iron was hot, I told him the wrong truth. In a very pleasant atmosphere, Hao Hao readily admitted his mistake.
Communication after distraction is the best education. In family education, it is necessary to establish a good parent-child communication relationship and let family ties communicate in two directions, so that family education will be smoother. In addition, we should learn psychological empathy, think, understand and deal with problems from the child's position, role and situation, and deeply observe the child's potential behavioral motives, so that the parent-child relationship will be more harmonious.
3. Prompt first.
Use it in advance after mastering the law of disobedience? Chapter three of the contract? Ways to prevent disobedience. If the child always cries for his parents to hug him when he goes out, he can say hello to the child before going out. Don't be hugged by your mother when you go out today. You are really tired. You can rest for a while before you go, or you won't be taken out again. ?
4. Challenge methods.
Use children's aggressive psychology to stimulate their self-confidence to overcome their disobedience.
5. Appropriate punishment.
For young children, positive education alone is not enough, and appropriate punishment is also an extremely effective means of education. Parents don't have to waste their breath if their children don't eat well. After the meal time, they will take all the food away. In the future, when he is hungry and wants to eat, he can be educated in time and told that this is the result of bad eating. You don't have to worry about hungry bad children. Eating less than one or two meals will not affect their growth and development.
6. Parents' education is unified.
Parents should have the same view when educating their children. Especially when children are willful, parents should unify their requirements. If one is strict and the other is coquetry, then the child's disobedience will only get worse and worse, and it is difficult to correct it.
7. Let the children choose.
Let the child make his own decision among a variety of choices, because it is his own choice, and he will not be embarrassed to lose his temper. If you dare to think, speak and make toys, you will be creative. Should our parents accept it? Obedience is an advantage, but being too obedient is a disadvantage? What should be done to educate children? Manage without dying, live without chaos? .
Years of experience have proved that? Naughty? Children are often better than? Is it honest? Our children are more creative. The reason is that naughty children have a wide range of contacts, their brains are stimulated and their intelligence is activated. So, give the kids some? Disobedient? This space is conducive to improving children's creativity.
Creation needs some time and space. If children are bound and have no free time, how can they create? Parents should give their children more time and space to go? Naughty? , let them have? Naughty? Opportunity gives them the freedom to imagine, to move and to create.
Today, we are here to discuss educational countermeasures about common problems of 3-year-old children. I believe that the parents present here have a deeper understanding of educating their children through discussion and exchange. I also hope that you can introduce your harvest to your parents and friends around you, so that more babies can grow up happily and more parents can avoid detours in the process of educating their children.
▲ As a person engaged in preschool education, the following points are encouraged by parents:
1. Every parent has the responsibility to bring up and educate their children? Instinct? Ability, have confidence in yourself. As long as you love children, have a sense of responsibility and take care of them by instinct, education is actually one of them. For example, when you change a child's diaper and talk to him as a conversation partner, you are helping him to establish his attachment to his parents, establish his emotions and interpersonal relationships that are crucial to his future development, and develop his language at the same time; When you play hide-and-seek with your child, he hides you to catch you, and then you hide him to catch you. This kind of parent-child game not only allows both of you to enjoy family happiness, but also allows children to learn more complicated ways of thinking. Two-way thinking: from the perspective of the captor, the hidden person may think that it is not easy to be found; From the perspective of Tibetans, it is estimated that the people caught may not go anywhere to catch them.
It is not enough to raise and educate children by instinct alone. Learn scientific parenting knowledge, at least don't commit crimes? Sell eggs for malt extract, sell instant noodles to increase children's nutrition, and replace boiled water with various drinks? Wait? Expensive is good? Types of nutritional errors.
3. Scientific parenting knowledge and skills are important, but the concept and mentality of scientific parenting are more important. Parents should be broad-minded, long-sighted, relaxed, not nervous and anxious, and don't compare and demand their children with the little geniuses and prodigies depicted in the media. Children's development has certain rules, but each child is different. As long as we have a correct concept and a good attitude, I believe that while enjoying the joy of raising children, we will also create a good environment for the healthy growth of children! Finally, I want to say: where is the heart, where is the harvest!
2 The importance of early childhood education Children attending early childhood classes are good for their physical and mental health. Mothers can't ignore the role of preschool classes. Please read this article to understand the five irreplaceable benefits of preschool classes. Early education is very important for children to become smart.
Although the word early education is no longer strange to young parents, many parents still don't know what benefits early education classes have for their babies. Practice is the best proof, and the feelings of older mothers should be said to be the most convincing. Let's take a look at the experiences of these mothers.
Whether the early education class is useful or not is not a controversial issue, but in fact, what benefits does the early education class have for the baby? Listen to what an experienced mother says.
Although the word early education is no longer strange to young parents, many parents still don't know what benefits early education classes have for their babies. Practice is the best proof, and the feelings of older mothers should be said to be the most convincing. Let's take a look at the experiences of these mothers.
1. The course content can be used as a guide to education.
Beibei's mother: I haven't been in contact with early education classes, thinking that learning Chinese characters and reciting Tang poems is early education. I learned after class that the content of early education is actually very rich. It involves socializing, fine movements, big movements, puzzle games, parent-child games, music appreciation and so on. Especially puzzle games, some of which are unexpected at home. Even if you look up some games online, it is either too simple, too difficult and unsystematic for your baby. For parents, after class? Work guidance? Classes are only 1 hour, and parents have to review at home. After class, at what age should the baby know and learn, and the purpose is clear. Nishino: As a parent, I also want to learn some advanced parenting concepts. Conceptually, I agree with early education, but how to do it is still very vague. Going to early education classes can inspire us, and we can learn from their experiences and methods.
Little fairy horse: I usually have to go to work. I don't have much time to play with my baby, and I don't know how to play with him. I can learn how to play with him in the early education class.
Zabb: The early intellectual development of infants is very important, but it is impossible for parents to fully grasp this knowledge. Even through magazines, internet and other channels, we can learn this knowledge, but it is scattered knowledge after all, so it is more suitable for professional early education institutions. The most important thing is not how much the baby learns in class, but when he comes home, his parents know how to educate and train the baby.
Dasheng: The experts in the early education class helped us to improve the level of infant feeding, physical development and mental health.
Zabb: Parents can take parent-child courses at the same time, so that they can better learn how to play games with their babies and enhance the feelings of a family of three in the game.
2. It can lay a foundation for entering the park.
Listen to 200 1: If Chen adapts to the environment on the first day of kindergarten, I think? Early education class? Thank you, because in the early education class, the baby is used to getting along with strange adults and babies of the same age, and Ruochen's sociable personality is inseparable from the relevant experience at that time.
Babyrain: My idea is very simple, that is, prepare to go to kindergarten happily, let her experience the collective life, and get in touch with other children more, so as not to be uncomfortable in kindergarten in the future. Through the early education class, I am very happy to understand some rules, such as sitting well in class, how to introduce myself, and where to take the toys.
Zabu: Before the age of three, children's immunity is not high, and they are most likely to get sick. Therefore, it is best not to go to nurseries, kindergartens and other schools before the age of three. But you can choose to go to early education, and slowly learn to adapt to the school's living environment and habits in early education schools.
Zzt: Although we can teach some early education lessons at home, it is very simple, but what the baby needs is an environment and atmosphere, and she also needs friends.
3. Stimulate your baby's efforts
Lulu7588: Contact with children of the same age will stimulate the baby's deficiency. I remember that when the baby learned to walk, she took an early music class. She is afraid to walk because she is afraid of wrestling, but seeing that many children of her age can walk, she especially wants to walk like them. Since that class, the baby can walk as soon as he gets home, which is a qualitative leap.
4. Make your baby happier
Babyrain: Montessori class advocates children to do it themselves, such as making buns, making dumplings and beating eggs themselves. The key is to let them taste the fruits of their labor, which is exactly what they like. She also learned a lot in the early education center, so she was happy to go.
Baby-Hanlin: There are many games in the early education class. The baby likes to play. Have fun when you are in a good mood. Mother is naturally happy when she is in a good mood and finally gets sick.
Zzt: There is a sensory game in our early childhood class, which can't be taught at home, because there aren't so many colorful teaching AIDS at home to attract babies. This game can cultivate comprehensive ability and cooperation ability. The most important thing is that my baby has a good time. You should take part if you can afford it.
Nishino: In the early education class, playing games and toys with other children is very atmospheric. Lesbians are in high spirits, their mouths open wide and sometimes they giggle happily. Without preaching, the baby grows up slowly in games and toys. Lesbians have also become closer to their mothers. When I get home, I often use the games I played and the songs I sang in class, and the little guy is even more interested.
5. The baby's personality and ability have improved.
Babyrain: During these hours in the early education center, she is willing to take the initiative to say hello to others. What she wants is no longer for her mother to tell the teacher, but to ask the teacher herself.
Liwang3339 17 1: The baby can sing and talk. A small mouth is a ballad, and it can sing several songs without repetition. I also think that the baby's language expression ability and thinking ability are obviously better than those of children of the same age.
Fu Jingkun: The baby's language is really advancing by leaps and bounds. After the first class, the baby went home to read a book, as if looking at the numbers. Grandpa, grandma, grandma, grandpa, dad, mom, uncle, aunt, brother, sister, brother and sister? I not only learned the pronunciation of these names, but also sat in the right position completely. When I came back from early education for the second time, I went downstairs and saw that people in the same community were no longer evasive, but kept screaming sweetly? Hello, uncle! Hello, auntie! ? In addition, let the baby slowly know how to express his preferences in words and body.
Cy: After attending the early education class, the baby is more courageous and can actively communicate with teachers and other children. His game ability has also been improved, and his language ability, big movements and fine movements have also been developed to varying degrees.
Experts suggest that 0-3 years old need to receive a good basic education.
? Every child should have the best start in life; Every child should receive a good basic education; Every child should have the opportunity to fully explore his potential and grow into a person who is beneficial to society. ?
In order to better carry out early education, parents should first have the ability to raise their children scientifically and learn some early education knowledge. Because of its professional advantages, early education classes can really provide courses suitable for the baby's age development, and can be used as an auxiliary means for parents to learn early education knowledge. Parents can learn to extend the contents and methods of early education classes to their families. For those parents who don't know how to interact with their babies and how to raise children, they can give some inspiration and guidance to their parents by attending early education classes. However, it should be pointed out that family is the main camp of early education, and parents are the best and most important early education teachers for babies. Early education classes can only be used as an auxiliary means. Parents should combine early education with their baby's daily activities, encourage, induce and help their baby to engage in self-activities so as to gain practical knowledge and experience and integrate early education into life.
Early education cannot be simply equated with intellectual development, and it is not ahead of traditional education. No matter what kind of education, it must be based on appropriate physiological maturity, so as to carry out timely training, which is the basic scientific law. The content of early education is actually very extensive. Good personality habits, healthy emotions and the cultivation of creativity are all important contents of early education, which is a comprehensive education. Some experts also suggested that the cultivation of baby's personality should be the primary task of early education, giving priority to the cultivation of baby's six personalities: happiness, liveliness, quiet concentration, courage and self-confidence, diligence and kindness, and independent creation, because a good personality is the mother of future success.
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