After graduating from college, my friend Jia Ni, like most people, chose to develop in the most prosperous city and always wanted to have his own space in this strange and expensive city.

Jia Ni University majored in English. Her family has contacted the public schools in her hometown for her, and she just wants to open her own early education training institution in this city with her own talent to realize her own value. Her parents cut off her financial resources when she was cruel.

In order to solve the livelihood problem, Jia Ni has applied for the delivery service of Meituan takeaway, made doll toys for the promotion of shopping malls, distributed leaflets and made telemarketing. She has been changing jobs. Now we all think that she will compromise because of reality, either go to the unit contacted by her parents or do English translation work like most students. After all, the translation job pays well and looks good.

Every time she finishes in shopping malls, restaurants and cafes, she has to rush to a training school. In order to get the early education qualification certificate as soon as possible, after working three jobs a day, she had to finish the homework assigned by the teacher in the classroom in the dim light at midnight.

Every night after class, she dragged her tired body under the dim street lamp, and only a long and narrow shadow accompanied her to wait for the last subway. When she was lonely and helpless, she said to herself, "Let's put our ideal at the top of the pyramid first, and I will gradually approach it through constant selection and career change until it is completed."

There are always students in the WeChat group of college students who are constantly exposed to various travel experiences, exotic customs and various unhappiness at work.

However, Jia Ni never complained about her hardships and loneliness. In her own words, "I really envy some people who only do one job all their lives. This is their first and last job, but I insist on changing careers in order to get a job."

After getting the early education qualification certificate, she applied for an early education institution as an assistant. On that day, she posted a sunny picture in a circle of friends, which read: "Insist appropriately in constant choice."

Actually, I understand what she is trying to say. She has been choosing, just trying to get closer to her ideal goal, and now she is getting closer and closer to it.

At first, Jani's so-called assistant job was to keep calling customers and distributing leaflets near the school.

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In a recent chat, Jia Ni told me that after she became familiar with the management and process of early education, she started an early education school for children aged 0-3. Because she attaches importance to early childhood education and management, the school has been doing quite well. On the phone, Jenny's tone is plain and friendly, and there is a faint satisfaction across the telephone line. I understand that she persisted in constant choice and found the best of herself.

At the class reunion, when talking about Jia Ni's entrepreneurial road, one of her classmates said to her with emotion, "You are so lucky. We are still eating nine-to-five materials. When we say that customers are tired into dogs, you have become a boss, a white dress and a fierce and capable workplace elite. "

In fact, only I know that Janie has no luck, but she is doing the most suitable persistence in constant choice.

After going through the most difficult stage in your life or career, you will find that after all the dark clouds and haze, Wan Li is clear and sunny. In the eyes of ignorant people, you are the lucky one blessed by God.

Many times, most people will constantly adjust their life goals and directions because of the changes in time and environment, make the most favorable choice after observing social rules, and then make completely different or even diametrically opposite choices according to the actual situation. Sometimes, these changes are just because the environment is temporarily worse and the ideals and goals are still there. If you can, all you need is proper persistence.

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When I was a child, my partner Jun Xiao's greatest wish was to study hard and go out of the mountains to see the outside world. If possible, he wants to take a train to see the Hulunbeier grassland described in the book. That's when we were herding cattle together. He sat on the grass with a dog's tail in his mouth and his eyes fixed on the ideal depicted in the distance.

Time is like a wisp of smoke, so you have no time to appreciate that wisp of time like smoke, and the reality has arrived.

After graduating from junior high school, I continued to study in high school. Xiaojun dropped out of technical school for a year. We never contacted again, and later I heard that he went to Shenzhen. When I saw Xiaojun again, he was ready to get married and a new building was being built at home.

When chatting, I learned that Xiaojun went out to work in his early years, because he had no education and diploma, he could only do the dirtiest and most tiring work. Later, because there was no skill, four fingers were broken because of machine operation mistakes. Finally, the factory gave him a lot of medical expenses, and most of the houses were built at home with this money.

I asked him, "Do you remember hulun buir grassland?"

He smiled and said, "Those things are far away from me. When I chose a job, I knew I would never have a chance to do these things again. "

Yes, he is not the teenager who dreamed of the outside world. He made a choice with his own behavior. It is even more inappropriate to stick to this road if you don't stick to it.

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Whenever you are faced with a choice, don't hesitate, don't be afraid to suffer hardships, don't be afraid to experience difficult choices, and don't regret after making a choice. You have to believe that life, work and even fate are the results of your own choices and efforts. If you choose the easy road, then you can only have what you have now, because you don't even have the courage to stick to your choice. What are you complaining about?

It is the proper persistence in constant choice that will make others look like you are so lucky and win the luck of life. In fact, I know better than anyone that to do anything well, I need to take my time and persist in constant choice.

The rest of the time, while the years are quiet, let yourself persist in constant choice and be yourself.