Once upon a time, it seemed that parenting could only be taken care of by the role of a mother at home. However, with the development and demand of society, child care has been completely expanded, and more child care institutions have appeared in the market. To a certain extent, this has greatly satisfied the difficulties and shortcomings of some families in raising children, but at the same time it will also bring confusion to some families: do you want to bring children?
The two-year-old baby was sent to a nursery school in Qin Xiao by her mother. She is a second-born baby mother. Dabao is in grade one, and Bauer is over two. Dabao was taken care of by her mother-in-law and sent to school every day. Qin Xiao and her husband went to work to earn money to support their families. However, with the appearance of Bauer, the demand for family environment has changed greatly. My mother-in-law went back to her hometown to see a doctor this year, and my father-in-law was too busy with farm work in her hometown. Her mother-in-law is busy taking care of her brother's two children, so Bauer faces the situation that no one takes care of her.
If you quit your job and don't take care of the children at home, your husband has to raise four people and pay off the mortgage, which is really stressful. What about children who insist on going to work by themselves? After discussion, the husband and wife agreed to send their children to kindergarten for care.
Qin Xiao hurried to see Bauer off in the morning. Smart Bauer just held Qin Xiao's thigh and wouldn't let go. It's already dark after work. See her alone in the classroom waiting for her Bauer, Qin Xiao's heart is really mixed.
She said that if there was nothing she could do, she would not send her children to kindergarten. The child's reluctant eyes are really distressing. No parents in the world want to stay with their children all the time, but the reality is often too cruel.
Under what circumstances will a child be sent to a nursery? Different ways of raising children will be different according to the actual situation of the family, and the reasons for sending children to kindergarten are also different. 1, parents have no time to take care of their children.
Just like Qin Xiao in the above article, because of the pressure of family life, both husband and wife have to work hard to make money. Once the old man at home is sick, the children are really nobody's business. Young children need to be looked after 24 hours a day. It should be the best choice to send children to nursery at this time. After all, there are special teachers there, and children can play with other children and explore their own small world.
2. Parents advocate advanced parenting concepts.
After 80 s and 90 s, it has become the main force of fertility. Compared with the older generation, the concept of parenting of the younger generation of parents has changed greatly. They no longer stick to personal experience, but advocate science and concepts more. Young parents believe that kindergartens can educate their children in all directions and hope that their children can receive some basic educational knowledge in advance.
Do you want the children to go to the nursery? Everything has advantages and disadvantages, and so does letting children go to kindergarten. For parents who care so much about their children, their children's education is extremely important and they can't take a wrong step. Parents should think about this before choosing.
First of all, taking care of classes can never replace the company of parents.
Sending a child to a nursery does not mean that parents can fully demand the responsibility of taking care of their children. For children before the age of 3, the effective companionship of parents is the most critical.
Parents' heartfelt care and love is a warm bed, which can nourish children's confident, cheerful and secure personality, and children can explore the world boldly without fear. On the contrary, once parents miss their children's growth, they just send them to kindergarten in a perfunctory way, and the children can become introverted, nervous and insecure.
Secondly, parents are the best role models to guide children to learn.
Although children can learn some life skills in kindergarten, those are far from enough. Parents are the best examples for children to learn. Children in early childhood lack language development, and children acquire knowledge and skills more through observation and imitation. Parents who spend the longest time with their children are the objects of imitation.
Parents should have the consciousness of guiding their children to grow up, set an example, and turn their own words and actions into ways that children can understand, so that children can feel the true meaning that parents want to express.
In fact, whether children should be sent to kindergarten really varies from person to person. Parents will make different choices in different family environments, but no matter which choice we make, our ultimate goal is to hope that our children can grow up better.
As long as parents are really full of love for their children, I believe that children will thrive!