Just like the sisters in the TV series "Happy Story of Happiness and Good Luck", borrowing money at a time can clearly see the relationship between two people, and it can also make the distance between two people farther. It can be said that his happiness was really hurt by borrowing money.
He Lucky took his sister to experience an upscale cafe, but as soon as she spoke, He Lucky quickly said, "Sister, I'm not as rich as I look."
She is also not optimistic about her sister's project of opening an inn in her hometown, and even worries that her sister will affect her: "If you open an inn like Wanjiazhuang, it will be built on someone else's land. Can the two sides not afford conflict then? I am their lawyer, and you are my own sister. What if you let me get caught in the middle? "
At that moment, he was so lucky, so indifferent and so unreasonable that he even gave 1000 yuan at most to subsidize his life. He Xingfu's colleagues and three lawyers from Guan Tao Law Firm all raised funds and spent 30,000 yuan to support He Xingfu's entrepreneurship.
He was lucky enough to forget that her sister paid for her college education, but she dropped out early to pay for her tuition. I forgot, in order to get an explanation for her, my sister would rather come with Wan Ying twice than divorce without compromise.
Even He Lucky's mother, He Mu, realized her cowardice, He Lucky herself realized her cowardice, and He Happiness was still on the way to argue for her sister.
Any happy practice is to prove that my sister is my sister's greatest reliance and the most trustworthy guardian.
When my sister is in trouble, she will do her part; Although my sister is short of money, she obviously drives a car, wears luxury clothes and is on the right track, but she doesn't know her situation at all. In the scene, I said that I am worried that my sister's entrepreneurship is not reliable. In fact, I am very lucky and selfish, and the attribute of baiwenhang is obvious. When you get better, you will forget your family.
There is another thing that is quite irritating. He Xing accidentally learned that her sister was expelled from the early education center and went to work in Guan Tao Law Firm. She thought Guan Tao was looking at her own face and didn't think her sister had any great achievements at all. She said, "You gave my sister a bite."
He thinks that my sister is from the countryside and has no education, which is a fluke. How can she go by herself? He also looked at his brother Guan Tao with a swagger, and didn't like Guan Tao's shabby law firm.
He Xing would never have thought that his sister He Xing used her ability to improvise to help Guan Tao negotiate a cooperation agreement with Frank, a big customer, with a transaction amount of 5 million. This is He Xing's skill. She is aboveboard and has seen the light.
Put these two things together, you will find that, on the surface, he is lucky who doesn't know how to be grateful. In fact, He Lucky looked down on his sister with pride, and looked down on the countryside and rural people in his bones, including his sister who gave up on herself. She is afraid that her sister will surpass herself, so she subconsciously wants to suppress her sister to satisfy her old ideas.
He Xingyun's inferiority complex has long been an inseparable part of her personality and thoughts. She didn't know it, but she tried to show off her sense of superiority, trying to show that she was different from uneducated people, and took it for granted that as a college student, she should live better than her sister who dropped out of school early.
Suddenly, I thought of a sentence that psychologist Adler said: "Inferiority and the pursuit of superiority are two sides of the same basic fact in life, which are inseparable." I am convinced that the more a person likes to bask in the sun, the less he wants. The more obvious a person's sense of superiority is, the more inferior he is. On the other hand, a person's heart is not empty, so there is no need to bluff everywhere.
If she can't give up her sense of superiority and become confident, then she may not live out her true self and really stand up.
Borrowing money can be big or small, especially in small aspects, depending on a person's cultivation, emotional intelligence and all aspects.
Finally, I want to say: complacent, frustrated, open-minded and grateful, a person's road will get wider and wider.